highqueen:

do you even have a life outside women and nairaland?
uduj
lucifershit
igetjoyfromthis
bbbbbbb
shycperpoo

so many useless moniker that can be detected with your insanity,aren't an oldie for this poo.
keep hating on poco,you will surely be consumed one day.
you are only good at being a nuisance and a boisterous tout.
two faced demon.

Chai!! ?*faints*

pocohantas:

The only thing I have said I am, is a misandrist.
Know the difference!

I met a girl about a month ago that feels exactly like you do about men...If you don't mind my asking, WHY? I honestly want to know. Maybe your reason(s) might help me understand her cos the truth is I kinda like her.

TheOdd1sOut:
pocohontas and co. ( amakababy, saff, and oyindidi are the CEOs..) are fighting a losing battle. Without men you gals are incomplete. Malnourished idiots looking for cheap nl fame. Ask your great grandmas whether they weren't okay or alright when female advocacy wasn't a thing

now this is dumb..

Without gals also u r also incomplete, infact no one would exist... The earlier u lots understand that both genders need eachother equally, the better.....

And for the great grandmother trash...gosh can't believe someone would say dat now...our mothers were okay with it doesn't make it right, they were owkay with alot of trash, dey were okay with female circumcisions ,child marriage, only male education etc...... ..

There is nothing wrong with female advocacy, don't know y u have a problem with it, both genders need to be in a symbiosis relationship cause non have a higher authority or power over the other....we r all equal....

Do you believe every human being has a right to live? Do you believe every human being should be able to access basic amenities? Do you believe every human being has a right to vote? Do you think it's fair for anyone to follow their dreams irrespective of their social class, race or gender?

If your answer is yes, you are a feminist.
If your answer is no, you are a douchebag.

While I don't give a f*ck about women who are or are not feminist, I am disgusted when I see people give feminism a wrong definition.
How can I with my senses intact believe that another human being is greater than me,; that another human being has power over me? That I am subordinate to another human being simply because of gender?

Okay,okay I hope we all get this and move forward(who's still threatened by feminism anyway?).

If you are against gender equality,then you should also be against race equality. You should support racism and I don't want to hear you chant"black lives matter!"
You should also agree that the white peeps are more important human beings than black peeps simply because of their skin colour and hair.

If you are all for race equality but against gender equality then it's either you're a dummy(you don't understand something as simple as this) or you are still living in denial.

MizMyColi:
I identify with the basic tenets of feminism.

When will a thread directory be opened for that.

I want my name to be there.

Pocohantas, believe in what you believe. Stay true to yourself. I know the feeling of feeling drowned out from being lampooned for having a different opinion from everyone else.

Thanks sis.
But honestly, I am not one. I identify with the cause on some level, not as a whole. You really do not know how silly these guys can be, if a woman kills her husband now, they will say she is a feminist
That's how much they have abused that word.

If I do or say something bad, put it on me. Not feminism.
That way I don't spoil the reputation of its true advocates.

As for the marriage taunts, they have been on it for long. Doesn't bother me one bit. That's all they got in their arsenal for now

Thanks for the kind words

Kinggnicole:
Do you believe every human being has a right to live? Do you believe every human being should be able to access basic amenities? Do you believe every human being has a right to vote? Do you think it's fair for anyone to follow their dreams irrespective of their social class, race or gender?

If your answer is yes, you are a feminist.
If your answer is no, you are a douchebag.

While I don't give a f*ck about women who are or are not feminist, I am disgusted when I see people give feminism a wrong definition.
How can I with my senses intact believe that another human being is greater than me,; that another human being has power over me? That I am subordinate to another human being simply because of gender?

Okay,okay I hope we all get this and move forward(who's still threatened by feminism anyway?).

If you are against gender equality,then you should also be against race equality. You should support racism and I don't want to hear you chant"black lives matter!"
You should also agree that the white peeps are more important human beings than black peeps simply because of their skin colour and hair.

If you are all for race equality but against gender equality then it's either you're a dummy(you don't understand something as simple as this) or you are still living in denial.

There will always be inequality whether you like it or not.

Equality is a mirage. Equality is a fallacy. Men will always hold the real power. You can't change it.

