The secrets to a blissful home and happy marriage is what every married man or woman is supposed to have on their finger tips. Marriage is an institution that is either made to be "enjoyed" or to be "endured" , the ability to make your marriage work depend sorely on you and your partner. Today I will be given you seven (7) great secrets to a blissful home and happy marriage.

These secrets are listed below as follows:

1) Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his or her strength.

2) Everyone has a dark history/past. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

3) Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow "For better for worse". In sickness and in health be there.


4) Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

5) To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Anger
Verbal abuse
_Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone._

6)There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

7) God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire to suit your own taste or specifications.


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