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Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Ranoscky(m): 2:14pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
buh make we talk true OO. . . We men, shebi una know say na men cheat pass? b'cos we'r never tyred of wetin dey under skirt buh all the same, na wetin pleasure dey cause! |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by osazu: 2:23pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Looking at most of the posts here, it is clear that this is really an immoral generation. The generation that run after the inclination of their evil minds,Hell is the end point for all immoral fellows.Even thought the ratio of men to women is 1:100 ,is not enough reason to be unfaithful to your partner.Do you even know that it is the abnormal mind set of men that is prompting God to unleash curses on the earth hence so much evils befalling the world.Repent today and be Heavenly minded.What shall profit you if you enjoy all the beautiful ladies on earth and perish in hell fire. Be wise |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by petebor02(m): 2:45pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
infidelity is not love,wether in courtship or marriage, if u cheat on me,u dont love,and no reason whatsoever justifies infidelity. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by oluagness(m): 2:50pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
d bigrod:Yes, men are always cheat when they see new face that is cute under skirt |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Orikinla(m): 3:01pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
The SECURITY of a COUPLE depends on their FIDELITY. Anyone who cheats on you can as well kill you. Let me be very blunt, because if anyone truly loves you he or she will never cheat on you. Infidelity is an act of betrayal. Adultery is treachery. Imagine a young woman who was homeless and starving and a single man took her in to provide for her. Then she met another man and slept with him within 48 hours without even asking for a drink. Whilst she was sleeping with the new man, the boyfriend was waiting for her, because she lcoked the door to their flat and went away with the keys to sleep with another man. I was dumb founded when I saw her telling lies to her boyfriend. She was one of my models and I dismissed her on that very day for cheating on her boyfriend. A young woman once called that she wanted to see me at my place at 10 pm. "Have you told your boyfriend?" The boyfriend is a good friend. "No," she replied. "Please, tell him and let him escort you," I said. She did not come again and she never tried again. Another young woman asked for money to register for a contest and I told her to let her boyfriend know. "I don't want him to know, because he would not allow me to go for the contest," she said. "Well, I cannot give you any money without his knowledge," I replied. She left and stopped talking to me for a while. Two months later she returned and wanted to flirt. But I showed her the photograph of my woman and told her how much I loved my sweetheart. She sighed and left. Temptations will come. But you can turn your back on cheating and lying. Your life is worth saving than some temporary pleasures of sexual intercourse. If you know you cannot be faithful to your partner, please make it clear and be free in an open relationship of free love. Love is not by force. Infidelity kills. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Yes it is a good enough reason, both biblically. Or if u would like to play the devil`s advocate, do your own too! Or dont u have other admirers? chrisja:I totally agree wit u, We women are the architects of our own perils. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
offtopic - how is it that women forget their undies in a guys place, or are they simply marking their territory? |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
^^^ Maybe they r just leaving it behind so they won't bother coming with another one when next they visit! |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by legendprac(m): 3:25pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Love is a Scam. Simple |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Vavavoom(m): 3:26pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
@ topic, Infidelity- The quality of being unfaithful by either s.ex. A man cheats because of another woman, a woman cheats because of another man. For me it isn't a question of who does it more''bad tin na bad tin'' cos one will find a companion who shares similar promiscuous ideals along the divide. My question has always been this: why can't the seemingly disadvantaged womenman's world some say refuse or stop in their tracks when they discover the cheating trait of the wooing suitor? I can't excuse any man for cheating neither a supposedly civilisedas we like to claim chap who partakes in precambrian acts of the Neandertal era. Nevertheless, if women who in coming together see fit to condenm as abominable such lascivious act then the other woman partakerit takes two for infidelity to thrive as much as culpable. An unwitting single lady gets chased by a married man, gets led through the stages and then she discovers, game changer(think about all the necessary outcomes). It is in the hands of this lady to move on, keep her self esteem and tell the man to go to his wifewhat will most do? Imagine a world where cheating men are told to their faces when discovered, '' go to your wife''. Until women begin to respect themselves and put the other woman in the man's house first then and only then will cheating men begin have no leverage to cheat. Just say NO and you'll have men in check. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Pennywise(m): 3:37pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Orikinla: This is a lie from hell. With all the actions going on you will expect to see bodies everywhere but you dont. Where do you dream up all these from bro? Some mistresses actually believe this kind of thing- that they can breach a secured marriage or relationship to earn themselves a place.It hardly happens and when it does it is not always because of intimacy with a third. Check it out there is always other reason Se.x is a purely physical activity. Affection is emotional. It is wrong to assume they are always mutually inclusive of each other. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by petres007(m): 4:00pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Ujujoan: I think say na only me dey think am o @topic, Yes, infidelity is enough to end a relationship. If it isn't, then what is? |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by maclatunji: 4:06pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
This is like the most stupid question I have seen on Nairaland. It made frontpage too, beyond shocking! |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by kanayo74(m): 4:18pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
