House i need your advice. Am 31 a yoruba lady leave in south-south wish to marry a yoruba man. recently, i met an old colleague who shows interest but have been studying him and notice he doesnt care about me, he doesnt call on his own its only if i call dat he woudnt pick and call back, he always claim busy as he is a banker. the problem is dat i v been living a lonely life since and i dont want to marry and still continue because marrying somebody that doesnt care even b4 marriage And there is no other person. I dont know what to do pls Advise me.

fast n pray den kick him out

lol@ dyt

Thanks for your quick response keep it coming pls

pick interest and flirt with his friends

he will surely WAKE up

and if he doesnt then no hope for you

I have not really give him any answer either yes or no but v been considering him but that his attitude is Scaring me.

My dear poster, prayer answereth all things, and I’ll advise u to take your mind off him, if he’s urs he'll be serious with u, it has happen to me, I love this guy but he hardly calls, like what u said when I call or flash that’s when he'll call me but whenever we are together he'll claim to love me and he will be telling me marriage stuff, when am out of his house he wont call me, so have decided to take him off ma mind, whenever he's ready to settle down he'll let me know. so do the same, i know it's hurt, just take him OFF UR MIND. if he loves u, he'll take u serious.

best of luck.

Thanks[b] Beautiful.B[/b] its really Painful for you to care for somebody and the person did not care about you

My sister,what you are going tru is nt unusual.I simply believe if a man really cares abt you calling you shldnt be a big deal.I empathise wit wat u are going tru it can be tough but try and take your mind off him,let him knw you got a life apart frm him from your post i'd say you are presently experiencing scarcity of men abeg forget them jare be on the look out for a man that cares for you.you deserve it remember marriage is a lifetime commitment by the time you manage a man who does nt care for you now,how do you plan to cope when you are not cared for in the marriage.Marriage can be lonely when its done in the wrong way and for the wrong reasons, dnt let your age terrorise you into a capital mistake.Do take heart you are not alone.

akinsm:

Thanks[b] Beautiful.B[/b] its really Painful for you to care for somebody and the person did not care about you

If you care for somebody and the person doesnt care about you, you too stop caring for him chikena!

@ 31, you shouldn't be asking some questions.

akinsm:

House i need your advice. Am 31 a yoruba lady leave in south-south wish to marry a yoruba man. recently, i met an old colleague who shows interest but have been studying him and notice he doesnt care about me, he doesnt call on his own its only if i call dat he woudnt pick and call back, he always claim busy as he is a banker. the problem is dat i v been living a lonely life since and i dont want to marry and still continue because marrying somebody that doesnt care even b4 marriage And there is no other person. I dont know what to do pls Advise me.

Poster ,

Why would you want to care about or marry someone who clearly does not care about you?, Have you not heard actions speak louder words? Forget his words consider his actions and make a decision.

There is no confusion anywhere, Unless you want to see what does not exist.

You shouid fast pray, go for spiritual advice, i mean real man of GOD (ALFA,PASTOR).

akinsm:

House i need your advice. Am 31 a yoruba lady leave in south-south wish to marry a yoruba man. recently, i met an old colleague who shows interest but have been studying him and notice he doesnt care about me, he doesnt call on his own its only if i call dat he woudnt pick and call back, he always claim busy as he is a banker. the problem is dat i v been living a lonely life since and i dont want to marry and still continue because marrying somebody that doesnt care even b4 marriage And there is no other person. I dont know what to do pls Advise me.

Sister, you dont have a problem. He's not the only man left on planet earth. There is many more where he came from, just hope you get one made from better cloth. Best of luck finding a good one as those are very very very very very hard to find. Dont settle for any and everything while you think you are desperate. Better to live a miserable lonely life than a miserable one with a man.

what you need is a little patient if he is your he will come to you. Note not calling you all the time might not mean he does not care. Just do your par

akinsm:

House i need your advice. Am 31 a yoruba lady leave in south-south wish to marry a yoruba man. recently, i met an old colleague who shows interest but have been studying him and notice he doesnt care about me, he doesnt call on his own its only if i call dat he woudnt pick and call back, he always claim busy as he is a banker. the problem is dat i v been living a lonely life since and i dont want to marry and still continue because marrying somebody that doesnt care even b4 marriage And there is no other person. I dont know what to do pls Advise me.

My dear sis what if you are searching in the wrong place>
What if ur rib is in another tribe?

pls stop being tribalism and balance your mind.

Thank you everyone for your advise i will work on them

just curious!!. whats the fuss about gettin married?

do we all have to?

akinsm:

Thank you everyone for your advise i will work on them

As big as you are.

les4life:

You shouid fast pray, go for spiritual advice, i mean real man of GOD (ALFA,PASTOR).

Yeah! The punishment _marriage na by force?

Beautful.B:

My dear poster, prayer answereth all things, and I’ll advise u to take your mind off him, if he’s urs he'll be serious with u, it has happen to me, I love this guy but he hardly calls, like what u said when I call or flash that’s when he'll call me but whenever we are together he'll claim to love me and he will be telling me marriage stuff, when am out of his house he wont call me, so have decided to take him off ma mind, whenever he's ready to settle down he'll let me know. so do the same, i know it's hurt, just take him OFF your MIND. if he loves u, he'll take u serious.

best of luck.

Is that all?