But this is not to say women don't deserve equal rights with men. But even with equal rights, there will still not be equality. It is like in Ancient Carthage, where it appeared like they had a republic when in fact it was a plutocracy.

highqueen:

do you even have a life outside women and nairaland?
udujlucifershitigetjoyfromthisbbbbbbbshycperpoo

so many useless moniker that can be detected with your insanity,aren't an oldie for this poo.
keep hating on poco,you will surely be consumed one day.
you are only good at being a nuisance and a boisterous tout.
two faced demon.

Don't mind these idiots. They wanna shut all the female voices, so they can have fun bullying ladies here. I wonder why they don't open threads for our resident alpha males, who spend all their e-life berating women. They enjoy that one. Only séun can deactivate this account

pocohantas:


Thanks sis.
But honestly, I am not one. I identify with the cause on some level, not as a whole. You really do not know how silly these guys can be, if a woman kills her husband now, they will say she is a feminist
That's how much they have abused that word.

If I do or say something bad, put it on me. Not feminism.
That way I don't spoil the reputation of its true advocates.

As for the marriage taunts, they have been on it for long. Doesn't bother me one bit. That's all they got in their arsenal for now

Thanks for the kind words

Welcome

Everyone, even the so-called anti-feminists identifies with the cause on some level. Everyone.
Most are just living in denial.

Good to know you're doing great.

Cheers

MizMyColi:


Welcome

Everyone, even the so-called anti-feminists identifies with the cause on some level. Everyone.
Most are just living in denial.

Good to know you're doing great.

Cheers

I'm just looking at you with one eye. Make December reach fess.

Afrosamurai was here

pocohantas:


Don't mind these idiots. They wanna shut all the female voices, so they can have a fun bullying ladies here. I wonder why they they don't open threads for our resident alpha males, who spend all their e-life berating women. They enjoy that one. Only séun can deactivate this account

My sweet, sweet Cupcake.

It's no wonder many of this self style nairaland women girls only feel safe masking under the cover of Nairaland's anonymity.

Thegamingorca:
Afrosam urai was here

no I wasn't.

But why can't everyone just be allowed to hold their own opinion?! Must we always fight over opinions? Opinions are not facts. So when someone makes one and you want to disagree, there are respectful ways of doing that without trying to put anyone 'down'.

Thing I've come to realise is this, people who try very hard to put people down online are those who are lacking in real life. Their lives are mostly without substance. So the only time they get to have a sense of importance is when they come online to prey on those they consider to be weak. And for some of them, a female is already weak by the mere fact that she is one.

BluntBoy:


There will always be inequality whether you like it or not.

Equality is a mirage. Equality is a fallacy. Men will always hold the real power. You can't change it.

But this is not to say women don't deserve equal rights with men. But even with equal rights, there will still not be equality. It is like in Ancient Cartage, where it appeared like they had a republic when in fact it was a plutocracy.

Lol...Dont be so sure. A lot has changed. How do you comfortably say things like this? Does this honestly make any logical sense to you? I cringe at the possibility.

I know all human beings are not equal. But this has nothing to do with gender or race. ACTION. That's the word. Your actions and inactions. Why are the whites light years ahead of the black,is it because of their skin colour? No,right? They put in work to make life easier for themselves and have consciously put in effort to progress. Are they the leading world powers because of their skin colour?,no! They put in the necessary action .

In relation to the topic,Ada is a lady who has put in the necessary work to get to the position of power she is in now. Obi is a man who instead of working wasted his time drinking and doing nothing meaningful with his time. Who is the greater human being here? Ada or Obi (or Adaobi,lol). Seriously who?
Ada right? Is it because of her gender? No. She put in the necessary work. Action!

You can't tell me a woman is your subordinate simply because youre a man. That's a joke.

All humans are not equal but it has nothing to do with gender or race.
Survival of the fittest right? In this case,the fittest is the person who puts in the work necessary to get ahead of the pack and stay ahead. Anyone can do this irrespective of their gender.

zicoraads:

My sweet, sweet Cupcake.

