doskie:
dont mind such men. forgetting they will have daughters some day. life is more complex than sitting in your parlour and designing blanket models to cover everybody. a lady can be decent, naive and nice, but just had her time wasted by someone. its a complicated world out there. not all single ladies at 30are picky or gold diggers and prostitutes. sometimes, circumstances of the real world may warrant a lady, decent as she may be, to settle later than her mates. its a wooly world out there, one may get married at 21 but bear kids for the first time at 32. another may get married at 23 and die at 25. another may get married at 35 and have kids immediately. what about those who got married very early to a psycho that ended up killing them ? are their brothers and parents still happy today that they attended their daughters wedding ? lets learn to mind our business and support each other. because even the men folk, nothing stops a man from getting married at 20. and not everyman with money has found his choice for a wife just because he is financially capable.

Sirlala:


Please cut the crap and stop acting like you don't have an issue. The legal age for a woman to marry is 18. The prescribed aged for a woman to marry according to marriage counselors is 25. You are 13 years past the legal age and 6 years past the admirable age. You need to reevaluate your life to address your issue. Marriage may not be the ultimate goal of life, but we are social animals and we need a companion and likewise, love. Hence, marriage is very important for our human existence and happiness. I am less concerned about who you marry, in view of LGBT rights. Notwithstanding, even LGBTs get married and so not getting married is not an exception or an excuse.

Unmarried people have issues and are irresponsible. Even your friends who are out of marriage left as a result of their irresponsibility. Marriage is tough and for grown-ups, and those who understand what RESPONSIBILITY means. Go and address your issue madam and stop acting like you are normal.

ireneidiva:

Unmarried people are irresponsible? OMG! Where were you raised?

Sirlala:


When you don't acknowledge your issue, you won't solve them and continue to remain the same. Go and solve your issue. You have one at hand.

Enjoy your holidays. Unfortunately for me at this end of the hemisphere, I have got work and off I go.

jessca048:
is like a screw nut from your brain have bolted away, get well soon

jessca048:
too many mentally unstable human roaming around the internet spewing trash everywhere, the government should please come up with a regulatory body to oversee to the affairs of netizens in this country. instead of them to utilize the ten mb borrowed from mtn effectively

milemimi93:
Below is a diagram showing the sizes of Nigerian females' poronima and their age category.

Age 0 to 5 falls under no1
Age 6 to 12 falls under no2-3
Age 13 to 15 falls under no4-5
Age 16 to 24 falls under no6-7
Age 25 to 29 falls under no8
Age 30 and above falls under no9

Source: IWA Nigerian Chapter.

The likes of
cococandy
Preshy561
jessca048
Oyindidi
Sijo01
kimbraa
Pataricatering
NwanyiAwkaetiti

falls under no9

Sirlala:


I have sisters and one is yet to be married and she is 32. She has issues and I have told her that. She has refused to address her issue and as a result, continue to remain single. To make matter unbearable for her, she is the first daughter and her younger ones are married. So let's stop kidding ourselves on this matter. It is simple. I married my wife at 25 and I will never advise anyone to go for a lady at 30 except I see that the lady is genuine and ready to adjust to marital life.

Sirlala:


Apologies, unmarried adults, those of marriageable age, are irresponsible. I don't mean young adults who are still in colleges or eating Mummy thank you.

Kobicove:
Whoever came up with this nonsense is very daft

Mbkite:
Here are the reasons why most men prefer ladies that are above 30years:
1. Most ladies in their 30's hardly NAG.
2. Most ladies in their 30's are matured in mind.
3. Most ladies in their 30's are set for true love and never too interested on a man's MONEY.
4. Most ladies in their 30's are always INDEPENDENT.
5. The longevity of a lady's beauty is seen fully in her 30's.
6. Most ladies in their 30's have no business with DOUBLE DATING.
7. Most ladies in their 30's know how best to CARE for a man. Men will understand what I mean.
8. Most ladies in their 30's know what they want in life, unlike d 20's
9. Most ladies in their 30's have a good DRESS SENSE
10. Most ladies in their 30's are COURAGEOUS.
11. Great, admirable and heartmelting MANNER.

Preshy561:
uncivilized man.

we have his ilks here on NL.

shammimg of ladies by nobodys in this country is outrageous.


even the Prince got married to a lady thays above 30.

men will always want an independent lady,so when she must have struggled her way out,she might just be 30 or close to,then,this type men will spring from nowhere to insult and marriage shame them.


they don't want liabilities,yet,still can't stand an independent lady.

I know there are still sensible men that reason like humans out there,but these type of social media inclined clowns are just becoming something else.

Sirlala:
Please cut the crap and stop acting like you don't have an issue. The legal age for a woman to marry is 18. The prescribed aged for a woman to marry according to marriage counselors is 25. You are 13 years past the legal age and 6 years past the admirable age. You need to reevaluate your life to address your issue. Marriage may not be the ultimate goal of life, but we are social animals and we need a companion and likewise, love. Hence, marriage is very important for our human existence and happiness. I am less concerned about who you marry, in view of LGBT rights. Notwithstanding, even LGBTs get married and so not getting married is not an exception or an excuse.

