I am 25 yrs old yet I find it hard to approach any lady I am crushing on. I am always afraid of shooting my shot. I know it is not normal. How do I solve this problem ? I am ain't gay, I am straight . The major problem is that I lack the skills needed to wooing any lady I think I like . It is no joke, it is really affecting me. My fear is that if I continue this way, I may end up not dating/marying the love of my life in the nearest future. This not my first time of seeking for advice on this same issue on Nairaland. All previous solutions proffered didn't work out well for me, I am still back to square one. I am not really doing well in this aspect of my life and I am really worried. Thanks .

Try online dating since you are too shy to approach a lady. Online hookup doesn't need a face to face contact.

Life is so unfair sha. A 25 yr old guy who can't approach a lady, and a lady of dat same age would have had sex with nothing less than 6 men...most of which are almost 10 yrs older.

I still say no matter the number of men a girl tells you she has dated, u need to multiply it by 3 cus they'll always lie abt their past. A girl who's slept with 5 men has actually had sexual affairs with 15 men, not 5 ...some may be just fingering/blowwjjob/shortime in hotels. If she claims to have aborted 2, she's aborted 6. And on the contrary, you'll find guys boasting who haven't done anything much than watching porn.

Well my advice for you op is.. In ur quest to know how to date a girl, don't let any girl hook u down now with belle o. When u finish serving and get a job or approaching 30 or more, you'll see girls trooping for you, that you won't have to stress ur mind over, some will be older than u sef and some married ...willing to spend for you.

Colourich:
Try online dating since you are too shy to approach a lady. Online hookup doesn't need a face to face contact.

I really appreciate u for the response.. Will give it a try.. Thanks!

RadicallyBlunt:
Life is so unfair sha. A 25 yr old guy who can't approach a lady, and a lady of dat same age would have had sex with nothing less than 6 men...most of which are almost 10 yrs older.

I still say no matter the number of men a girl tells you she has dated, u need to multiply it by 3 cus they'll always lie abt their past. A girl who's slept with 5 men has actually had sexual affairs with 15 men, not 5 ...some may be just fingering/blowwjjob/shortime in hotels. If she claims to have aborted 2, she's aborted 6. And on the contrary, you'll find guys boasting who haven't done anything much than watching porn.

Well my advice for you op is.. In ur quest to know how to date a girl, don't let any girl hook u down now with belle o. When u finish serving and get a job or approaching 30 or more, you'll see girls trooping for you, that you won't have to stress ur mind over, some will be older than u sef and some married ...willing to spend for you.

Alot of people saw my post and ignored but u choose to respond, I am grateful for this. Thank you. Will heed to ur advice .

Differentt people different problems.



some people, their problem na to maintain relationships, some people na to approach girl.

It is always well!

greatagain17:
I am 25 yrs old yet I find it hard to approach any lady I am crushing on. I am always afraid of shooting my shot. I know it is not normal. How do I solve this problem ? I am ain't gay, I am straight . The major problem is that I lack the skills needed to wooing any lady I think I like . It is no joke, it is really affecting me. My fear is that if I continue this way, I may end up not dating/marying the love of my life in the nearest future. This not my first time of seeking for advice on this same issue on Nairaland. All previous solutions proffered didn't work out well for me, I am still back to square one. I am not really doing well in this aspect of my life and I am really worried. Thanks .

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greatagain17:
I am 25 yrs old yet I find it hard to approach any lady I am crushing on. I am always afraid of shooting my shot. I know it is not normal. How do I solve this problem ? I am ain't gay, I am straight . The major problem is that I lack the skills needed to wooing any lady I think I like . It is no joke, it is really affecting me. My fear is that if I continue this way, I may end up not dating/marying the love of my life in the nearest future. This not my first time of seeking for advice on this same issue on Nairaland. All previous solutions proffered didn't work out well for me, I am still back to square one. I am not really doing well in this aspect of my life and I am really worried. Thanks .

U should try iLegendd...
Though u ghast pay for his service now...
He can bring out the bad boy in u
Ladies don't really like Nice guys for relationships.

@iLegendd, baba, I hail oh... how biz naa

ERCROSS:


U should try iLegendd...
Though u ghast pay for his service now...
He can bring out the bad boy in u
Ladies don't really like Nice guys for relationships.

@iLegendd, baba, I hail oh... how biz naa

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my brother your fear for rejection can cost you unhappiness if not faced once and for all

My advice is ready the book:
Rules of the game by Neil Strauss
Follow the rules and guidelines closely.. You'd be glad you did