The African culture is gradually diminishing. Today, girl child and paid the bride price before the girl become yours. And a girl child is expected to make her parents proud by taking her intended husband to her parents. It quite unfortunate that modernization has done great damage to our mother culture. The result is what we see when a girl or a guy is complaining of his girl / boy friend cheating on her. Today, girls are not ashame of carrying unwanted pregnancy, bastard child. They modernize it They tag it BABY MAMA. Imagine thief complaining of cheating. You stole the girl from her parents and another thief took her from you. Guys since you have not paid her bride-price, she is not all yours. Please stop complaining and do the needful then she is yours.