Cupie22:

Bro,if u truly love the babe dont let her marry the guy out of pity o
If the guy wants to end his life let him( because of a girl? I laugh in spanish) d guy s deceitful and d babe will regret after marrying the guy

kingxsamz:
Abeg all these relationship matter don taya me.

dominique:
Not everybody handle break up well. We have seen cases of people drinking poison because their boy/girlfriend broke up with them. Your girl's ex must have invested very much in the relationship and had plans for the future with her only to be dumped like a piece of hot coal. That can make person depressed to the point of being suicidal. Your girlfriend has to be there for him at this point. She has to let him heal a bit before moving on completely.

dominique:


Ordinarily I will never advise anybody to still be in association with their exes but in a situation where attempted suicide is involved, that should be an exception. Your girlfriend should show care and support to her ex right now whilst letting him know she has moved on so he can do the same. She can call him once a while to check on him and/or send him friendly messages. If she knows anywhere he can get counselling, she should help him with that as well.

lawnreigh:
Hmmmm all you said is nothing but truth, they were commited with eachother for so long and the guy wanted to commit suicide by poisoning himself, but as a lady, what advise do you have for me and how do you see the wholething playing out? I'm looking upto your reply

Truckpusher:
Total fallacy .
Anyone that wants to commit suicide over a break up doesn’t really love the other party but obsessed with them.
When you love someone and they don’t love you back simply walk away let time be the judge if she or he made the right decision.
Anyone that threatens to harm themselves over a break up is an emotional blackmailer and a bad news.
Men and women that exhibits this kind of character are potential abusers and can even murder the other party.
Don’t even fall for their tears - They will kill you if something flips in them.

dominique:


Ordinarily I will never advise anybody to still be in association with their exes but in a situation where attempted suicide is involved, that should be an exception. Your girlfriend should show care and support to her ex right now whilst letting him know she has moved on so he can do the same. She can call him once a while to check on him and/or send him friendly messages. If she knows anywhere he can get counselling, she should help him with that as well.

Jaqenhghar:

Bro I have leanrt one thing in life. Look out for yourself and your happiness ma guy. You sound like you pitying the guy to the point that you will prefer to suffer than him. If the guy doesnt want to grow up and wants to kill himself let him go ahead it aint you or your girl's business. Having your woman support him is a no no. She is with you that's all that matters

Pipedreams:
He dey resurface like sh.it wey no green flush abi

Truckpusher:
He doesn’t really love her , this is what I can tell from his submission.

Why would you even come over to my girl simply because you’re an ex . I’ll sit her down and ask her to chose right now or do everything within her powers to stop the idiot from contacting her else she’ll get the dumping from me.
There are things you don’t go about negotiating with people. Chose and chose now - Your choice.

itsmeurLady:
What the hell is wrong with you NLanders Sometimes I really want to see the people behind these names talking so that I can decide wether to talk or to just laugh, u know Someone brought a topic so sensitive and all y'all can think of is to criticize... OMG!!! I nor know the pastor wey dey preach for una ooo.... Don't u people have love in your heart

Was the lady wrong for dumping an irresponsible boyfriend? I don't know what u ppl take ladies to be oo, we don't have choices, only men make choices, Una Well done oo !!!!

OP do not in any way take any of these negative words above me seriously, I like the fact that u have a little bit of humanity in you. Ensure that your gf clears the air between her and her ex, she is not going anywhere. Trust me, when a woman loves someone, it very hard for her to change her mind and she has fallen in love with you already because u are a better option. Leave your Yankee status out of your relationship, nor dey deceive yourself, anybody fit go Yankee, it's not a big deal and dats not the reason she is dating you. She is dating you because she has found peace and comfort in you, don't see anything less than that and return the favor. Pray about this situation and be wise at the same time, like I said earlier, tell your girlfriend to go and sort this mess out once and for all. Support her and don't fight her! The ex is only fighting back for her because your lady is a Keeper, if she was a slut, he won't even dial her number again, your lady is a good girl.

All these ones calling her names up and down don't even have kee talkless of keeper as Girlfriends, Na one night stand dem dey do, so when they see genuine ladies, they doubt because they have never encountered one in their lives before or they have probably scared her away with their foul words and manners. If we check now, this is where they are posting from...

Oma307:
if I am the lady, I will allow him to commit suicide

itsmeurLady:


And when he does, hope u will be able to eat? U know he won't but wat if he does? Weigh both sides, we have seen cases like this !

Truckpusher:
He’s not gonna kill himself. He’s just an emotional blackmailer who wants to get back what he lost due to his own immaturity.

itsmeurLady:


He's just a wailer the dude shld come and join APC, dey are looking for drama kings like him or is he in anyway related to Dino Melaye and he will not get her back so.... I love ladies like the ehn, be good to a fault so that when u leave, it will be their loss and not yours. See him begging now like a spoilt overgrown child

lilyheaven:
I have observed that many guys in nairaland must have passed through hell in hands of ladies, any small thing they will be shouting " break up break up, she is a cheat, she is this bad and that evil etc. Nawa oooo.


My opinion to your question.
She should change her location, change her phone number or block his ex and all his family members and all that concerns that ex, if she wants to move ahead in life. All means of communication between her and them must be avoided, because they will keep manipulating her.

Truckpusher:
Well , he missed his mark and some other guy got her now but the question is : What is this guy is just a fucxk boy ?
Sometimes it is better to put up with the devil you know than the angel you’re expecting.

itsmeurLady:


Ehn I was about telling him that too oo, upon all this ones that she will do for him, hope he will marry her This one that he is feeling fly on his Yankee status

Bia OP, hope all this advice that u are seeking wil not be in vain , hope u will marry her Sha if you don't marry her, email me her number lemme give her to my elder brother, I love good girls!!

OP good girls like us, we nor dey too dey find men like that, Na them dey Rush us

Truckpusher:
Every relationship must not end with a marriage .

Mouthgag:

Seriously, I know how you guys do it...
You wait in line for a girl to breakup with someone she's fuckìng and sucking his dick just to have her too. A used and wasted person...
Thank God I don't do waste products.
This life sha...

UyaiIncomparabl:
One thing;

Smite his ass.