Seems like everything’s clear about dating. There are two people who like each other and want to try their luck together. However, the conception of femininity rapidly changes in the modern world. We face an increasing number of strong women today. Their images are cultivated by pop culture, their life circumstances push to accrue power. She loves who she is. When a growing person goes through some difficulties and becomes strong, it is another way of self-realization. She has chosen to be independent and enjoys it now. Thus, you shouldn’t expect she will change her patterns of behavior.

1.Prepare to be a part of her life. Yes, only a part – not the sense of it. Her life is already full: there are career goals to achieve, hobbies to immerse in, her friends and family etc. And, strictly speaking, it is a healthy way of thinking.

2.She will tend to refuse your help. Of course, this doesn’t mean she will never accept it at all. Yet this woman is self-reliant and knows her worth. She might even feel uncomfortable about getting your assistance.

3.Your connection can be very inspiring. Strong people with remarkable accomplishments do give inspiration. Likewise, your girlfriend will seek it in you. In other words, such a woman looks for valuable communication with a man.
4.You will receive a lot of freedom. An independent girl loves to be free so she will likely fall for an independent man. If you are such a man, it is a big plus – you can manage your working tasks or go out with your buddies.

5.She doesn’t want to deal with your jealousy. It is easy to guess that a self-sufficient lady is unready to give up her interests (especially when you pressure on her). By the way, her schedule is often too busy to cheat on you.


6.Yet she still wants to be loved. Her qualities do not make her an alien. Just like any woman, she longs for appreciation, support, advice, and devotion.

7.She needs someone compatible. It’s clear that her relationship with a needy guy won’t last long. Any girl dreams about a partner who would share her life values and views and possess similar traits.

8.She is not afraid of being single. Love is super important in our life but this is not the only treasure we should search for. Besides, there are periods of time when we just want to take a break and focus on some other things.

9.Don’t think she ought to do anything. The mere fact she is your girlfriend doesn’t mean you can put obligations on her against her will. On the other hand, independent people are usually open for discussion. Search for compromises together!

10.She might be (or seem to be) emotionally unavailable. Again, there are many issues outside your relationship that excite or trouble her. Don’t expect her to be overly affectionate even though you definitely know she loves you. Today, young and busy ladies perceive romance differently.

11.She doesn’t like to play stupid games. Like when you take a step forward and two steps back. This may work with dependent girls who don’t know how to entertain themselves. Girls we are talking about in this article are much more determined.
12.Her character is rather peculiar. She may turn out to be stubborn, demanding, bold, aggressive etc. So yeah, this might be scary a little bit. At the same time, these qualities are splendid if people know how to use them right.

13.She is able to take the initiative. Another big perk of dating her is that she can be proactive. Since she doesn’t tend to rely on anyone, she is less afraid of doing deeds. Her self-esteem is adequate enough so even if you think she is a weirdo, this girl won’t really care.

14.She looks for the right person to marry or have a long-term relationship with. Independent girls are usually picky. Keep this in mind and become the bets version of yourself!

15.Her love is pure. You see, a woman if this type can earn money and maintain herself. She is a grown person who is able to manage various problems. If she loves you, it is all because of your rich individuality, not your wealth or social status.


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An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

Kudos. However, your submissions are a bit contradictory and the reason isn't farfetched; you lump the ones whose self-esteem are rooted in weak self-sufficiency with those whose self-esteem are rooted in strong self-sufficiency. The former are toxicity personification (the wannabe feminists), while the latter are harmlessness and harmoniousness personification (strong-minded women).

Independent - emancipated - women whose self-esteem are rooted in weak self-sufficiency are akin to beta men. They're perfect definition of small-mindedness. Only men who're subjugable or ready to self-slave can put up with them. Nothing gives them more pleasure than when they humiliate their men, especially in public, just to give impression that they're in control. And it's always about them - self and self-interest - conscientiousness isn't in their life dictionary. To them impoliteness in particular and vices in general are signs of power and strength, respectively. They tend to mistake people of goodness for weaklings - their inability to differentiate goodness from servility is always their undoing - I don't hold brief for servile men (people).

Meanwhile, independent - emancipated - women whose self-esteem are rooted in strong self-sufficiency are blissfulness and blessings to good men in particular and good people in general. They're perfect definitions of aristocracy and virtuousness. As strong-minded as they're, yet, they're always conscientious, it's not always about them - they aren't usually preoccupied with self and self-interest - but about what's right at any point in time. They know that politeness in particular and goodness in general aren't signs of weakness but that of dignity and strength, respectively. This class of women, when they choose to identify with feminism, they give it a pleasurable taste to savour by all sane and sound people irrespective of one's perspective towards the movement.

