Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by IbrahimSkiba(f): 4:01pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
delugajackson: Women need empowerment and not equality.
As a woman, the moment you identify with this societal craze called feminism, that's the moment you lose all your senses.
Trust me, 95 percent of those self-acclaimed feminists will automatically turn to ordinary ladies that day. In fact, they will even be the ones sharing table water to the men. |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by RedAlert08(m): 4:01pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Pepsi101: The way and manner the acclaimed feminists will turn to ladies will surprise even houdini.
Hahahahaha Nice one there |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:03pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
izzou:
Yes, I detest the whole feminism idea, but let's stop making the whole saga look childish, and let's stop making it look like we are doing women a favor
AY live, OLIC and other musical concerts are shows too. Do women go there for free?
No law states that any party must be free for women. You want to bill them? Your choice.
I don't see any big deal in asking females to pay. sex sells no women no show no party just a sausage fest |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:04pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
marveangel:
sorry which law again... cos i'm pretty sure that statement isn't in our constitution.. back to the issue i believe what feminists really want is equal benefits and not equal responsibilities no free lunch can't separate the two |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by amethystnnty1: 4:04pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
candy: Truly, Nigerians don't understand the concept of feminism That might be the problem, maybe you can help me out what is your concept of feminism? 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by xtenxive(m): 4:05pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
ibkayee:
Lol if it's free, all well and good but I'd have no problem paying either You should have been Fayose's Chief Political Adviser/Strategist........................he probably would have won yesterday's election |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:07pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
DonPiiko: My crush is a feminist I will treat her so good she will beg me to take her normally. I am sure I can pull that off. this how yanga de go use him hand chook for trouble eye |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by khalids: 4:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
candy:
In simple terms: Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men. Okay. And these are not available in Nigeria... |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Itzonlyme: Lolzzzz...� I will enter as a lady then turn to a feminist after the party� then you are not a feminist but an opportunist and we all know how they end up 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by dingbang(m): 4:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Itzonlyme: Lolzzzz...� I will enter as a lady then turn to a feminist after the party� you will be kicked out. |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
All these nonsense feminist movement online is fake and attention seeking, if you treat a lady right and she is reasonable she will worship the ground you walk on. MIKOLOWISKA: this how yanga de go use him hand chook for trouble eye 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by dingbang(m): 4:09pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
candy: Truly, Nigerians don't understand the concept of feminism no. You girls dont understand the concept of feminism 2 Likes |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by BestDude: 4:14pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
marveangel:
sorry which law again... cos i'm pretty sure that statement isn't in our constitution.. back to the issue i believe what feminists really want is equal benefits and not equal responsibilities they should be ready for the responsibility that comes with the benefits that comes with being a man. Men built the world and are still building! |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by sexdoll: 4:15pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Itzonlyme: Lolzzzz...� I will enter as a lady then turn to a feminist after the party� so who do you think you're deceiving? 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Elexdallas(m): 4:17pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
[quote author=izzou post=69392669] Do women pay for their transport fares? Do women pay for tuition fees? Do women pay for musical concerts, seminars and the likes?? Do women pay their medical, utility, and other bills?
I could go on and on, you know
[/quote Men still give them money for those bills, If the want equality, the should start paying men pride price, settling bills and other things. 2 Likes |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:18pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
DonPiiko: All these nonsense feminist movement online is fake and attention seeking, if you treat a lady right and she is reasonable she will worship the ground you walk on.
42#% divorce rate in USA is not online o. look before you leap 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by princessayesha(f): 4:23pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
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Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
amethystnnty1:
That might be the problem, maybe you can help me out what is your concept of feminism? Feminism is not about hating men or fighting with men like some people- even some so called feminists- portray it to be. Yes, we have radical feminism and liberal feminism, but it's not about hating men but having a level playing field for both sexes. |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Jaqenhghar: 4:35pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
DoTheNeedful: I love this
The best students in my undergrad and grad classes were female. In the places I have worked both men and women were employed. I have had female bosses who I respected so much. Every top university anywhere in the world today admits women. Organizations like Chevron, Google and the likes employ both men and women.
