Pataricatering:
Men can have variety- it’s in their dna but women it’s greed and covetousness ? So daft ! Op go and do your research before writing articles above your intelligence level ! It’s not only men that are wired to have multiple partners ! Men have just bullied women into repressing their own sexuality !

itsmeurLady:
From the comments written above me, u would know that Nigerians have completely lost it without them knowing it. If you support this trend, then something is wrong with you but you just don't know it yet. Marriage is not child's play that's y we need to pray first before we get into it. Marriage is work, it is not for one person alone. At the end of the day, Marriage is for Two Responsible Adults not now that you have irresponsible lots going into it.

Angelina996:

Seriously...?!

Earthbound:

Continue trying to justify promiscuity. It won't work. Remember I said I was writing from a guilty point of view. Just because you want to stand on the gender end of the argument doesn't make it right. Enjoy your multiple partners.

itsmeurLady:
From the comments written above me, u would know that Nigerians have completely lost it without them knowing it. If you support this trend, then something is wrong with you but you just don't know it yet. Marriage is not child's play that's y we need to pray first before we get into it. Marriage is work, it is not for one person alone. At the end of the day, Marriage is for Two Responsible Adults not now that you have irresponsible lots going into it.

Pataricatering:
Men can have variety- it’s in their dna but women it’s greed and covetousness ? So daft ! Op go and do your research before writing articles above your intelligence level ! It’s not only men that are wired to have multiple partners ! Men have just bullied women into repressing their own sexuality !

Coldfeets:
As a nigga, I prefer baby mama to marriage.

Less stress. no cleaning up after a lazy entitled man

Free to mingle.woo hoo. perfect

Wide variety in sex.exactly. And the great thing is women don’t even have to work hard to find a fvck mate

No stupid or greedy in-laws to deal with. especially if the in-laws are Nigerian. No one to come to your house and act like you owe them for marrying their son. Perfect life

And no fancy wedding. well this is relative. Some ladies more or may not want this

No controlling, clingy, jealous or spying wife to deal with. nail on the head. Imagine a controlling , possessive husband. Away with that

And even much more better still, no issue of cheating wife to deal with. and no cheating husband to deal with. Life doesn’t get better

Man fully focused on his careers and hobbies. especially since marriage holds women back so so so much. She won’t have to deal with a man who’s not in agreement with her working on her career like she wants. I personally think this is the BEST perk of being single

No regrets or depressing thoughts about wifey getting old and unattractive. yea those pot bellies, bad breath and man booobs aren’t attractive at all. Not to mention the men’s penisess shrivel when they get older. Don’t have to deal with that

No divorce issues at all. I agree

And most importantly...

No need whatsoever for having women (with their unending problems and issues) around. Peace perfect peace

Baby mama era is the real deal.

Any sensible man who really wants to experience total peace of mind should ditch the whole idea of marriage and go for baby mama.

Marriage has little or nothing to offer men. not only does it not have much to offer women, if takes much away too

He who has ears let him hear what the spirit says...

cococandy:
All these sound great from a female point of view as well

But guess what, it is a wonderful thing when two people who aren’t thinking of just themselves get into it together. So instead of disparaging the whole institution and using it as an opportunity to insult women, you could simple say that it’s not for you personally and move on.

Chubhie:
If marriage was perfect for humans, there would be no space for baby papa and mama to thrive.

This baby mama and papa phenomena is a response to the failures and perceived emasculation of the animal instincts of humans in marriage.

This current trend is a phase, a transition in mans attempt to discover the model best suited for them just for the bragging rights to be called higher animals.

It's rather embarrassing that the animals we share God's earth with are at peace with the concept of procreation and companionship while the assumed higher animals suffer.

Evince:


i think u are right with ur opinion. The God story and the mandate for us to marry and remain with one is actually boring and full of suffering . reason why 99% of girls are dating married men while 50% of guys are knacking married women.
other animals feel free to knack anytime with whom they choose with no strings attached

itsmeurLady:
From the comments written above me, u would know that Nigerians have completely lost it without them knowing it. If you support this trend, then something is wrong with you but you just don't know it yet. Marriage is not child's play that's y we need to pray first before we get into it. Marriage is work, it is not for one person alone. At the end of the day, Marriage is for Two Responsible Adults not now that you have irresponsible lots going into it.

Originalsly:


OP...don't get it twisted. ...baby mama/ baby daddy is Black American slang for the unwed mother/father the child. Has the mainstream media sooo brainwashed you that you believe Whites don't have baby mama/baby daddy?....or are irresponsible and often get impregnated by men who do not marry them? What you need to know is Black women are wayyy more likely not to terminate the pregnancy than Whites. Baby mama/daddy always been around..... if you're so concerned about this...then you should be up in arms against the faster rise of abortions and gay lifestyle. Just don't mislead others into believing baby mama/daddy is restricted to Black Americans...and they are proud of it.