Yes love, they will soon say I have hypnotised you.
Better behave, don't speak sense like this post below. It's against the section's Guys Code.

zicoraads:
But why can't everyone just be allowed to hold their own opinion?! Must we always fight over opinions? Opinions are not facts. So when someone makes one and you want to disagree, there are respectful ways of doing that without trying to put anyone 'down'.

Thing I've come to realise is this, people who try very hard to put people down online are those who are lacking in real life. Their lives are mostly without substance. So the only time they get to have a sense of importance is when they come online to prey on those they consider to be weak. And for some of them, a female is already weak by the mere fact that she is one.

pocohantas:


Yes love, they will soon say I have hypnotised you.
Better behave, don't speak sense like this post below. It's against the sections Guys Code.

They know where to take that BS, not with me.

Ehen, na boys want come hypnotize me before? Romance section is for chasing ladies biko, not fighting all over the place.

And which guys?! At this age and level, I'll be concerned about the ramblings of random boys online? No nau.

Kinggnicole:



Lol...Dont be so sure. A lot has changed. How do you comfortably say things like this? Does this honestly make any logical sense to you? I cringe at the possibility.

I know all human beings are not equal. But this has nothing to do with gender or race. ACTION. That's the word. Your actions and inactions. Why are the whites light years ahead of the black,is it because of their skin colour? No,right? They put in work to make life easier for themselves and have consciously put in effort to progress. Are they the leading world powers because of their skin colour?,no! They put in the necessary action .

In relation to the topic,Ada is a lady who has put in the necessary work to get to the position of power she is in now. Obi is a man who instead of working wasted his time drinking and doing nothing meaningful with his time. Who is the greater human being here? Ada or Obi (or Adaobi,lol). Seriously who?
Ada right? Is it because of her gender? No. She put in the necessary work. Action!

You can't tell me a woman is your subordinate simply because youre a man. That's a joke.

All humans are not equal but it has nothing to do with gender or race.
Survival of the fittest right? In this case,the fittest is the person who puts in the work necessary to get ahead of the pack and stay ahead. Anyone can do this irrespective of their gender.









I'm a lady building

How do I comfortably say something like what? It is human nature and no matter how you try, men will always hold the real power.

You used your example rather sparingly. The issue is not about "greatness" but "equality". Anyone can achieve greatness by dints of hardwork but achieving equality is not as straightforward. Greatness can be achieved irrespective of gender. Women such as Amina of Zauzza achieved greatness but it didn't change the patriarchal order in their respective empires.

Cleopatra VII Philopator achieved greatness but the world she lived in was highly patriarchal. Her army generals and those in whom the power to expand rested were men.

Things have happened a lot. Women can now vote and hold office. But how come you people are still clamoring for equality. You already have equal rights enshrined in the constitutions of many countries but still why are you still clamoring? In Croatia, the president is a woman and yet only last year, feminists still clamored there.

Gender equality will only happen if you wipe men out of the surface of the earth or you all become like Amina of Zauzza.

BluntBoy:


How do I comfortably say something like what? It is human nature and no matter how you try, men will always hold the real power.

You used your example rather sparingly. The issue is not about "greatness" but "equality". Anyone can achieve greatness by dints of hardwork but achieving equality is not as straightforward. Greatness can be achieved irrespective of gender. Women such as Amina of Zauzza achieved greatness but it didn't change the patriarchal order in their respective empires.

Cleopatra VII Philopator achieved greatness but the world she lived in was highly patriarchal. Her army generals and those in whom the power to expand rested were men.

Things have happened a lot. Women can now vote and hold office. But how come you people are still clamoring for equality. You already have equal rights enshrined in the constitutions of many countries but still why are you still clamoring? In Croatia, the president is a woman and yet only last year, feminists still clamored there.

Gender equality will only happen if you wipe men out of the surface of the earth or you all become like Amina of Zauzza.

Lol...ok.sir. No be fight.

Weldone.

Kinggnicole:



Lol...Dont be so sure. A lot has changed. How do you comfortably say things like this? Does this honestly make any logical sense to you? I cringe at the possibility.

