eyinjuege:
Look at the OP, you stole someone's thread and posted;it, yet you want to be respected. The type of men raised these days. Na wah o.
Stealing is not corruption .

BlackSpanner:
So many hidden comments. Warris happening

donbachi:
This is the reason why anytime i borrow money from my wife i don't pay back...i even borrowed this morning.

dasparrow:


Why are you writing this unnecessary long epistle for? Did anyone force you to get married? Is anyone forcing you to get married? Marraige is a choice. So, if you cannot handle the demands of a NIGERIAN marraige, you are welcome to remain single.

Nigerian bred men are in this mess today because most of you are control freaks. You tell your wives not to work so that you can control her life and so that she can become your mule or slave.

In most parts of the world, wives and husbands use their earned income to run the family together. However, because of your bloody fragile African ego which is the size of an air balloon, you Nigerian bred men get intimidated by financially successful career women.

You want to be the sole bread winner so that you will be your wife's 'god' and she will worship the ground you walk on. Also, so that you can cheat and/or be abusive and she won't have the money to leave you.

Please don't complain. You guys created this monster because of your misogynist backward African mindset so deal with it or remain single forever. Shikena

Barayeks:


I'm happy the mods have given me credit, but I still wonder why they picked his over mine (the original) to put on the front page.

I keep saying these mods are either partial or bribed

pcguru1:


Actually we are, we've been tied up in a web that we created; the Patriarchy , we set the rules and by the rules we're forced to be a slave to what we created. Irony

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

Barayeks:


You don't have a brain to think up your own shit abi? You copy every word and not give credit to the author? I wrote every word myself, its no copy and paste like your empty skull did @seun

pcguru1:


Lol in this economy who the hell is staying away from working women, all my relatives are married to working women and they plan and do things together. Its not realistic for anyone to shoulder all the responsibilities today unless the person is very wealthy

dasparrow:


Why are you writing this unnecessary long epistle for? Did anyone force you to get married? Is anyone forcing you to get married? Marraige is a choice. So, if you cannot handle the demands of a NIGERIAN marraige, you are welcome to remain single.

Nigerian bred men are in this mess today because most of you are control freaks. You tell your wives not to work so that you can control her life and so that she can become your mule or slave.

In most parts of the world, wives and husbands use their earned income to run the family together. However, because of your bloody fragile African ego which is the size of an air balloon, you Nigerian bred men get intimidated by financially successful career women.

You want to be the sole bread winner so that you will be your wife's 'god' and she will worship the ground you walk on. Also, so that you can cheat and/or be abusive and she won't have the money to leave you.

Please don't complain. You guys created this monster because of your misogynist backward African mindset so deal with it or remain single forever. Shikena!

Viking007:
[s][/s]
You don't have sense.

eyinjuege:
Look at the OP, you stole someone's thread and posted;it, yet you want to be respected. The type of men raised these days. Na wah o.
Stealing is not corruption .

Cynate:
It’s Nigeria thing

Woman want the guy to pay for everything

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

Idrismusty97:
Lol there is a word for women like you, They are called prostitutes in other words "Ashawo". Look it up.

Timbuktuo:


Ok, this is really confusing right now. The patrairchy oppresses men too? I thought women said the patriarchy was created to oppress them! This is a bit hard to understand.

Hanseel1:



This should be directed at lordKO

Check my posts on the first page, I said Nigerian women should share house chores and at the same time marry women who must contribute.


But low-key alpha males and misogynists led by LordKO decided to call me stupid, self centered and greedy for saying men should share bills with their wives.

pcguru1:


Oh yes it does, read up on Toxic Masculinity intact the patriarchy may cater to women more than man, except that when it comes to equality and all, the patriarchy is sad to discriminate but lately that line is blurred, in the legal system esp in the western world women enjoy a lot of benefits and advantages than men esp in issues of child support and alimony (depending on the state), its Islam nation (where women are discriminated against )that needs feminism much more than any nation.

Those who complain about the patriarchy are white women they don't care for people of colour they only cater to their own selfish interest which is to topple the patriarchy , you think the sisterhood would back omorosa or any black lady should the need come for it.

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

frankkydee:














The manipulated man,go and read it

YemiHadid:
Just read 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vilar.. It was written by a woman... that book is a gem!

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

Timbuktuo:


No offense, but I think toxic masculinity is BS.

Also, you sound racist and I'm sure black people, black women also complain about te patriarchy.

LordKO:
[s]

Bumpkin. Vamoose and direct your further mention(s) to your ilk, I don't join issues with small-minded people like you. You're a closet misogynist, and a typical hypocritically disingenuous person.

If you're to mandatorily "share bills in equal measures" with your wife - instead of either of the parties volitionally and conscientiously contributing according to one's immediate capability (with you as a man having a sense of responsibility to provide for your family) - I wonder how you're going to share in your wife's pregnancy associated pains (labor contractions and childbirth pains). Truth is that you lack love in your life... You don't know what love is.

Also if a couple share bills in equal measures, it means that in the event either of the parties become incapable of making financial contributions to the house the marriage should automatically be over. Marriage is a sacred union, and it shouldn't be mistaken for a commercial enterprise. I don't see oneness and love in a couple that shares bills instead of one or either parties volitionally and conscientiously doing what's necessary at any given time.

People like you with your wack thought processes and actions always validates my postulation that brilliance doesn't cure mental parochialism.

I'm not a subjugator. Unfortunately, you're a closet one. [/s]

CHARLOE:

I'm telling u! D nigerian man spends more on woman than any man in d world, he'll take care of children, wife, in-laws, his family members etc . that's y life expectancy of d Nigerian man is very low, they die young due to high bp, diabetes, heart attack etc. Too much pressure: house rent, Skool fees, feeding, , extended FAM, in-laws etc. @ d end of d day, d kids grow up n 4get their dad, only mummy matters then

pcguru1:


Not my opinion it based on what I have read or picked on online. A lot of them is actually BS, am only stating what woke kids state on twitter.

As for the racist part you might see it that way, but even within the feminist section, a certain group feel it caters to certain people (whites) which is why intersectional feminism exists. Am not racist am only pointing out what people claim it to be, I'm only saying when certain issues resolves around women of color in the states the western feminism is usually quiet. However this is not to paint all feminist just the western feminism aka 3rd wave.

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

AngryNigerian22:
I hope sexonmomma no see this comment