Sometimes, I wonder what these ultra-feminists want. It will make sense to me if they are more bothered about the very vulnerable in the society like making sure every girl have access to quality education and that widows are protected. However, many of them overlook some of these issues. They just appear to be men hater. They don't seem to be concerned about getting the best for women but how to attack men.
Feminists will scream and attack what they describe as "gender roles". They believe such should never exist. However, the mother nature shaped our reproductive organs differently based on the roles they are expected to perform.
If a 45 year old woman is in the same room with a 19 year old boy and a big lizard or snake runs in, the woman will seek cover behind the 19 year old boy. Whether we like it or not, there are gender roles.
Men and women are designed to complement each other in every way. This is the very fact the philosophy of feminist is against. A friend of mine did something to his woman; the hugged him with a teary eyes and told him he made her feel like a woman. To me that statement is both real and powerful. A normal man want to feel like a man and a normal woman want to feel like a woman.
I am a very good cook but when a woman serves me food I feel special. In turn many ladies, no matter how rich will feel loved when their man buy them things, take them out and treat them like queens. There should not be competition among sexes; they should complement themselves.
Those ones you mentioned are just opportunists and are not real activists. They want everything to be given to them because theu are women. They wont read but expect to pass and when they fail they scream marginalization. We have such in every group that is marginalized. Women, Gays, Blacks...... Its up to the group members to weed out those opportunists ifthey are to be taken seriously 2 Likes |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dingbang: no. You girls dont understand the concept of feminism I'm a Sociologist, my research area is gender and I can confidently discuss feminism. |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by virago(f): 4:41pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
marveangel:
sorry which law again... cos i'm pretty sure that statement isn't in our constitution.. back to the issue i believe what feminists really want is equal benefits and not equal responsibilities Women can not have the same benefits as men nor the same responsibilities , however we demand to be treated fairly |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by dingbang(m): 4:43pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
candy:
I'm a Sociologist, my research area is gender and I can confidently discuss feminism. so what's feminism? 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by chigoizie7(m): 4:46pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
izzou:
Do women pay for their transport fares? Do women pay for tuition fees? Do women pay for musical concerts, seminars and the likes?? Do women pay their medical, utility, and other bills?
I could go on and on, you know
Has there been any law in naija stating what a woman can do or cannot do? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Junior66(m): 4:50pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
delugajackson: Women need empowerment and not equality.
As a woman, the moment you identify with this societal craze called feminism, that's the moment you lose all your senses.
Trust me, 95 percent of those self-acclaimed feminists will automatically turn to ordinary ladies that day. In fact, they will even be the ones sharing table water to the men. You sound educated, how come you forgot a feminist can be either male or female? 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dingbang: so what's feminism? Feminism is a set of ideologies that seek equality in the opportunities available to both sexes. Feminism is about fighting social structures that restrict and discriminate against women. Feminism is not saying women should be paid more than men; it is about being judged on the quality of your work and being paid accordingly regardless of sex. Feminism is not saying men should not head organisations, feminism is saying let him head the organisation because he is the best candidate. Feminism seeks fairness to both sexes, not in anyway anti men, just pro women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
DoTheNeedful: I love this
The best students in my undergrad and grad classes were female. In the places I have worked both men and women were employed. I have had female bosses who I respected so much. Every top university anywhere in the world today admits women. Organizations like Chevron, Google and the likes employ both men and women.
Sometimes, I wonder what these ultra-feminists want. It will make sense to me if they are more bothered about the very vulnerable in the society like making sure every girl have access to quality education and that widows are protected. However, many of them overlook some of these issues. They just appear to be men hater. They don't seem to be concerned about getting the best for women but how to attack men.
Feminists will scream and attack what they describe as "gender roles". They believe such should never exist. However, the mother nature shaped our reproductive organs differently based on the roles they are expected to perform.
If a 45 year old woman is in the same room with a 19 year old boy and a big lizard or snake runs in, the woman will seek cover behind the 19 year old boy. Whether we like it or not, there are gender roles.
