Understanding your partner is important and paramount in every relationship.

Understanding your partner is not what you can build up in a day. This requires constant communication and being observant. You don't just walk around in your relationship without paying much attention to your needs and that of your partner.

Misunderstandings often occur when you don't pay attention to every single details and attribute of your partner and oh well, you really can't know everything about your partner. And this is a fact you should understand; We are humans, we grow everyday, We change everyday and our behaviours isn't static.

Men and women don't operate in the same way. We are built to behave differently, as Men are logical creations, while women are wired and driven by emotions. This is also a simple fact everyone needs to understand

These differences do exist in most cases, and have contributed to the ongoing communication gap that destroys our relationships.

With the stated differences, We have complicated issues and we continue living unhappy, pretending to be happy thereby fooling everyone around you, which is not supposed to be. We don't need to always drag issues along in our relationships, what we need to do is to UNDERSTAND our partner.

In understanding your partner, there are some necessary steps to be taken, which will finally rectify the issues that are being carried along in a relationship.

I clearly understand that your partner has pissed you off a thousand times, i understand that you also have made efforts to fix and make things work out well, But still it's bot coming out as expected.

Below are some steps to take note of, in understanding your partner;

KP No 1. Avoid Pointing Fingers At Each Other.

What exactly do i mean? It's simple, when issues come up, avoid accusing each other and looking for who's at fault and who is not. Being focused on your actions and pointing out faults would work against you. Don't be so caught up with yourself thereby making it so hard to understand your partner's points, needs and problems.

KP No 2. Focus On What You Can Control.

Focus only on what you can control, which is you. Oh well, you may have done a lot for your partner and you feel the problem is not you. Oh well, you may have tried a lot in being the ideal man or woman your partner needs, but then always hold yourself responsible for your actions.

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