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Advice Needed by kestino(m): 11:59pm On Aug 07, 2018 |
Hi friends, sharing this situation really makes me sad. Please read and drop your advice. I have a female friend who is also my course mate, we are really free with each other to talk about ourselves and all, but recently she is really a shadow of herself, she told me she is four months pregnant for her boyfriend, i was thrown off balance, how on earth did it happen that four months pregnancy was there without trace, she said she was seeing her period normal and all was well till the fourth month, i made some check on google and saw that it happens amongs some ladies. But now the guy is not accepting it on the fact that how can she come after 4months to say she is pregnant? Now her family will not accept her, am calling the guy but still negative response, abortion is far from the matter, all the girl is saying is that she needs the guy to stand by her on the way forward. Please what would you advice? |
Re: Advice Needed by ayesco202(m): 12:04am On Aug 08, 2018 |
Claim the pregnancy. |
Re: Advice Needed by SUPERPACK: 12:06am On Aug 08, 2018 |
she must give birth to that baby by fire by force, when she was knacking without protection she did nt know. team pull-out don put many girls for wahala for naija. |
Re: Advice Needed by kestino(m): 12:12am On Aug 08, 2018 |
ayesco202:i have a serious date to marry wen am through wit school, also you know that wont be possible cos d result of dat action will come in d future. |
Re: Advice Needed by kestino(m): 12:14am On Aug 08, 2018 |
SUPERPACK:even condoms fail at some situation |
Re: Advice Needed by nanauju(f): 12:21am On Aug 08, 2018 |
Has she gone to her family and was rejected? If she hasn't she should better start considering that seriously. Obviously this bf of hers is not manning up and 4 months is a long time to consider abortion. I'd advise she better start looking for a job or something doing and be saving up. If her family doesn't help out, she might drop out of school sef. Wait o, do people really think taking care of a child is easy? Pls nobody should bring a child to this world to suffer abeg. This is going to be her cross to carry |
Re: Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 08, 2018 |
She should follow through and demand a DNA test soon as the baby is born. |
Re: Advice Needed by kestino(m): 12:33am On Aug 08, 2018 |
Earthbound:i asked her if she is sure the guy is the father, she said yes, that she has not met any guy since that period |
Re: Advice Needed by kestino(m): 12:35am On Aug 08, 2018 |
nanauju:thats true, bt humans make mistakes |
Re: Advice Needed by iLegendd(m): 12:41am On Aug 08, 2018 |
Nice thread. Tell her to keep it up. |
Re: Advice Needed by Eniola35: 1:30am On Aug 08, 2018 |
you be guy too na, stand by her mean while if you want to make extra money just by surfing the net check my signature |
Re: Advice Needed by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:44am On Aug 08, 2018 |
they can do a paternity test now (also known as NIPP Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity) OR wait for the baby to be born and do a dna test THEN....either way, if that man is the father it will be confirmed. |
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