I love independent strong women

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

Thats a lie, she will repsect you if you are worthy of the respect

17. You can't find them in Nigeria




Because all the girls in Nigeria are gold diggers

so true!!!

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

Not true! Being independent does not equate being bossy! Some independent ladies still have good morals and values. They are also humble.

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In summary, they're the real slay queens.

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

You are wrong

Can date an independent woman but can't marry one.

Most independent women are feminists and most feminist wants to be captain instead of co-pilot.

Some guys can't put up with bossy women. It very annoying

kk

adegeye38:
I love independent strong women

adegeye38:
I love independent strong women

It’s a pity they don’t love you. Loser!!!

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

Yes Nigerian independent lady

Most men can not handle their taste of independent women.

O Yes! An independent woman anyday, anytime...
Lucky are yee if you find one that has character. But sometimes, they can't have it all.

Kingwizzy16:
17. [s]You can't find them in Nigeria




Because all the girls in Nigeria are gold diggers[/s]

Upgrade yourself, YOU CAN'T FIND INDEPENDENT WOMEN AT YOUR CURRENT LEVEL!

how can u be d man of d house in ds kind of relationship?

Kingwizzy16:


Yes Nigerian independent lady

I like people that says De truth. Wat u just said is true especially dis era

Personally i really don't like independent women, they tend to tilt towards feminism

These are women that will be holding ground with someone. If you talk one them go talk 50 and them go de follow person drag authority for house if married to them.


They are "feminists" that aren't for me!

You are writing about Self Realized Persons, not necessarily women alone. There are two kinds of people, dependent and independents. Dependents are the ones who need support, you find them in both gender, then we have the Self-Realized and you find them in both gender too.

Self realized men prefer self-realized women, but their ego constructs make them go for the dependents, cos they like being worshipped.

Thankfully, with lesbianism and bi-sexuality being pushed forward by Allah-Ishtar Equation, more indepedents are taking their lives into their hands

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

Some Nigerian men prefer to date a dependent woman to massage their 'alpha male' ego.

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

So a woman who depends on a man, is the one that respects?

Nackzy:
An independent woman hardly respects her Man especially when she makes more money than the man

I see there's a new stupid talker in town.

Organism000:
You are writing about Self Realized Persons, not necessarily women alone. There are two kinds of people, dependent and independents. Dependents are the ones who need support, you find them in both gender, then we have the Self-Realized and you find them in both gender too.

Self realized men prefer self-realized women, but their ego constructs make them go for the dependents, cos they like being worshipped.

Thankfully, with lesbianism and bi-sexuality being pushed forward by Allah-Ishtar Equation, more indepedents are taking their lives into their hands

Nice one . You have a grasp of personality psychology.

LordKO:
Kudos. However, your submissions are a bit contradictory, but the reason isn't farfetched; you lump the ones whose self-esteem are rooted in weak self-sufficiency with those whose self-esteem are rooted in strong self-sufficiency. The former are toxicity personifies (the wannabe feminists), while the latter are harmlessness and harmoniousness personifies.

Independent women whose self-esteem are rooted in weak self-sufficiency are akin to beta men. They're perfect definition of small-mindedness. Only men who're subjugable or ready to self-slave can put up with them. Nothing gives them pleasure than when they humiliate their men, especially in public, just to give impression that they're in control. And it's always about them - self and self-interest - conscientiousness isn't in their life dictionary. To them impoliteness in particular and vices in general are signs of power and strength, respectively. They tend to mistake people of goodness for weaklings - their inability to differentiate goodness from servility is always their undoing - I don't hold brief for servile men (people).

Meanwhile, independent women whose self-esteem are rooted in strong self-sufficiency are blissfulness and blessings to good men in particular and good people in general. They're perfect definitions of aristocracy and virtuousness. As strong-minded as they're, yet, they're always conscientious, it's not always about them - they aren't usually preoccupied with self and self-interest - but about what's right at any point in time. They knows that politeness in particular and goodness in general aren't signs of weakness but that of dignity and strength, respectively. This class of women, when they chooses to identify with feminism, gives it a pleasurable taste to savour by all sane and sound people irrespective of one's perspective towards the movement.

This has to be best explanation I have seen in Nairaland for a while .


kudos bro!!

Summary of note;


The "feminist wannabe" are egocentric ladies who derive joy and emancipation from perceived societal vices by shaming men as it pleases them.

While real feminist/ independent ladies are strong willed ladies that still understand the need for mutual respect in the society.