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The Other Side Of Love by Nobody: 11:08am On Jun 27, 2018
Love is one of the strongest emotion we all
value at a level greater than most things. it
can exist between two or more individuals. It
could be of any type existing. Love of a mother,
father and love between friends, or love
between our parents. It is a sacrosanct feeling,
which has no boundaries, conditions and maybe
referred to as altruistic also at times. Wars
have been fought in the name of love.
Be it love for a woman, love for legislature,
love for the country, love for the freedom etc.
We also go to any lengths for keeping our love
safe fight for it, kill for it , but the most
beautiful part of love is to give without having
any expectation of returns. In this article; aving likely known some positive aspects of love we
will see some of the other side
effects of love many of us may not av known yet.





>>Losing focus, distraction
When in love, we tend to repeatedly think of
the person almost every time. This is not such
an encouraging thing, in fact this accounts for
poor work ethic. It also means that the emotion
of love life is carried on which has such a strong
influence on people that work is neglected or
poorly executed. Keeping the emotions at a bay
when it comes to love, is critical.


>>Sleep deprivation
Once someone’s in love they hardly have a
proper night’s sleep. Possibly thinking and
dreaming or texting, talking to their love. But
this has a very bad effect on their sleep cycle.
It can cause building up weakness for the next
day and other health issues.


>>unhealthy jealousy
When we fall in love, we are become possessive
of that person. In these proceedings getting
jealous is understandable if someone is trying
to take his or her place. But beyond a margin
this jealousy can cause a strain in the
relationship, and make one do really stupid
things in pure anger.


>>time consuming
When you love somebody, you invest so much of
your time into that person you probably don’t
even realize how time passes by. You may spend
hours sending cute memes, pics. Going on
talking on and on is another pathetic time-
consuming activity.


>>breakup
Breaking up with one true love isn’t easy. But
due to some reason if the relationship fails
people literally pave their way to self-
destruction, by resolving to addiction, force
and even to the extent of committing suicides.
>>priority issues
We believe that the most ideal of leading life is
to be loving ourselves. We work hard to make
our lives happen, our careers, interests,
passions and opinions. But in a relationship,
there is a conflict between the tastes or
beliefs which puts the whole love thing to a
huge question, if whether it is worth it.
Therefore, priority issues arise when in
relationship.


Therefore, these are some of
negative effects of love. An essentiality, a
drug which should not be misused.

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