this one is just about to add bad baggages to his life.

I knew the Op will open a thread like this someday after declaring his love for one lady, I can't even remember her handle sef. but I didn't expect it will be this quick!

Smiles... Na wa.

The fact you posted that you need (not even a ''want'') a girlfriend is a bad fatal signal that will repel women.

Firstly, women date up and constantly search for clues to assure themselves that they are dating a guy other ladies want. If you are the kind of guy other ladies want, you won't be posting online hunting for a girl. Posting online just goes to show that in real life, all around you, there is no woman your person could attract.

To ''need'' is an unhealthy sign in every mutual relationship. You should want a girl but not need her, she is not air or food that you can't do without.

Ok

pansophist:
The fact you posted that you need (not even a ''want'') a girlfriend is a bad fatal signal that will repel women.

Firstly, women date up and constantly search for clues to assure themselves that they are dating a guy other ladies want. If you are the kind of guy other ladies want, you won't be posting online hunting for a girl. Posting online just goes to show that in real life, all around you, there is no woman your person could attract.

To ''need'' is an unhealthy sign in every mutual relationship. You should want a girl but not need her, she is not air or food that you can't do without.