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The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by bestme: 5:08pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter. I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate. She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already. It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her. One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate. Pls your sincere advice. 53 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by OneStep3: 5:14pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by PUSSYBBQGRILLS(f): 5:21pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Send her to school and marry her. Simple. 254 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by samysmoothfresh: 5:23pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
i know you wanted to actualise your "dream" but sorry bro but thats how fùcked up life is when we want an iphone x, it packages an iphone 2 and slams it in our faces it's left for you to accept the "iphone 2" or wait till you get the "iphone x" 216 Likes 24 Shares
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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by godfatherx: 5:28pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Is it the paper certificate you want to marry? Do you have a job for her now that requires her certificate? What's the essence of being a graduate if you can't correctly express yourself? I read your story and I understand the "grammar", for me, that's communication, but for your "perfect" educational background requirement, the blunders are unacceptable. If you a graduate writes like this, you need to lower your standard. That girl is just perfect for you. 531 Likes 41 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by general111(m): 5:30pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
she said it was due to lack funds...why not support her instead.she will be evr grtful .. 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by dingbang(m): 5:38pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Please I don't condone when a girl lies to a man she claims to love. All the lies and deceit won't take the Rship anywhere. 84 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Nobody: 5:58pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
OK op,, though your writeup is terrible for a graduate, but i will overlook it.. So how was she able to get to 500 level without paying her school fees and other funds? She said she was able to afford payments of both year one and two but she is in level 500.. It's either she is lying or something is just missing in your story.. If i am to jump into conclusion,, the truth is that she is not a student of the school,, though she might be in the school environment but she is not recognised as a student of the school.. Her type is everywhere in our institutions,, they do runs in schools, pretending to be students.. Op my advice is that, you should break up with her,, she is a liar and a deceiver,, break up with her because if you get married to her,, after so many years, she might confess to you that your son or daughter belongs to another man.. That is what you get for marrying a liar.. 134 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by BrokeBoySolow(m): 11:37pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Okay, she did a wrong thing lying to you not cool. But you just gotta forgive her Bro. That's if you really Love her or is you' Loving her for what she got or who she is?? 6 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by chiommy123(f): 1:07pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
she lied to you yes thats wrong but why crucify her for the same sin we are all guilty of. assist her if you can/care. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Wilfredpat22(f): 3:56pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Sir, Let me advice you as I will do to my Big brother Don’t send her to any school. If she loves you let her find and hustle to pay for school fees. Send her to school and she will come out, do NYSC, and marry someone richer than you. The school you will send her to has bigger boys that will bang her mercilessy and give her wads of money better than the ‘Change’ she gets from you. My uncle second wife is a University graduate that left her own bf to be someone second wife because my uncle gave her a car. I don’t even greet her when I visit them Sir trust me there are better girls out there. 246 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Agybabe(f): 4:39pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Hmm... you don't have to go on with the plans of marriage but forgive her 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by drawkcab: 4:42pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
bestme: eil a no tliub noitadnuof 7 Likes |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by drawkcab: 4:44pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Agybabe: esnes nommoc kcal uoy 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Burgerlomo: 4:46pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Burgerlomo: 4:49pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
PUSSYBBQGRILLS: Dat investment is very risky instead he should first give her belle and then send her to school ![]() 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Anfieldboss: 4:50pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
This really cracked me up mehn ![]() |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Anfieldboss: 4:52pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Agybabe: If the lies were from the guy u wouldn't give such advice ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Nobody: 4:54pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22: Thank you jare, see pesin wey get sense here. 51 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Agybabe(f): 9:58pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
drawkcab: Young man, I don't think being rude is a necessity here. I am entitled to my opinion. Please mind your language because I can read backwards too. 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Agybabe(f): 9:58pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
Anfieldboss:Either ways, I stand by my decision. No bias here. 1 Like |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by victorian(f): 10:09pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
bestme: I know, we all wish to marry graduates. It's not a pipe dream. But assuming? she has a big shop at Balogun market selling hajia gowns and turbans, each piece worth 30k and above for a single gown, and her shop is well stocked with goods of different female accessories and shoes with bags. She dresses well, looks comfortable and clean. And speaks well. Will u still be concerned about her certificate and say u can't marry her because she's not a graduate? Please be sincere. Last last, if she's financially OK, you won't be complaining like this. Everything boils down to her, having money and been financially independent. That's the truth and reality. Money answereth all questions ![]() 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by weyreypey: 10:13pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
victorian:Are you single and available? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by victorian(f): 10:14pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
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Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by weyreypey: 10:16pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
victorian:Hope you have some of you leftover?? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by Nobody: 2:48am On Aug 29, 2018 |
bestme: What is about university that makes a woman a better partner than one who never attended.?? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by mrblessed(m): 7:18am On Aug 29, 2018 |
victorian:If you are truly 'taken', it is pretty awful to imagine the type of relationship you have with your hubby/boy friend -- based on your inane materialistic advice to the Op. 2 Likes |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by victorian(f): 10:07am On Aug 29, 2018 |
mrblessed: But truly speaking, that's the reality. No mincing words. I call a spade, a spade. No need pretending. After God! Money is all there is to it, followed by Character. It applies on both male and female. Even colleagues I asked this particular question in the office, agree with me. Both male and female.. It's all about the money and how productive she can use her brains to make money, stay afloat then support her husband and family when she gets married. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by mrblessed(m): 2:30pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
victorian:No one can rightfully and convincingly argue that money is not important to human existence. However, I cringed when you ranked money above character in your order of priority. A more plausible rendering will place money at the rear, not in the middle. Telling lies or hiding sensitive secret from your significant other should not be condoned under whatever guise. And no amount of material possessions will compensate for defective character. 27 Likes |
Re: The Lady I Wanted To Marry Pretended To Be A Graduate To Me by victorian(f): 2:44pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
mrblessed: Truly speaking you are right but I need to ask this question. Please are you based in Nigeria? Be sincere. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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