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Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
It happened for a reason if at all the story is true. Your weeping may endure only but a night. In the morning, the Giver of life shall bring joy untold to you 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Una well done o. Our love bloggers have gone mad again. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by leonard002(m): 10:44pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by ngwababe(f): 10:45pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Adanne move on with your life, you canon come and kill yourself biko. Believe you me, this isn't gonna work out, instead that his sister staying with his mum will go to an extreme if you dare. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 10:45pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
chiommy123: As a man I agree, cut your losses and move on 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by 11doubledee: 10:46pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
davit:una too harsh for nairaland o. This fellow needs consolation. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by InvertedHammer: 10:46pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
/ 3 years planning for a wedding. 0 time planning for marriage. / 8 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Cyriloha(m): 10:46pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
GloriaNinja: Yes something is missing buhari see am woman humble die lol |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by onegig(m): 10:46pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
She just dodged a lifelong bullet. Instead of her to go for 7 days Thanksgiving and should be shouting about the Miracle that God just created she is here opening useless threads. If your guy can be forwarding private chats to his sisters. I have no words to describe such. I am sorry you would have lived a lifelong of pain if the marriage had succeeded. Why are you begging to be married? Like no self esteem or what? 6 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by amjustme2: 10:48pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Journey of marriage is too far to start begging before wedding day. Marriage should be based on mutual understanding, team work and commitment, if that's not happening from courtship, that's a red flag. Disappointment is not scandal, woman. 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Hakeem12(m): 10:48pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
If he really loves you, like you say, he will surely hear your side of the story and not just make a conclusion based on what his sisters tell him, no matter how close they are to one another. Just move on already girl. Even if you try reaching him and manage to get back together, its obvious the guy is somewhat childish, and nothing that happens between you both will stay private. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Cyriloha(m): 10:48pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
ngwababe: Is not easy na but the guy no try if what she said is true oo because the story seems not complete to me |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by DavidEsq(m): 10:49pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
chiommy123:I just tire o! She is so damn desperate and she is far less concerned about the red flags, popping up. Hanty run o 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by femtex007(m): 10:49pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Don't for it. Just move on. Whatever will be will surely be. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Raydans: 10:49pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
CSTR1005:Sensible |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by francisbiz: 10:50pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Beke2020:Why you no go stay with the after dem marry you? Before ncor, so wen dem don't pay bride price for ur head, you go come go stay alone. If na ur broad u go free? 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Ijaya123: 10:51pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
I reserve my comment till I hear from the other side. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by henchamb(m): 10:51pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Nne pls move on, he's not for you. What kind of guy will disclose a private chat with his wifey to his susters. I know it's very difficult, don't think about what the society would say Becos the same society will laugh at you when abused in the marriage The divorced sister might be behind all these but again move on 3 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 10:57pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
When I got to this point ”even the sister who is out of marriage is staying with her mum with four children I love her too.” I had my conclusion. And stopped reading. You’re indeed not a wife material . For you to have mentioned how his sister is out of marriage and had four kids . Bla bla … Nonsense ! Stupid woman . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Minyang(f): 10:57pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
I feel your pains @op. Truth is the guy is not good for you. A man that cant take decisions without consulting his mum and sisters is not a Husband material. I can imagine what your parents must be going through too. You have to be strong for them and encourage them not to call him or his people over this issue again. Pray and hope for the best. I can tell you from experience that having such people as in-law will make your marriage a hell for you cos you will have to fight for his attention, affection and love. You will at all times be at the mercy of his sisters and mum. Count yourself lucky. I wish you God's best. 3 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by giles14(m): 10:57pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Beke2020:mumu boh the op and the lady you are all idiots |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by 7victor(m): 10:59pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
JESUS CHRIST is the only way to GOD.Believe that HE is the son of GOD and the CHRIST and you will be saved.HE died for you so that your sins will be forgiven.HE resurrected and gave you eternal life.Please believe this message. 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by agabaI23(m): 11:05pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Honestly, you should be very grateful. You won't have peace in that house. Forget him If he cannot defend you, you do not have a mind of his own. He is under the control of his family. He is not man enough. 1 Like |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by ipobarecriminals: 11:05pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
why ur mum dey beg dem?suppose he turn u into punching bag nkoh?. Leave dem b4 God leave u.there are responsible men looking for wife here.Abi nah by force to marry tokunboh?U beta shake urself. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Gabriel99: 11:05pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
I sincerely want you to know that you deserve the best. Marriage is a journey of no return and at such I'll advice you to be properly guided. The number one deficit in your relationship was making his sisters his confidants, and if those confidants are not Godly people with the fear of God it is capable of destroying any relationship, which is already a danger sign. "The bible said he who finds a wife" not him that a wife was found for, which is the case here, because he didn't do the searching, he'll always return to the searcher for advice. Note this if this should go through they'll always detect for your home. From the way you typed it showed you want to marry him out of pity and what people will say. Never beg any man to marry you. Better to have a broken relationship than to have broken marriage. I pray for you that your heart will be healed and as you look up to God, He'll direct you on what steps to take next. God bless you! 2 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Omoekun931(m): 11:07pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Issa strong village things o |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Angelawhite(m): 11:09pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
My dear. Your matter tire me. 3 years is a lot of time to invest in a man. But that notwithstanding, count it as a loss and move on. Naturally, siblings are protective. There are girls I wouldn't like my elder bro to touch with a 100 ft pole. He's too gentle and innocent that he fails to see beyond girls outerselves. What am I saying? The best way to get a man is to get his siblings! It's not about saying you love them. You have to show it! Most female siblings make you wonder if the guy is their boyfriend because of the way they wade off female visitors. Play along with them. Understand them, learn them, befriend them, confide in them, be humble, be neat, don't be extravagant, don't outsmart them cause they hold all the aces. When you finally land your man, you can be yourself Your outright rejection of staying with ur mother in-law was a red flag. You don't argue with ur boyfriend's sisters especially when the man is lilly livered . You play along until u get what u want. 3 Likes |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Nobody: 11:13pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Find every means to meet him and talk to him But how come all the family hate you, not even single is on your side haba Did you cheat? |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by trappatoni(m): 11:14pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Pray to God for guidance. Its a phase you will survive. Sometimes loyal people go through hardship or difficult times but when you forgive and put your trust in God you will definitely laugh last.God bless you. |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by OlaoChi: 11:16pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
henrygale: You shouldn't be too quick to say the guy is a dummy without a mind of his own. He is based abroad, it is those at home that know how to identify good girls at home. Besides so he should not trust his family? Do you know their bond? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by Candyflox(f): 11:16pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
henrygale:honestly i totally agree with you a failed relationship dey say is better than a failed marriage i think God just saved u from an unending war with ur supposed inlaws... But come to think of it oo u will date a man for more than a year before coming to see ur people he didn't think u would b d kind to excerise rights against him nd nw it marriage time and all dese stories men r funny sha.. I guess it those girls back at d village dat won't excerise right over them hahahhaha i laugh |
Re: After Planning Our Wedding For 3 Years,they Say I Am Not Wife Material by clemz85(m): 11:21pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
That is Nigerian Ladies and diaspora men syndrome, I have no pity for her, somewhere sometime a home base man must have ask her out, she was banking on abroad man, I have seen them a lot falling victims all sort disappointment, they won't learn. |
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