I have a relationship that I am really tired of, a relationship I believe is fill of deceit and ackwardneess.
Like anything my babe does now is just more of disturb to me than whatever she might have intended. She is that type that want to talk and do video-chat with me always and all this I just see as disturbance.

I don't blame myself that much sha because it is a distance relationship as I am in school likewise herself.
Every moment I just want to break up with her because I believe that love I initially have for her when I initially met her is dead (now I believe love do really dies) but on the other hand I am always feeling guilty as she have done nothing wrong physically to warrant such treatment couple with the fact that she loves me so much and such action will definitely hurt her like I promised her a lot in the beginning na "I will marry you e.t.c".

She just sent me recharge card as usual but I just had to return it as I couldn't stand the deceit I am portraying and as well sent her a text about my feelings(Break-up text).

She hadn't called since then but I am just guilty within.

Please I want to know if I can actually break up with a girl who have not wronged me but just because I don't love her again.

You mean infatuation?

dude ur feelings matters first

From your post you never really loved your woman... It was a childish crush which you mistook for love..after getting under her pants. Trust me You can't simply stop loving someone you truly love at least not without a very solid reason which distance isn't one of ...
And from your post she obviously loves you azz, a girl can never nag a guy she doesn't love... It shows she wanna spend more time you.
Just let her go bro, she deserves someone better! Not people like you and i

Infatuation melts like chocolate placed before a fire. You never loved her
Set this girl free
It’s not fair on her and it’s likely you might end up cheating on her just as a way of getting rid of her. She deserves the truth .
Your guilt is self serving
It benefits only one person
You.
And that’s selfish in itself.

Carry her along in the break up. Don't jilt her. Your reasons should be convincing enough. If your reasons don't convince, your attitude should. But u owe her an apology having made promises to her. Distant relationship should be discouraged as much as it is possible while considering other factors. It also depends on how soon two of u are going to reunite. If not so soon, I advise you breakup and remain ordinary friends especially for her safety as a woman. If she is gona soon come back to where u are or the other way round, consider being patient with her, may be distance is the only thing severing your passion for her. If she is your kind of woman, you should always love her to extent that ordinary distance should not be a barrier. There is a girl I have dated. We are no more in the same location. We are still friends today though no more dating as we already separated peacefully. If I should want to get married now, I will still go for her and I know she still loves me. For nearly two years, we did not speak nor saw each other. But I still love her and stare at her pictures. Eventually, she called and visited recently, and my love for her remained unwavering.

Try to remind yourself why you fell in love with her in the first place. Then if that doesn’t work, try fake breaking up with her, like tell yourself you re no longer in the relationship, and consider how that will make u feel, if you still the same, ask her to give u a break. Dont speak to her for a week, this might be harder for her, if you do not miss her in the end, then tell her you no longer feel anything for her. No need to string her along. Girls dont fall in love easily like guys do, but when they fall, they fall hard.

Though you did a very big mistake by sending back the airtime. Please don't make the mistake of breaking up with a Nigerian girl that still loves you. They can go to any extent to ruin your life if you hurt them. I will rather advice you to give her attitude that will make her walk out of the relationship by her own self. It takes a gradual process to break up with a Nigerian girl. If you rush them, then you gat yourself to be blame.

salvationproject:
I have a relationship that I am really tired of, a relationship I believe is fill of deceit and ackwardneess.
Like anything my babe does now is just more of disturb to me than whatever she might have intended. She is that type that want to talk and do video-chat with me always and all this I just see as disturbance.

I don't blame myself that much sha because it is a distance relationship as I am in school likewise herself.
Every moment I just want to break up with her because I believe that love I initially have for her when I initially met her is dead (now I believe love do really dies) but on the other hand I am always feeling guilty as she have done nothing wrong physically to warrant such treatment couple with the fact that she loves me so much and such action will definitely hurt her like I promised her a lot in the beginning na "I will marry you e.t.c".

She just sent me recharge card as usual but I just had to return it as I couldn't stand the deceit I am portraying and as well sent her a text about my feelings(Break-up text).

She hadn't called since then but I am just guilty within.

Please I want to know if I can actually break up with a girl who have not wronged me but just because I don't love her again.

won't you just send the message already? Or you are waiting till she'd clock 28 after she's done with NYSC and have no much time to start all over again? You better send the thing now my friend and let her get someone else in her school already. Stop wasting her time abeg. Do this very last favour for her on time which she'd appreciate later in life. She'd curse you now buh will thank you later in future.

stubbornman:
Funny how we loose good girls over loosed girls

all thanks to Love. Buh the wise ones venture into it with their brain(s) intact while the foolish ones "Let love lead" buh when TB Joshua said that very statement, he meant the Spiritual love. Buh they didn't understand.

Luxuryconsult:
all thanks to Love. Buh the wise ones venture into it with their brain(s) intact while the foolish ones "Let love lead" buh when TB Joshua said that very statement, he meant the Spiritual love. Buh they didn't understand.

I have a girlfriend.... sometimes I wanna break up with her but I remember how we started and how we resolve issues most times... how she loves me even in the midst of nothing... and is 86% sincere to me...

I just damn the other girls.... ain't worth it.... I value her worth even though she loves more than I love her

She just sent me recharge card as usual but I just had to return it

With the above line, she will just find out this thread is about her if she is a nairalander

salvationproject:
Please I want to know if I can actually break up with a girl who have not wronged me but just because I don't love her again.

of course you can, at least it is better than to stay with someone out of pity!

life is about pleasing yourself and hopefully pleasing your partner in the same process....if for any reason you dont feel good about your r/ship, then do something about it instead of staying there being miserable. its counter productive and just makes it worse.

just be honest with the babe and tell her exactly how you feel and why you dont want to be with her any longer. DO NOT accept to compromise your stand, whether she cries a river or make threats.

salvationproject:
I have a relationship that I am really tired of, a relationship I believe is fill of deceit and ackwardneess.
Like anything my babe does now is just more of disturb to me than whatever she might have intended. She is that type that want to talk and do video-chat with me always and all this I just see as disturbance.

I don't blame myself that much sha because it is a distance relationship as I am in school likewise herself.
Every moment I just want to break up with her because I believe that love I initially have for her when I initially met her is dead (now I believe love do really dies) but on the other hand I am always feeling guilty as she have done nothing wrong physically to warrant such treatment couple with the fact that she loves me so much and such action will definitely hurt her like I promised her a lot in the beginning na "I will marry you e.t.c".

She just sent me recharge card as usual but I just had to return it as I couldn't stand the deceit I am portraying and as well sent her a text about my feelings(Break-up text).

She hadn't called since then but I am just guilty within.

Please I want to know if I can actually break up with a girl who have not wronged me but just because I don't love her again.

The best thing that can ever happened to a young ambitious man is to break up with his dreams Killer called girlfriend

What pains me about u yeye boys is that una type will most definitely end with the wrongest one and then u come and start looking for help from spiritual houses or in the arms of another wrong woman .....I bet u, she will forever be "the one that u lost"...and she on the other hand will marry a man who will love her so much but she won't be able to see it because GUYS like u always leaves a scar!...she deserve better and I wish u didn't enter the relationship with promises of a future!