Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!

I would also really appreciate this if you can advise me on how to gain back my strong erection and delayed ejaculation. I'm just confused!

Forgive my typos in the write up



Please move this to front page lalasticlala abeg!

Hmmm

What you should be bothered with is the high cost of Vaselines or the lubricant that you are using in this harsh economy and not about the act of masturbation! Masturbation as an act is harmless. The best way to put an end to masturbation if you wish is not to see it as an evil act or being abnormal, the more you see it as evil, the more you fight with your conscience and the guilt follows after, that you've done an evil act. When it bothers you less, it gets off your mind. Nature is even in support of masturbation, have you wondered why you can't tickle yourself but you can excite your sexual organs?

This tips have helped many people before now and we really hope it helps you.
You have done the first thing which is : accepting you have a problem.
Do follow this steps and we know it will definitely help you.

Stay busy and focused

Find other outlets to spend your time and energy

Play sports, be creative, eat healthy and sleep well

Limit the way you are alone, be with friends & families as much as you can.

Remove everything that can stimulate you in any way to watch porn

Consume fruits and vegetables that increase energy

Find someone to counsel
you through your addiction

Be motivated and never feel ashamed

And lastly try to see a therapist ( you can go to a doctor and the doctor will direct you to one)
All the very best.

My brother don't even think about killing ur self bcuz of this, many have been in same battle and many are still battling tot (single and even married), some end up getting totally free from it while some only succeed in bringing it down to the minimum, some ladies has it worse than we guys, I battled with same years ago and I can tell u am 99% free today, get ur self a good girlfriend who loves sex too, she'll make u loose appetite in watching Porn and de fear of not being able to satisfy her alone makes u run out of porn videos... May God help us

Masturbation, the silent pschological killer.

Lies. I've learnt that alot of lies are in this forum

No fapping
Look for nofap on reddit

KendrickAyomide:
Lies. I've learnt that alot of lies are in this forum

Seriously, I've just told you the truth! I had to create this moniker cuz i already have an active account on here. I'm not lying!

izuch:
Masturbation, the silent pschological killer.

I would be more than happy to live without it one day. But it looks like prayer doesn't work with it. More thing that give me the reason to question religion at times. I have told God all the way I can. I pray all the time! Omg!

Get married ..

DuBLINGreenb:
No fapping
Look for nofap on reddit

But how about the impairments I've developed from it? I'm scared! Omg! I can't even think of having real sex cuz I'm gonna be shamed definitely

In be like say the mods are still not awake

helppppp:


But how about the impairment I've developed from it? I'm scared! Omg! I can't even think of having real sex cuz I'm gonna be shamed definitely

First no fap that's the most important
If you get impaired stuff normal again without stopping fapping you'll still spoil it again.
Then your stuff will relax muscles may get stronger or stem cells or tissue regeneration may help but they may be expensive but I'm sure there should be cheaper alternative's

EzendiEgo1:




Stop confusing yourself and stop giving fear a chance in your life.

I have been Maturbating for 6 good years now never for one day have I blamed myself or have I giving fear a chance.

Maturbation can never make you not to last long while having sex.

MAH NIGGA

EzendiEgo1:




Stop confusing yourself and stop giving fear a chance in your life.

I have been Maturbating for 6 good years now never for one day have I blamed myself or have I giving fear a chance.

Maturbation can never make you not to last long while having sex.

Wow!!! "6 years"!!


4years-------Bsc

2years--------Msc


Technically you have a Masters degree in Self pleasure, keep it up and you are heading for PHD then you can be called Dr Wanky..

EzendiEgo1:




Stop confusing yourself and stop giving fear a chance in your life.

I have been Maturbating for 6 good years now never for one day have I blamed myself or have I giving fear a chance.

Maturbation can never make you not to last long while having sex.

I think I'm gonna have to stop listening to your kinds. I honestly hate the way I feel (if you don't in your case) and I envy guys that are free of it. I want to be like them.

Nigerians can always derive fun in anything....the guy is talking abt something serious you are here talking abt Msc PhD...

Lasting long is a thing of the mind not dick

helppppp:


I would be more than happy to live without it one day. But it looks like prayer doesn't work with it. More thing that give me the reason to question religion at times. I have told God all the way I can. I pray all the time! Omg!

the problem is not God nor religion but you.... do you expect God to come hold your hand whenever you want to maturbate or He should give you stroke so your arms become useless against the act?
Acquire knowledge and learn to discipline yourself. its like stealing and blaming God (or even the devil)...

helppppp:


I think I'm gonna have to stop listening to your kinds. I honestly hate the way I feel (if you don't in your case) and I envy guys that are free of it. I want to be like them.

na anoda tin dey do u my guy, started when I was writing my ssce back in 2006 and up till this moment d journey has been a fulfiling one. I dey fap if I no get phussy around and nothing do me.. in fact, going to fap now.. you need pictures?

Lol this issa killer.. I really don't know how you can quit ehn but bro fapping kills.

Nothing kills motivation and drains youthful energy as masturbation .

I pray you find help soon.

Guys! Please be nice. Can't you see the boy is distressed?

OP, you might want to have a look at this thread; I'm sure it could be of some help.

Good luck

https://www.nairaland.com/3691013/impotent-frustrated

helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.



It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before.

Same here, but fortunately for I met a dude here who helped me with a way through this..

I can help you too... Jst pm me

helppppp:

...even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!

We have the FINAL solutions to your problem, but I doubt you can afford them. It's knowledge and exercise, not drugs. You can't find them anywhere.

AntiIncognito:


Same here, but fortunately for I met a dude here who helped me with a way through this..

I can help you too... Jst pm me

HI I just sent you a pm

Lasticle:


We have the FINAL solutions to your problem, but I doubt you can afford them. It's knowledge and exercise, not drugs. You can't find them anywhere.

Thanks

helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!

Judging from your write-up, the sexual issues that you are battling with are evidently induced by you. But do not worry for there are solutions to them.

You are suffering from premature ejaculation because you ejaculate quickly when you self-service and your brain has been hardwired into following this pattern each time you perform this sexual act. One effective technique of nipping this problem in the bud is to perform the kegel exercise and the hold and release method during masturbation.

The kegel exercise will fortify your PC muscles making it possible to having control of your ejaculation during a sexual intercourse/outercourse. The hold and release method would rewire your brain from ejaculating quickly to lasting longer.

The erectile dysfunction is caused by insufficient blood flow to the blood vessels in your penis. I suggest that you should visit a medical healthcare centre for appropriate diagnosis and treatment or, you can consume fruits and foods that will boost blood flow to your sexual organ.

Lastly, when you have regained your normal sexual life back, desist from masturbation by indulging in activities that will keep your mind astray from the act. Do not stay alone, keep away sexual objects/materials that will lead you to masturbating, exercise and make a resolve to stay away from it because of your previous experience.

I hope that this will really help.

Stopping masturbation is a thing of the mind

Your body cannot stay 21 days without ejaculating sperm on its own

All you have to do is resist the temptation to watch porn and masturbate for 21 days

Your body will reset itself with a wet dream

You can take charge of your life from there and break free

helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!

its easy bro. let's chart on dantepet3000@gmail.com...u will get results only if u are ready.thank Goodness u are still young. its not too late.