so wots tha diffrence in wot i said?

Long distance relationships are usually a challenge, but sometimes it can be very interesting.
if u have a choice, try to cut the long distance out, eventually, because long distance relationships are truly not sustainable in the long run.
but i think what really matters is communication,
some people may even live in the same state but do not see or talk to each other often, no be dat one bad pass.

i have experienced both kinds, long distance and short.
what works best for me is a relationship where we both live within 5km max, nothing more!!!!
otherwise, i no dey!!

Well, Long distance relationship works but its depends on the individual involves, i am into one presently for the past 3yrs and things are moving on well, i don't feel the absent except that i can see him physical,

Although there is more to it, its requires lots of patient and trust to get it moving, but i am cool, Yes there are some good and bad days, quarrels and Miss-understanding.

Even when you have one closer to your nose, its might never works out,

As for me i believe so much in it and it gonna work for me.

lONG DISTACE RELATIONSHP RARELY WORKS.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

U will never believe it doesn't work until you are heart broken

I don't care how in love U may think U R,Long distance relationships don't work period.It's not impossible but the relationships just don't tend to work out.

i believe it can work so long there is communication.

what blood is 2 the body, communication is 2 a relationship. when blood stops flowing, the body becomes lifeless. when communication stops, your relationship dies.

i as a lady can't be seeing my guy everyday, so prefer the distance type.

faithfulness must be a watch word.

2 me it is the best and don't ever assume ur parner is cheating on u.

this thread ought to av been stopped by now considering all the posts/reactions,it rarely works.Please stop this thread-apache!

I guess a conclusion is yet to be reached, hence the thread still continues

They work, both people just have to be equally committed.

Long distance relationship can work, however, it's difficult and often cannot last. This relationship asks one of the two to give up something, or it always can not last. I just met a wonderful guy 8 years younger than me at online site Agematch.com, to strengthen our relationship, I plan to move to his place.

kitefly: did i hear u correctly. u said the boy is 8 years younger than you.well then u need to be close to him to keep an eye on him

I cant believe i am hearing this.Long term r/ships with known girls turns out 2 be an apology,come 2 talk of some1 u never met.Experience is d only teacher.All d best.

if it's ever goin to work, it'll depend on the parties involved
the ball dey dem court
shikena

it works, if there is enough communication.

though i am into one at present, i dont see mine working because of poor level of communication.

I thought you were serious, without personally meeting someone you cannot be in love. you are not in a long distance relationship.

Long relationship will work depending on the individuals involved but most importantly dont make the space in time be too long. i.e. see each other at least once a month and spend at least three hours together. 5 years is ceazy, it will never work. Like someone said, body no be fire wood.

been there done that, IT DOES NOT WORK.most especially if the love is not strong

correct deevuu
aint possible

if the love is really strong, and there is trust between u too, believe me it will work,

I don't know if Long distance relationship works

but I DO KNOW bad grammar doesn't work!

yes and i m in one nw

well i have spent more dan 1yr in mine,shes in abj and im in, somewhere anyway we stil have problems up til date,i am doin everythin 2 make it work but i dont think she does everythin 2 make it work from her end,all d same i get serious chick wit me steady 4 my somewher

it boils down to commitment.l am seeing someone though l met her some place l watched and then approached her now we are distance apart she has come down to see me we talk on the phone or text each other almost everyday l have gone over to see her and man its like omo l must do something o she packge her self well l have seen her she has seen me since l got back l feel different . we have been on for 8 months.well if you love the person be committed

This topic really captured men attention!!!.

If both want it to work, it would , Just out your mind to it and u'd see,

royalyinx:

If both want it to work, it would , Just out your mind to it and u'd see,

True that.
Communication, they say, is the best medicine for separation

The thing go hard small