infidelity is not enough reason to end a relationship. everything depends on what the parties involved can tolerate. to some infidelity is a norm and accepted while to some its a taboo it all depends on the individual, |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by coschuks(m): 4:42pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
of course yes. it's a very good reason to a relationship no matter how many years the relationship has lasted |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by nnewa: 5:12pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
in as much as i understand the feeling of the partner that feels cheated, can he be truthful about some actions or in actions as serious as cheating on his/her partner that he/she may have engaged in? or is it the 11th commandment 'do not be caught'. if we understand that we are in an imperfect r/ship,can't we find other reasons ( desirable characters the culprit has) that can help wipe away this tot of ending a r/ship.just as one might have been unfaithful sometime, a partner may fall into the pit of unfaithfullness. can you think of some factors that forced one into this unpalatable act? no excuses for the serial cheats though |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Onchedu(m): 5:20pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Are they married? Maybe Kevin runs a secret underwear dry cleaning service and those panties were just work he brought home cos he couldn't finish at the office? Ok seriously, what's she complaining about? Are they married? Is she not doing the same thing with him the other girls are doing? What legal rights does she have to his manhood and what right does he have to his? Humans we no dey hear word. She never near to cruy and no be her go cry last. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by beey2(m): 5:24pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
For a relationship (dating, courtship) YES Sad Sad The only place when you can forgive and give another chance is in marriage, but if he continues then we head to court Angry Angry cos I can't share my man with another, never Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed. Agreed, persistently unrepentant wf/hsb shld b dropped. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by agathamari(f): 6:08pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
princekevo:my number was the 2006 stats. as of 2009 there is 56 million more men then women. 2009 global population statisics show 3,442,850,573men vs 3,386,509,865women. differnce of 56,340,708 nigeria stats show 77,547,502 men vs 77,181,390 women difference of 366,112 http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by dayokanu(m): 6:13pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Its not enough reason to break up |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by DatNiggaAk(m): 6:23pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
when you talk about cheating. men are the only one's allowed to cheat. women are not allowed to cheat unless of course you married a ho, |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by yme1(f): 6:29pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
@topic hell yesssssssssss what is all this blah blah blah talk these guys are voicing out wtf!!! what makes you think women cant do without men? why do we even have F.W.B.(friends with benefit) if you dont want commitment get down do ya thing and fu/ck off anyway i thank God for the men in my lives DatNiggaAk:what century do you think we are living in? |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by DatNiggaAk(m): 6:37pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
gals that sleep around indiscriminately are ho's we men love ho's, but as snoop and the dog pound said, "you can't make a ho a house wife" take them to the club, the movies, the pub, the carribeans, but don't wife them. we love dem ho's but we don't wife dem b4 they start cheating on us, |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Gabangel(m): 6:43pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
If it will give you tears and you are not married , Yes. But if you are married, abstain from sex but keep the person around. He or she will understand the message |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by yme1(f): 6:46pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
DatNiggaAk:^^^^Ând what makes you think the women loves gigolos them gigolos are to be taken to the club, the movies, the pub but not to hussy them them women love them gigolos,they spend their cash on them and walk out like they are piece of sh·it what is good for the goose is good for the gander |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by CarlosVent(m): 7:18pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
any relationship without faithfulnes is dead cos is d foundation is built on dat their mariage must surely hav probs bt what pains me is dat dey dnt know. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by uyakachi(m): 7:19pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
YES !!!!!! YES!!!!!!! AND CAPITAL********** YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!****** VERILLY VERILLY I SAID UNTO U UNLESS SHE IS FAITHFUL .SHE CAN NEVER ENTER INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH ME IT WILL ONLY TAKES GRACE OF GOD TO ALLOW HER |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Ibomade1: 8:28pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
she said ''it's Kelvin again. I found several female undies at his place last weekend'' Kelvin wetin you dey take dem do? LMAO |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by larimo(m): 8:39pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
she should leave immediately. its not healthy at all. if a boyfriend can do this before marriage, what will he not do afterwards (if they get married) |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by ifebunmi: 11:55pm On Jun 07, 2010 |
Yeah, infidelity is enough reason to end a relationship. Wat is good for the goose is also good for gander, the men will not tolerate there women cheat on them with another man, yet they enjoy doing it, it isnt fair.if you can cheat on ur spouse, it also implies u can kill him or her. cheating makes u vunerable to alot of external influences. know exactly wat u want and go for it. so that u dont searching for complimenting qualities elsewhere. |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:15am On Jun 08, 2010 |
Of course it's reason enough to end a relationship! How many female undies at your man's home would it take you to get smart? |
Re: Is Infidelity Enough Reason To End A Relationship? by Nenum(m): 1:57am On Jun 08, 2010 |
@poster: obviously from the look of things (views from NL) Your friend is the only one in Nigeria with a cheating spouse (my pontificate opinion) based on the comment from here, it shows dat most NL's relationship's are free from infidelity. so maybe you sud rephrase your question to read. " Has anyone in this forum experienced infidelity in their current relationship?" What step have they taken or they probably have not found out yet |
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