what should I talk about on my first date . should I say my views whom I am , advantages are that , the guy would have an idea of whom he's talking to, disadvantages are he may alter his behavior just to suit mine. so can I be real , or just be neutral to get a feel of what the other party is thinking.
I dunno , u tell me.

i say be real ,be your self no faking nuffin,( if some one is like that with me, i tend to appreciate peeps like that more) , with time you are going to get to know who he really is, it take too much time and energy to be fake and pretend to be who you are not!

_{my 2 cents oh!}

I guess that is more than 2 cents. gracias

the good thing about a first date is that it prolly the only chance u gonna get for him to see the true YOU. say whatever u feel like saying, be a lady and goof around if u want to. have fun!

Yea, i agree with my sistas

be yourself why?? because that's who you are best at being,

when you start faking you get all nervous so as not to deviate from the person you're trying to be, you don't even get to enjoy yourself

the worst part of it is that if the guy gets attracted to your "fake character", it might be difficult for him to love the real you.

yourself/the real you rocks

Hi Gracious,

When you are out on a date the guy wouldnt want to hear you brag about how great you are. He wouldnt be there if he didn’t already think there was at least one thing special about you. Don’t blow it by trying to spell it out for them. Give information if it is asked for _{depending on wat exactly}. Be forthcoming with stories about yourself if it is appropriate but don’t dominate the conversation with your fables of greatness.

Your behavior can set the tone and mood of the evening. Behave like the perfect lady that i believe you are. Be a lady. Expect him to open the door for you, give you his attention, pay for the meal but, treat him with all the respect that he is showing you in doing these things. It is a mutual effort. Give him your attention. Make him feel like a man. Really all it takes is respect and appreciation for who he is. These things are easy and can make the date.

After all said, Good Luck!

'nuff said

yep, enof said,

go ahead now n lets get d feedback on how d date went

gudluck

thanks guys . iice, you hit the nail in the tommy. good one. good one Ugo daniel and the rest of y'all . thanks a bunch. now its left for me not just to be a reader but a doer.
cheerios

Cheers and all da best