I always hate it when ladies form hard to get. But on a more mature look of things a girl that said yes to you easily won't she say yes to another guy easily?But on a flipside she might not really be into you thats why she's fforming hard to get. Buh all in all girls that gives a lot of trouble sometimes might be the best bet cos some of them dont give in to guys easily. My own opinion though what do you think?

Not all girls who say yes easily are cheap (you may be the one she likes)

Not all girls who form hard to get are of worth (Shes definitely cheap for someone else)

The mind nature of girls differ

Most girls don't understand the psychy of rejection a guy feels when they say no especially rudely.

Maturity among girls isn't a matter of age, though most get mature at later 20s approaching 30.

...My thoughts from my experience ...

It depends on what you tag as hard to get.....Some girls use that period of time to think about it or to access you before saying yes or NO

Who tell you that one?

Playing hard to get means she’s not into you

Saff:
Playing hard to get means she’s not into you

Tell him. Or his game (sweetmouthlogy or packaging) isn't good.

Saff:
Playing hard to get means she’s not into you

So true.

She may be playing hard to get to you and being an easy lay to another guy, fact.

Cinderella5:
So true.

She may be playing hard to get to you and being an easy lay to another guy, fact.

exactly. When I really like a guy, I won’t give him any problems/wahala

Op that is not correct

If she is a principled one , You may be right

Babyforever:
It depends on what you tag as hard to get.....Some girls use that period of time to think about it or to access you before saying yes or NO

hmmm thats true

Cinderella5:
So true.

She may be playing hard to get to you and being an easy lay to another guy, fact.

but at my age I really like to take things slow. most girls even complain that I too dey dull

Saff:
exactly. When I really like a guy, I won’t give him any problems/wahala

and he won't treat u like a cheap slut?

miracle956:

and he won't treat u like a cheap slut?

you guys don’t know what you want

Saff:
you guys don’t know what you want

Thought the main purpose of hard to get is to make him value you

Saff:
you guys don’t know what you want

No, we do know what we want.
The problem is: we got the process wrong most of the time.
Just like the @Op is getting it now.
When a girl is into a guy and accept dating him easily, the guy will consider her being cheap and will fail to value her. Not knowing that the girl give in easily because she was already interested in him. And that the same girl is giving another guy really tough time to get.

It is only few men that understands the process and usually value girls that fall easily for them.

CosmicJames:

No, we do know what we want.
The problem is: we got the process wrong most of the time.
Just like the @Op is getting it now.
When a girl is into a guy and accept dating him easily, the guy will consider her being cheap and will fail to value her. Not knowing that the girl give in easily because she was already interested in him. And that the same girl is giving another guy really tough time to get.

It is only few men that understands the process and usually value girls that fall easily for them.

you are childish. Grow up

Saff:
exactly. When I really like a guy, I won’t give him any problems/wahala

are you the same person as saffiapussy

you are talking nansense...a cheat is a cheat..either she forms hard or easy... cheaters are liable to die young

says who

op is dat why we send you to school.. how old ar you dt you don dey follow gals .me ur papa sef i no dey follow gals ..anyway son my advice to u b sey make u dey follow women not gals because dey are more mature..

Guys are crystal clear on what they want....the pussy.

The ladies on the other hand do not really know what they want.

First it will be friendly things, if she is catching on some feelings she will move the "situation"to relationship/dating, after which they want possession and marriage, on the other hand, if the lady ain't feeling the guy or herself, she will move the "situation" to maga zone -that is when the guy starts paying for all she wants rewarded with some pity Bleep here and there.

OP na learner, the fact is that a girl may be playing hard to get to you but an easy lay to others.

The skill is to learn when to pitch or play the "two can play the game" card.

The top players know when it is about to rain a pussy and when it ends up in a No, he enjoys the chase and take it in his strides as there is really no "NO" but every "NO" is opportunity to learn and perfect your craft.

In more cases than not, an opportunity to know the girl.

elkon:
op is dat why we send you to school.. how old ar you dt you don dey follow gals .me ur papa sef i no dey follow gals ..anyway son my advice to u b sey make u dey follow women not gals because dey are more mature..

Saff:
you are childish. Grow up

Sorry that you didn't understand.
The explanation isn't about myself.
It is about how men are wired.
That's why I used the word (We) meaning (Men)

Except you mean to say men are childish, and that they should grow up.
Which of course is out of place.

Try to read and understand

Saff:
Playing hard to get means she’s not into you

at times, the end tells a different story from what you just typed

miracle956:
I always hate it when ladies form hard to get. But on a more mature look of things a girl that said yes to you easily won't she say yes to another guy easily?But on a flipside she might not really be into you thats why she's fforming hard to get. Buh all in all girls that gives a lot of trouble sometimes might be the best bet cos some of them dont give in to guys easily. My own opinion though what do you think?

I am currently compiling some unique messages. I created and used for getting ladies that areor seem to be hard to get. When I finish, It will be available to help the men folk. There is nothing like hard to get.

In my dating days, I used it to get and date an executive director in one of the big banks, and also used it to get and date a top lady in one of those oil and gas firms, and also a top lady in government.

So, do not despair my friend, help is on the way.

this one no get sense.

miracle956:
I always hate it when ladies form hard to get. But on a more mature look of things a girl that said yes to you easily won't she say yes to another guy easily?But on a flipside she might not really be into you thats why she's fforming hard to get. Buh all in all girls that gives a lot of trouble sometimes might be the best bet cos some of them dont give in to guys easily. My own opinion though what do you think?

That's not true...Every hard to get girl for you is an easy to lay girl for another dude.

The money you spend on your so called hard to get girl, will be use to take care of another guy that sees her as easy to lay girl

CosmicJames:

Sorry that you didn't understand.
The explanation isn't about myself.
It is about how men are wired.
That's why I used the word (We) meaning (Men)

Except you mean to say men are childish, and that they should grow up.
Which of course is out of place.

Try to read and understand

Who be this one & what gave u the right to assume they position of speaker for all men with that ur slow left reasoning Oga speak for urself!

highqueen:
this one no get sense.

y u talk so?

A girl that took you 1 year to get might be the one to approach another guy she digs and collect his number.