Unmarried people have issues and are irresponsible. Even your friends who are out of marriage left as a result of their irresponsibility. Marriage is tough and for grown-ups, and those who understand what RESPONSIBILITY means. Go and address your issue madam and stop acting like you are normal.

ireneidiva:
How can unmarried adults be irresponsible? Your marital status makes you responsible? I guess these cheating married men and women are very responsible. Even the married men that write rubbish on nairaland are responsible. Well, what do I know.

IamD18:
They won't be bothered if they aren't guilty and expired, the guilty are always afraid. An unmarried woman of 30 and above is expired, condemned and gone. They are synonymous to bad attitude, frustration, waywardness and depreciated sexual features. That's why they'll always be seen as "Evening-Newpapper ladies" waiting to be rescued by a diiiiik.

Pursuing of career is not an excuse because we have young smart and hardworking married ladies pursuing the same career.

It is too late for men to rescue the mission of evening newspaper ladies. AMEN


They are expired and suicide can be considered as an option for them. Thanks.

whiteTORTIISE:


You couldn't find a partner among these women

Bro, you need 200days fasting and prayer. Your ancestor and town people have join hands to make sure you are not married.

MrBrownJay1:




the reality is that you shouldnt shoot the messenger, and instead understand that this is the message within Nigerian SOCIETY. to change such state of mind, men are not the solution here, WOMEN are. trying to pretend that Nigerian women dont fukc would be a joke... therefore, if we use mathematics, we can clearly understand that a woman (or man) in their 30s, would certainly have a high body count, but, simply because that same society only look down on female high body count shouldnt be a reason to blame MEN for pushing this societal agenda.

let's be real about this!!!

stillondmatter:
Evesn though I don't subscribe to Late marriage (on the part of ladies especially), I would still choose a responsible 30yr old lady over a lady in her 20s who will eventually start craving for divorce barely few months into the marriage.

What makes marriages stand the test of time is NOT AGE but maturity, endurance, understanding and long lasting love.



#Myopinion#

stillondmatter:
Evesn though I don't subscribe to Late marriage (on the part of ladies especially), I would still choose a responsible 30yr old lady over a lady in her 20s who will eventually start craving for divorce barely few months into the marriage.

What makes marriages stand the test of time is NOT AGE but maturity, endurance, understanding and long lasting love.



#Myopinion#

Adasun:
and u think a 30yr old has those qualities u mentioned in ur last paragraph?



Keep deeping ur di.ck in a sewage.

Juillianne:
It is because of Men like that, that some ladies are unmarried at 30. The good and sensible ones have been taken

kense88:
Oga am a guy like you, but i passionately detest most of these stupid comments some guys make. A guy of 30 most have probably bleeped so many ladies as well. In fact am a living witness. The truth is sex is actually fun and enjoyable, why cant you allow women to enjoy sex in peace. How many of you actually ask there mothers or big aunts about there sex life before they got married ? You think they were angels ? you need to think again. How many of you have asked there big sisters why they married after 30

I kind of put my self in the shoes of these ladies, you pressurize to go into marriage.Everyone has the right to wait or choose whoever that pleases him or her. Everyone has the right to put his or her career or life dreams ahead of marriage(please don't tell me you can still achieve your dreams while still married, because when your married, you put husband and children into consideration, before doing anything with regards to your work/job or business). Everyone has the right to marry whenever it pleases him or her.

You also have to consider the financial responsibility that comes with getting married. A responsible woman, would not want to birth a child she is not assured of his/her future.

Sure there are many irresponsible women out there, but there are still some over 30 that have genuine(at least to them) reasons for still staying single.

Jayk1:
nah... that's not the reason

The reason is that her personality is too unpleasant for anyone who doesn't want to fvck her to endure

milemimi93:
Below is a diagram showing the sizes of Nigerian females' poronima and their age category.

Age 0 to 5 falls under no1
Age 6 to 12 falls under no2-3
Age 13 to 15 falls under no4-5
Age 16 to 24 falls under no6-7
Age 25 to 29 falls under no8
Age 30 and above falls under no9

Source: IWA Nigerian Chapter.

The likes of
cococandy
Preshy561
jessca048
Oyindidi
Sijo01
kimbraa
Pataricatering
NwanyiAwkaetiti

falls under no9

HoodBillionaire:
who is looking for a wife pussy niggi

iamsammie:



I have meet a 30+ years lady I wanted to be with but she chased me away with her grumpy, bitter and frustrated attitude.

Ximenez:
I already sent you a pm, there should be something to spice up this world cup period.

flyca:
Broke and broken boys always dishing out insults on women to make themselves feel better.

Go and ask how old the current Duchess of Sussex was when she got married last month. Her name is Merghan Merkel. And the interesting part, it was her second husband. Go google.

By your estimation, unmarried ladies in their 30's will die poor, wretched and lonely. Lol. I know why you feel that way, you hang around indecent women. And they have dangerously dealt with your psyche! And you are highly irredemable

One lady posted her birthday pics here and these same set of boys were dissing her upandan to go and marry, shuuuu? I'm sure these same set of boys will be begging Linda Ikeji to be her houseboy, despite her "smelling pvssy" saga. Lol

Watch it sha. Tiwa Savage is currently in love again. Popular American TV host got married recently at 46! Serena Willams got married at 36! Chimamanda got married at 36!

And the list is endless, so you better go and take two seats!