1) Dressing: your dressing says a lot about who you are. people always relate with you based on who they think you are. the reaction evoked by the dresses most girls wear may not be the one they expect but they do a lot to encourage men whose mind are perverted. the revealing top make the men want to see what is left. dress decently and avoid putting on revealing clothes.
2) moving with bad people: a sheep cannot move with a band of wolves and expect to come out unharmed. girls who are always in the company of boys who are known to be rough, smoke, drink or do drugs should not be surprised when the boys force them to sleep with them. some girls thinks that the bad boys will give them protection but the boys cannot even be sure of their own safety.
3) Experimenting with relationship: your respect as a girl or Lady doesn't tied on the number of "Big boys" you have dated or how much money you get from them but to an awareness of who you are and your willingness to work hard in the "Right way" to ensure a better tomorrow no matter how rough things are, at that you have dated many Big boys doesn't help your C.V it even make people think you are a loose.
4) Being in the wrong place: we always say that crime has its highway, its a free way just like an autobahn, if you walk on crime highway, expect to be knocked down. a stray bullet doesn't know who is a good girl or bad girl crime has its conducive environment. do not go to wild parties, be careful with invitation for drink or food and do not move alone in the night.

thank to you all.... say no to rape