That is CHEATING , in MY OPINION.

If they've both got their own partners, Y do they still GET IT ON?

madness

Yeah, of course it's "cheating" and it's not right. I'm just saying it happens.

That is the cause of HOT PANTS

me as a persin, i have a long distance relationship going on now and it is GOOD for me and her.

well last friday made it one year we have being together and i think it is the best i have had all my life.

because when we were together in 9ja, we never had sex and i told her that if she was looking for someone to have sex with, then i was the

wrong person for her to date and that she should move forward btu she refused and told me she doesnt mind as she was a virgin.,

well i belived her a little at first, because she just came out of a christian sec school and her family did not give her space for friends and all that.

then as we went on i just had to believe her. but as we went on she or should i say we had the temptations but most of the time i had the firm

ground to say NO and most of the time it ended in a little dispute, which she would get over after some talking abt side implications and moral

effects.

so after made plans to come to the united states, i called her and told her my plans and she aggreed and i told her that if she CANT wait, we can

as well breakup and she continues with her life and mine {note; it was not that i did not love her , but i did not want to disruot anybodys life with

my life or my problems} but she refused to breakup saying she doenst mind WAITING and that she is too into it that she just doesnt want to loose

me {i too sweet } and i talked to her about the implications and how she had the greater part to play because she has was the lady and all

that. but she stood on her words that she was going to wait, well i agreed and it has being that way since then and i thank God for our lifes!!

well how do i keep up?

i call her EVERYDAY or rather we talk everyday because sometimes she calls me and all that but mennnnnn i love her too tooo much and i did not

mention she is in babcock university now so well i am not as worried as i would have been if she was in like OSU or UNILAG

and i always pray to God about us although we did fast and pray b4 i did leave the country i still pray to God.

well as for me i dont play "away match" according to pie1ect said and that is my story.

me as a persin, i have a long distance relationship going on now and it is GOOD for me and her.

well last friday made it one year we have being together and i think it is the best i have had all my life.

because when we were together in 9ja, we never had sex and i told her that if she was looking for someone to have sex with, then i was the

wrong person for her to date and that she should move forward btu she refused and told me she doesnt mind as she was a virgin.,

well i belived her a little at first, because she just came out of a christian sec school and her family did not give her space for friends and all that.

then as we went on i just had to believe her. but as we went on she or should i say we had the temptations but most of the time i had the firm

ground to say NO and most of the time it ended in a little dispute, which she would get over after some talking abt side implications and moral

effects.

so after made plans to come to the united states, i called her and told her my plans and she aggreed and i told her that if she CANT wait, we can

as well breakup and she continues with her life and mine {note; it was not that i did not love her , but i did not want to disruot anybodys life with

my life or my problems} but she refused to breakup saying she doenst mind WAITING and that she is too into it that she just doesnt want to loose

me {i too sweet } and i talked to her about the implications and how she had the greater part to play because she has was the lady and all

that. but she stood on her words that she was going to wait, well i agreed and it has being that way since then and i thank God for our lifes!!

well how do i keep up?

i call her EVERYDAY or rather we talk everyday because sometimes she calls me and all that but mennnnnn i love her too tooo much and i did not

mention she is in babcock university now so well i am not as worried as i would have been if she was in like OSU or UNILAG  

and i always pray to God about us although we did fast and pray b4 i did leave the country i still pray to God.

well as for me i dont play "away match" according to pie1ect said and that is my story.

good for you casper. urs just one of those that survive cos of the effort put in. wish u da best.

tanks girl

@James, she doesn't talk much except abt flying her to the states, IN MY OPINION, she just wants you to fly her to the states, and thats all she is concerned about, all other things is not her cup of tea, she doesn't care.IN MY OPINION

I wish you da best too Casper, da gurl seems nice

Ermmm.. I Am in one right now..(a LDR).. I wanna see if it'll work, Although i still stand on the fact that it doesn't work.

Yea,me too oooo!!!I hope it works too.I will go see him very soon.mmmm.I hope I fall in love with him,e hard ooo!!!

it is possible to work , for as long as there is love.........but i dont know about not meeting each other in 5 years.

my old boy friend started communicatin" with me about 1 week ago. i' discovered dat the feelings i had for him are rushin" back but the problem is this long distance relationship. i'm really scared of the long distance relationship. i dun't think i can handle it but i really want to be able to get into a new relationship with him. and one more thing dat is stoppin" is dat i have a boyfriend here but dats no problem my main problem is the long distance. after readin" wat pple have written here i am really confused.

The rate at which people are entering this Long distance thingy is alarming o!
Hot-angel too? Snazzydawn too?
I wish you good luck, girls.

IAH.. I just wanna try it, I am still against it tho. Just giving it a try, plus i know i like the guy. The main fact i don't see him is actually helping! At least i won't get to see the bad side of him... j/k... but seriously, it's not like i don't know that it won't last. But God help us.

see don't go into it being pessimistic. In contrast to normal relationships, long distance ones require more time and work to make it last. Since u don't like this type of relationships but u r willing to give this a try, then there must be something good u have seen in the guy. So have a positive approach and i'm sure things will work out.


But most of all, u must also be extraordinarily patient

Even if it doesnt, at least u gave it ur best shot.

hot-angel:

IAH.. I just want to try it, I am still against it tho. Just giving it a try, plus i know i like the guy. The main fact i don't see him is actually helping! At least i won't get to see the bad side of him... j/k... but seriously, it's not like i don't know that it won't last. But God help us.

All the same, I still wish you the best. E no easy!

I must say, thank- you! He's getting on my nerves now. He was talking trash earlier today.. but it's a lil thing tho!

this is just for the guy that said hs girlfriend was in Babcock..
dont let anybody fool you, it is just as bad if not WORSE than Lag or Ibadan or wherever...

Wow.

@ Amayna, I agree with you

@ Loveth,why you grinning?

is that a question?

if una dey go against me, remember no WEAPON fashioned against me shall prosper


we prayed and fasted about it so i am no treally afriad because i know God is with me and her

@ Loveth, OF COURSE, IT IS A QUESTION, what do you think?

The answer is too expensive.

, K how much do I pay

IAH it didn't work oo. PM me for story.

When it's long distance it's all in the mind.... it's all about perception and trust.

Hello pple,

i have read all wat u pple said about long distance relationship if it will work or not and i quite agree with some pple who said it won't why some pple said it will.Long distance relationship is hard to say the fact but its base on trust, honest ,patient and understanding.Goodluck to the pple dat r having long distance realtionship.am also in a 4yrs long distance relationship.

You, lucky, lucky girl Shaddy, four years, that I say is a long time. Have you seen this guy before? , as in one on one? , or just a picture or something

@shaddy, i was going to ask the same question Z4M4eva just asked. Do you guys ever see yourselves at all? but that should be hard though right? I can imagine!!!
well, personally, i think i might be able to handle a long distance relationship. it'll be hard,most definately! but if I see a future for both of us, the guy and I that is,I should be able to do it.I have a friend who is in one right now and it's amazing how she handles it sooo well.