just when you are at the verge of recovering from the emotional roller-coaster and sleepless nights that precedes a breakup; especially when the breakup was initiated by the other person or you may have even gotten over the breakup and moved on.
You suddenly get a call from your ex-telling you that they want to rebuild the crumbled relationship. Hmm. Believe me, this has got to be one of the hardest decisions to make especially if you are no longer sure about your feelings for them or the fear of rebuilding an otherwise fruitless relationship. The lingering question is ‘should you get back with your ex’? Now, we can’t help you answer that. That is a decision you have to make by yourself. However, we can help guide you in making a favourable decision when your ex wants you back.

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QUESTIONS THAT WILL HELP YOU MAKE YOUR DECISION WHEN YOUR EX WANTS YOU BACK

Below are some of the questions you have to truthfully answer within you to help you make your big decision:
# What led to the breakup? Nobody wants to go back into a relationship only to have the very thing which led to the breakup rear it’s head again. Before you consider getting back with your ex, you have to consider what led to the breakup. Was the breakup based on infidelity, trust issues, did it end with abuses or you both just needed a break? Whatever reason it may be, flexibility is much needed in a relationship. Your ex-has to make up his/ her mind to work towards a better relationship and this means setting aside the very things that led to the breakup in the first place.

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#What’s your trust with them like? Trust is a vital ingredient in any relationship, there’s no way you can get back together with someone you don’t fully trust even if you know the importance of trust in a relationship. Doing this could only mean going back to the very thing you’ve been running away from. But if you fully trust your ex its advisable that when your ex-wants you back, it’s safe to consider it.
#Do you love and miss them? This is one of the many important questions you need to answer before you consider getting back in a relationship with your ex. If you don’t miss them and feel you are better off without them then even you see that signs your ex-misses you, you have no reason to go back! Love is everything. If you no longer have goosebumps when you think about them or you no longer feel the butterflies in your stomach, you might want to decline their offer. Unless of course, you feel you can rekindle the feelings. It’s your decision to make.
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#Why do they want you back? You need to figure out the reason behind their come back. Most times exes come back because they’ve been lonely. However, if your ex-comes back because they’ve realized your importance in their lives, you might want to give them a chance. Communicate with them and make sure they confess the reason before you make any decision. All in all, just be sure they are willing to commit to the relationship more than they did before if ever you plan to consider going back.

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