How would u handle a 15yr girl who is dating a man old enough to be her dad without making her rebel against you?

That is not a date. That is statutory r.ape. If the 15yr old means anything to me I will hang the man by his balls (I know how) and have the girl locked up in her bedroom.

My mother never worried about who would rebel. If you are in Nigeria send her away to boarding school. She will learn from outside what she decided not to learn at home.

na wa oh.
So you worried about he being a rebel and yet, she is a 15 year old kid.
Embarrass the old man and he wont come back

The truth is we don't know the guy. . . We saw lots of erotic massages on her phone when we took it from her as punishment cos she started to nasty behavior. . . We have to beat the truth out of her. She said d guy is in his late 30s and live near her school. . . She refused to take us to him. Main while her phone is stil wit us

Having sick older men hit on a 15 year old is not a new thing but as parents we owe a lot to our kids beyond the usual things like roof over the head, food in your belly etc. You cannot know what is going on with your child when she has things like a cell phone. I still don't understand why kids need phones. Even if they must have one they need to give it back as soon as they walk into the house and it should be only one that all it does is hear/talk. The sad part is that you have no idea what this man or another man could have even convinced her to send to him. It might be hard to digest but this is the reality of today. 15 is a crucial age. She needs a change in environment.

@poster
the work should have been done much before she reach the age of 15.if she doesnt understand that she is doing something wrong, then it will be very difficult to make her understand that NOW (especially not through beatings).

what you could do is call the cops on the pedo FIRST and throw his a$$ in jail, then while she "mourn" the loss of her "bf" try to instill some better values into her head.at 15, it will be easier said than done.

you can call the guy and trap him to come to a meeting by sending him a text msg through your daughter's phone, then when you finally meet him *&%$#@#$