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“My name is Oreoluwa, I am 27 and right now, my fear is not solely about losing my relationship of many years but I am also scared about my childhood.

About a month ago, I got deflowered by my boyfriend of four years! Our relationship had been blissful. Everything had been perfect despite the fact that he had to abstain from sex because of me. (Well…) I was a virgin when we met and I had begged him to give me time.

Well, a month ago, after our introduction, I decided it was time and we had sex. He took time to school me about the first time, promised to be gentle and all that.

I braced myself and we even took precautions so the expected blood would not stain the sheets but to my dismay, there was no blood. Not a drop.

The pain was there, I literally felt my body tearing and he was petting me and telling me it would be over soon.
After the whole thing, he looked at me and with a smile told me how ‘He’ made me a woman. We joked about it until we both rose from the bed and the tell tale blood was no where to be found.

He looked at me and I found myself actually searching for blood, the sign that I just got deflowered! Nothing. I was shocked but my shock gave way for fear as I saw his expression. He was angry and disappointed!

How?

He’s still my boyfriend, our wedding plans have not changed, but he’s been cold, hasn’t touched me since. I can’t get into this marriage, without knowing what happened. My mother is no more and there’s really no one to talk to.

I have bothered google for a month, and from what I read, its either my hymen had been tampered with at some point or I had the rare case of ‘no blood virgin’. Every time I tried to bring it up, he changes the topic!

How do I make him understand that he actually made me a woman…I had never being with a man (well, consciously)

I already thought of calling off the wedding, I can’t marry this cold man!

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Tchwwww men and sex. So nothing else about you was important to him, it was all about the virginity

u guys problem

U lied to him that u are a virgin when u are not, its only weak men that agree to no sex relationship

Who Virgin Epp

He smells the lies, and they smell good to him.

Its complicated because it's about trust because one way or the other he might believe U're not being truthful,there are several sides to this your story.And I think he's not being cold it's you.Abeg put yourself into his shoes abeg,Marriage no b beans.this is basis of suspecting each other later,Talk things through.

not all women bleed on their 1st time....also many women could havebeen deflowered via other means without knowing....horse riding etc

the issue here is very simple, communicate with your man and let him understand that you were indeed virgin..... if he doesnt want to believe that then at least, you can count your blessings knowing that you dodged a bullet.

Ur boyfriend doesn't know presence of hymen is what causes blood break from a virgin. And hymen can easily be lost when the vagina is affected by certain activities which stretches it

Even with no blood, your guy ought to have known that you were a V, unless your guy is also a novice. Moreover, what is virginity nowadays when women are running up and down to find an already made soup. My advice to your guy if he can get it, is just to trust you before and after the wedding if actually you yourself are worthy of the trust.




marriage without trust is a dead marriage.

WfBabakhay:
Who Virgin Epp

Hmm

is that pastor asking people to sow seed in dollars your mother

u may have to sow seed to see blood

lalanice:
Tchwwww men and sex. So nothing else about you was important to him, it was all about the virginity

what other thing should matter

do u care about the 7 year old lie this girl has been carrying?