Men and women are designed to complement each other in every way. This is the very fact the philosophy of feminist is against. A friend of mine did something to his woman; she hugged him with a teary eyes and told him he made her feel like a woman. To me that statement is both real and powerful. A normal man want to feel like a man and a normal woman want to feel like a woman.
I am a very good cook but when a woman serves me food I feel special. In turn many ladies, no matter how rich will feel loved when their man buy them things, take them out and treat them like queens. There should not be competition among sexes; they should complement themselves.
I wish that chimamanda mumu fit see this. 2 Likes |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dingbang: so what's feminism? Here: candy:
Feminism is a set of ideologies that seek equality in the opportunities available to both sexes. Feminism is about fighting social structures that restrict and discriminate against women.
Feminism is not saying women should be paid more than men; it is about being judged on the quality of your work and being paid accordingly regardless of sex. Feminism is not saying men should not head organisations, feminism is saying let him head the organisation because he is the best candidate. Feminism seeks fairness to both sexes, not in anyway anti men, just pro women.
Besides, feminism is not just about women's rights, it seeks equality for all, even gays. |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by dingbang(m): 4:58pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
candy:
Feminism is a set of ideologies that seek equality in the opportunities available to both sexes. Feminism is about fighting social structures that restrict and discriminate against women.
Feminism is not saying women should be paid more than men; it is about being judged on the quality of your work and being paid accordingly regardless of sex. Feminism is not saying men should not head organisations, feminism is saying let him head the organisation because he is the best candidate. Feminism seeks fairness to both sexes, not in anyway anti men, just pro women.
now in a world where ladies will not afford to pay for their dates simply because they feel its the guy who is supposed to pay (they see men as the greater vessels), the feminists amongst them who believe they should be judged equally should be able to assume the responsibilities of a man such as paying for their own bills. 3 Likes |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Very childish post. What is 2k. Most Nigerian men these days are broke as.sss and living off sugar mummies to survive. The so called married ones cannot even put food on the table. The only thing the know how to do is cheat. Nigerian men and their fish brain and ego. |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dingbang: now in a world where ladies will not afford to pay for their dates simply because they feel its the guy who is supposed to pay (they see men as the greater vessels), the feminists amongst them who believe they should be judged equally should be able to assume the responsibilities of a man such as paying for their own bills. A true feminist will not hesitate to pay. A radical feminist will see no reason why men are listed, feminists are listed and ladies are listed. 1 Like |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dingbang: so what's feminism? Fish brain do you understand now, oya go back to your nursery. |
Re: Party Invitation That Is Giving Feminists The Equality They Want by Chukwudi4naija(m): 5:03pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
DoTheNeedful: I love this
The best students in my undergrad and grad classes were female. In the places I have worked both men and women were employed. I have had female bosses who I respected so much. Every top university anywhere in the world today admits women. Organizations like Chevron, Google and the likes employ both men and women.
Sometimes, I wonder what these ultra-feminists want. It will make sense to me if they are more bothered about the very vulnerable in the society like making sure every girl have access to quality education and that widows are protected. However, many of them overlook some of these issues. They just appear to be men hater. They don't seem to be concerned about getting the best for women but how to attack men.
Feminists will scream and attack what they describe as "gender roles". They believe such should never exist. However, the mother nature shaped our reproductive organs differently based on the roles they are expected to perform.
If a 45 year old woman is in the same room with a 19 year old boy and a big lizard or snake runs in, the woman will seek cover behind the 19 year old boy. Whether we like it or not, there are gender roles.
Men and women are designed to complement each other in every way. This is the very fact the philosophy of feminist is against. A friend of mine did something to his woman; she hugged him with teary eyes and told him he made her feel like a woman. To me that statement is both real and powerful. A normal man want to feel like a man and a normal woman want to feel like a woman.
I am a very good cook but when a woman serves me food I feel special. In turn many ladies, no matter how rich will feel loved when their man buy them things, take them out and treat them like queens. There should not be competition among sexes; they should complement themselves.
Your wisdom is epic! You're definitely going places. 1 Like |