Sir, is it right for couples to watch pornographic movies?

Dear Nairalanders, I don't advise any couple to do so, because of its negativism in your marriage. Go for marriage seminars. Sex is 90% practical and 20% theory. Engage in sex with your partner always. Be free to tell him or her what you want during sex not after sex you start telling the person.

Now let's look at the negativities of porns in your marriage.

1. It invites unclean and satanic spirits into the marriage.

2. It creates an unrealistic expectation in the mind of the spouse when it comes to their sexual relationship.

3. It brings about dissatisfaction in the marriage bed.

4. It breeds secrecy and dark practices in the marriage.

5. It corrupts the heart and mind of the spouse giving to it.

6. It leads to spiritual and physical adultery.

7. It could encourage masturbation instead of having sex with his or her spouse.

8. It could lead to family shame and disgrace when one is caught.

9. Family finance is wasted to pay for paid porn sites and videos.

10. It is a sin and sin is a reproach to any family.

11. It could affect family harmony as time is devoted to porn instead of your spouse.

12. You cannot be watching porn and still maintains fellowship with God. The spouse becomes disconnected from God and could risk the wrath of God.