I know all human beings are not equal. But this has nothing to do with gender or race. ACTION. That's the word. Your actions and inactions. Why are the whites light years ahead of the black,is it because of their skin colour? No,right? They put in work to make life easier for themselves and have consciously put in effort to progress. Are they the leading world powers because of their skin colour?,no! They put in the necessary action .

In relation to the topic,Ada is a lady who has put in the necessary work to get to the position of power she is in now. Obi is a man who instead of working wasted his time drinking and doing nothing meaningful with his time. Who is the greater human being here? Ada or Obi (or Adaobi,lol). Seriously who?
Ada right? Is it because of her gender? No. She put in the necessary work. Action!

You can't tell me a woman is your subordinate simply because youre a man. That's a joke.

All humans are not equal but it has nothing to do with gender or race.
Survival of the fittest right? In this case,the fittest is the person who puts in the work necessary to get ahead of the pack and stay ahead. Anyone can do this irrespective of their gender.









I'm a lady building

Kinggnicole:


Lol...ok.sir. No be fight.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Weldone.

Nawa o

So, you are taking sides with her against me?? You don't love me right? OK.

zicoraads:

I'm just looking at you with one eye. Make December reach fess.

Abeg wetin dey happen for December? Tell me something I knoweth not.

BluntBoy:


Nawa o

So, you are taking sides with her against me?? You don't love me right? OK.

Ah no ooo.
It is not what you think it is not personal.

I just share her opinion all these issues cannot spoil our love biko.

Social media fantasy

Reality go soon reset all of una brain.

zicoraads:

They know where to take that BS, not with me.

Ehen, na boys want come hypnotize me before? Romance section is for chasing ladies biko, not fighting all over the place.

And which guys?! At this age and level, I'll be concerned about the ramblings of random boys online? No nau.

LOL, na babes suppose hypotise you. You made good points, only people that are lacking in real life come online to put others down. I can make some really stupid posts, which I don't can't even find myself doing anymore...and that's about it. Going a step further to bully or troll anyone is a new kinda low to me, one I would never ever sink to. But then, that's me.

MizMyColi:


Abeg wetin dey happen for December? Tell me something I knoweth not.

I screen grabbed that last year's Christmas giveaway. I am patiently waiting for this year's own, and your promise to me. And I'm coming to Lagos to redeem. Make I come, no see you. Fight go burst.

pocohantas:


LOL, na babes suppose hypotise you. You made good points, only people that are lacking in real life come online to put others down. I can make some really stupid posts, which I don't can't even find myself doing anymore...and that's about it. Going a step further to bully or troll anyone is a new kinda low to me, one I would never ever sink to. But then, that's me.

That's maturity and a sense of self-worth. None of it or them matter. Family, friends and loved ones do. Just play around it and ignore for the most part. It is not a sign of weakness, but maturity and strength.

Ehen, where my egusi?

zicoraads:

That's maturity and a sense of self-worth. None of it or them matter. Family, friends and loved ones do. Just play around it and ignore for the most part. It is not a sign of weakness, but maturity and strength.

Ehen, where my egusi?

Sure dear...I will do just that.
Oh, the recipe. What do you even have to cook with?

Chai! My future husband has to be a foodie o...

pocohantas:


Sure dear...I will do just that.
Oh, the recipe. What do you even have to cook with?

Chai! My future husband has to be a foodie o...

Dunno ooooo. I had to boil and fry and pepper that chicken sef. I felt it was in the freezer for too long. The picture is on that food thread.

Maybe just egusi nau...erm, ugu I think...and goat meat?

Something like this picture below

The picture started the egusi soup craving

zicoraads:

Dunno ooooo. I had to boil and fry and pepper that chicken sef. I felt it was in the freezer for too long. The picture is on that food thread.

Maybe just egusi nau...erm, ugu I think...and goat meat?

Something like this picture below

The picture started the egusi soup craving

I find this soup/food very creepy, maybe it is just me. The plate didn't make it any better. Did you eat the chicken after all the frying and peppering? Lemme go check out the picture.

Na today you wan cook?

zicoraads:

I screen grabbed that last year's Christmas giveaway. I am patiently waiting for this year's own, and your promise to me. And I'm coming to Lagos to redeem. Make I come, no see you. Fight go burst.

But you won't see me.