l just want to fined out who has the responsibility to call a partiner in a relationship, or should it be 50/50.

anyone should call in a relationship doesnt matter if ur the man or the woman its 50/50

word,girl,word!!!

i think the men, my boyfriend call me most of the time, if he does not he knows i will kill him _{*evil laugh*}

The Man should do the calling..if the lady love you.. she will always call too.. but most expecially, the guyz do the calling...

The guys mostly do the calling. They know that girls read meaning to little stuffs. SO they just sorta 'naturally' do the calling. I am so used to the guy doing the calling, but that don't mean i don't call him in turn. But yeah, lets leave that for the guys. WTF is he doing if he can't call me?

50/50 thingy?? nahh, not my thingy when it comes to who calls who.

hot-angel:



50/50 thingy?? nahh, not my thingy when it comes to who calls who.

4 real gurl.

so guys should be the ones to use the credit most of the times, why cant ladies

Yes they should be.. because they are guys.

dat aint a reason

well i see guyz as the head

in the begining when the love is still hot and 'shacking' the guy should be calling.

and when things start going south, the babe should do the calling... fair?

see, it don't matter. if you begin to see who calls first it becomes a competition thing and ego falls in. Naturally the men starts to do the calling and when a woman deeply falls in love with you she will be calling all the time. Anyways women (i mean matured women) don't want men who run after them and very predictable, they want the man in control, but not too much and become abusive.
don't get me wrong you still need to call your woman to strenghten your relationship with sweet words and so, and that is very important.

dejiolowe:

in the begining when the love is still hot and 'shacking' the guy should be calling.

and when things start going south, the babe should do the calling... fair?

exactly!!!na so e dey be.

man should call,

Both Should Call but the man should call most

Memunah:

Both Should Call but the man should call most

Depends on the understanding between you two

baseless argument as if the girls ever call, duh!

It's supposed to be 50/50

what of if you send her a credit and she choose to flash you will the credit instead of calling you with it, what do you in that case she call other ppl with credit but choose to Flash you with the credit

It shouldn't be a competition thingy. Just cal when you gotta call and regularly too.
Though in most relationships, you find that its the guy that's always calling- either he's so in love or he's trying to impress the babe.

I love it when a man who knows how to talk-me, calls-me! I just purr when that happens, no seriously, guys should call - a lot. Women do it already way toooooooo much

yea
da guy
should call ALOT!!

am i smelling some kinda women empowerment here

Wat a chorus!!! :oGuyz should call, guyz should call, are we gon kill ourselves just becoz we're in one relationship or the other

mizkay:

I love it when a man who knows how to talk-me, calls-me! I just purr when that happens, no seriously, guys should call - a lot. Women do it already way toooooooo much

You wrong.
if you make a guy call you all the time and you call him only on few occasions
one day he'll get fedup and stop calling you as frequent as he does.

if you want to sustain you relationship, you must call him as many time as he call you.
that's love.
then he'll know you care for him as he does for you.

To me it has to be equal or kind of equal, but this depends on the connection you have to your guy or girl. If you really like him/her and you guys are serious, there is nothing wrong in the girl calling the guy as often as he calls her, because it proves that you appreciate and enjoy his calls.

and after all, what is wrong in the girl calling the guy, after all, he is the one providing your credit, so whom do you want to call with your free credit? somebody else?

In this house it is me providing the credit .
But apart from that one can call as often as one likes.
If i feel that am disturbing a man by calling him then something is very wrong in that relationship.

Is it by force a guys must call?

na 50/50 d thin shuld i support.

The woman should call more! Leave the surprising unexpected calls to the guy.

Guys(40%) while bebes(60%). Sisters.come on, we have alot on our mind