Myzztery:
I have always been a guest reader until this morning. Pls dont mind my lengthy post.
I am in a very horrible situation, depressed and tired. The only mistake I made was trusting Mr. Wrong. I am a very hardworking woman. I was into food business and agric produce before I met him. He came as the perfect man and before I knew it, I've slipped off feet. I took in for him while we make plans to make things official by October.
We joined hands to invest in a business and I emptied my entire savings cos I know it's for our future. I gave my all. He stays in a room apartment, I didnt see anything bad about it, moved in with him cos I so much believe in his future. My friends tried to stop me but I ignored them because I believe in him.
He changed after I got pregnant. He started keeping other women.. wouldnt return home till very late at night. I have begged and begged but he would never change. He would threaten to make life miserable for me and my unborn chid. This time around, he want me out of the house. My mum on the other hand would always tell me to pray nd fast that she would never accept my things in her home again. Friends have deserted me.
I have lost every essence of life in me. The verbal abuse and curses I receive everyday is killing me. He wants me out of the house but where do I go? I am almost due but I have never registered for ANC not to mention buying baby things. He rid me of all I had and I am as empty as nothing. I really want to leave but where do I start my life from? I can't afford an house rent not to mention starting my business afresh. I feel stuck. I contemplate suicide everyday but the little life inside me deserves to live regardless. I have tried to stay strong but it seems I am losing the battle to depression and suicidal thoughts. I am voicing out because I want my baby to live. Please help me live! I need friends....I need people to talk to.

Please minimize your insults, I've had a truckload of it.

My dear, relax

How can we help you.

You will be happy again.

What do u need to stay alive? Money , friends , love , care anything.. just state it and we shall ensure to have a truck load of it to you.

You shall not die young okay.
We love you, please hang on

Go to your mom and push yourself in to her house, if that does not work then find any other relative and stay with them then from there you can start your life afresh and organise yourself till you recover financially.

Why not state your location?
At least, someone might be willing to contact you.

His verbal abuse is not only causing havoc on your mental health but it's harmful to your unborn baby who's soaking in all of it. The best thing you can do right now for both you and your baby is to move to a safe, peaceful environment.

Where is your location? Are you overseas? I would say you shouldn’t move from his home as long as he hasn’t threw your things out. Don’t listen to him, he is just making empty threats. Men are like this. But trust me, if you don’t leave, he will he might change and realise he has been evil towards you. I just don’t understand, so many evil men out there. Stay strong woman, you will get through it. Where are you based?

It’s possible now, how could she have known that the guy was stringing her along. With what she said, she was head over heels for him, trusted him and thought they were planning a future together so she gave him her all.

Emi gan ti laju, mo la gbogbo ara pelu. Ladies shine your eyes o. Hmm, evil men everywhere.

Myzztery:
I have always been a guest reader until this morning. Pls dont mind my lengthy post.
I am in a very horrible situation, depressed and tired. The only mistake I made was trusting Mr. Wrong. I am a very hardworking woman. I was into food business and agric produce before I met him. He came as the perfect man and before I knew it, I've slipped off feet. I took in for him while we make plans to make things official by October.
We joined hands to invest in a business and I emptied my entire savings cos I know it's for our future. I gave my all. He stays in a room apartment, I didnt see anything bad about it, moved in with him cos I so much believe in his future. My friends tried to stop me but I ignored them because I believe in him.
He changed after I got pregnant. He started keeping other women.. wouldnt return home till very late at night. I have begged and begged but he would never change. He would threaten to make life miserable for me and my unborn chid. This time around, he want me out of the house. My mum on the other hand would always tell me to pray nd fast that she would never accept my things in her home again. Friends have deserted me.
I have lost every essence of life in me. The verbal abuse and curses I receive everyday is killing me. He wants me out of the house but where do I go? I am almost due but I have never registered for ANC not to mention buying baby things. He rid me of all I had and I am as empty as nothing. I really want to leave but where do I start my life from? I can't afford an house rent not to mention starting my business afresh. I feel stuck. I contemplate suicide everyday but the little life inside me deserves to live regardless. I have tried to stay strong but it seems I am losing the battle to depression and suicidal thoughts. I am voicing out because I want my baby to live. Please help me live! I need friends....I need people to talk to.

Please minimize your insults, I've had a truckload of it.

May God grant you the help and support you need. Things might look terrible now but if you have faith and patience, it is likely to get better.

You might have to move on without this man though.