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No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 7:58pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Have you ever heard that yourwedding-night sexwill be even hotter if you cut yourself off before the big day? “Keeping the sense of specialness by hitting pause with sex before the big day can add mystery and added value to the act, as a sacred ritual,” explains Dr. Patti Britton, co-founder ofSexCoachU.com. “After all is said and done, your wedding day is not just another day with another round of sex.”But is putting a two-week or even month-long cease-fire to yoursex liferight for you? Read on to find out.“Couples may find that their self-imposed ‘dry spell’ helps increase their desire for their partner,and may encourage them to really want sex on their wedding night,” says Debra Herbenick, PhD, associate professor at Indiana University and author of The Coregasm Workout. “So, the primary advantage is to increase arousal. Forothers, it’s about reconnecting on anemotional or spiritual level.” Other brides-to-be report that removing one thing from their super-long to-do lists as they plan the wedding is a huge stress relief, Herbenick says.“Relax. Stop expectations for perfection, even in bed,” suggests Dr. Patti Britton.ShutterstockOn the flip side, a self-imposed sex break can put additional pressure on your wedding day. “Performance anxiety— about erections and orgasms — can affect both men and women, making them so anxiety-ridden that they cannot feel pleasure from sex,” warns Britton. “I always coach couples to take themselves off the pressure-cooker burner. Relax. Stop expectations for perfection, even in bed, and find joy, fun and humor if things don’t work well the first time.”If you’re still on the proverbial sex fence, have an honest chat with your fiancé. He may have strong feelings either way. “This really should be a mutual discussion and decision — nothing that someone puts on their partner, without their partner’s buy-in,” says Herbenick. “If a womanwants to try this, I’d encourage her tolet her fiancé know why this is important to her. Maybe she wants to reconnect in a special way on their wedding night. Maybe she wants to really increase their desire and arousal and have an unforgettable night. People can be sensitive about sex, so she should make sure he doesn’t feel undesirable or unattractive — in other words, it’s not him and it’s not a bad thing. In fact it’s the opposi |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 8:06pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 8:09pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 8:12pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 8:15pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by omooba969(m): 8:16pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Sex is overrated, it shouldn't be a factor - give it freely and gladly if you're willing. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by omooba969(m): 8:17pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Preshy561: So you're Libra too ehn? |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 8:17pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
jakandeola:aww!!love you too Jacks. sorry for the ban. I have graduated. 1 Like |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 8:18pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
omooba969:Yeah. ![]() |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by omooba969(m): 8:19pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 8:20pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 8:21pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 8:22pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
jakandeola:thanks so much Jacks. ![]() |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by omooba969(m): 8:23pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Preshy561: Same here ![]() ![]() So what's your take on sex b4 marriage & in marriage, is there any difference really? |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 8:26pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
omooba969:on the topic, what works for one may not work for another. so,i'd rather say,to each their own. |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by omooba969(m): 8:31pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
Preshy561: My question was - what's your take on sex b4 marriage & in marriage, is there any difference really? I quite understand that we all have preferences. ![]() |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 8:35pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
omooba969:nope,no much difference except the both parties are virgins. |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 11:09pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Preshy561(f): 11:51pm On Aug 25, 2018 |
jakandeola:lol. |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Shugavee(f): 12:25am On Aug 26, 2018 |
omooba969:not at all!!! I believe after the wedding the couple should rest gist and hv fun until they r arose to hv sex,, not pressure themselves |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by Nobody: 6:24am On Aug 26, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 8:11am On Aug 26, 2018 |
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by omooba969(m): 8:24am On Aug 26, 2018 |
jakandeola: Calm down bro. ![]()
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Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by tossie101(f): 1:08pm On Aug 26, 2018 |
No sex until I'm very sure |
Re: No Sex Before Wedding ( About To Wed 18+) by jakandeola(m): 2:35pm On Aug 26, 2018 |
omooba969:tnx bro |
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