Hi am Cassidy and i have been dating this girl for quite a while now, she seems good and really loves me but there are things about her that i really don't like, she finds it hard to say sorry when she is at fault, she can argue with me and just hurl words at me without fear. when ever we have a fight she can look at me straight in the eyes and say mean and hurtful things to me and when i make her see how hurt i am and i initiate apologies that's when she responds and maybe say sorry. she likes to check my phone all the time and gets angry when i receive calls from female even when i have noting to do with them. she on the other hand receives tons of call from guys and she expects me to be cool with it. she says no one can tell her what to do and that is true because to an extent she only does what she feel like doing, she drinks and i don't drink sometimes she comes home drunk and throws up on the bed and i always end up cleaning it. please i need candid opinion on this and the way forward. thanks

Some have head but them no get sense


Make use of the brain God gave you now

She doesn't love you anymore;
she doesn't respect you anymore;
she takes you for granted;
she probably thinks that she's doing you a favor by going out with you, and
she probably cheats on you.

All these tend to happen when you tolerate too much from a person—especially females—in the name of love. You always back down during arguments, so she never feels bad insulting you. You may have had good intentions for her and your relations, but you are now a WIMP to her. Trust me, there is nothing you will say that will get through to her. She already sees you as nothing.

Advice: Man up, and break up with her. When her head clears after her insults, and she sees that no one else would tolerate the crap that you did, she will come running back.

If you accept her again, you are on your own. Let her go, now. Trust me; the sooner the better.

Goodluck.

What the heck?
leave her and
MOVE ON!
she will learn lesson.

Don't forget
thank me later.



or take the alternate route.

Of preaching or advising her and keep praying for her till she changes.

You two are not into a relationship biko

cassidyjosh:
Hi am Cassidy and i have been dating this girl for quite a while now, she seems good and really loves me but there are things about her that i really don't like, she finds it hard to say sorry when she is at fault, she can argue with me and just hurl words at me without fear. when ever we have a fight she can look at me straight in the eyes and say mean and hurtful things to me and when i make her see how hurt i am and i initiate apologies that's when she responds and maybe say sorry. she likes to check my phone all the time and gets angry when i receive calls from female even when i have noting to do with them. she on the other hand receives tons of call from guys and she expects me to be cool with it. she says no one can tell her what to do and that is true because to an extent she only does what she feel like doing, she drinks and i don't drink sometimes she comes home drunk and throws up on the bed and i always end up cleaning it. please i need candid opinion on this and the way forward. thanks

You already know the answer why do you procrastinate. She is unmarried how do you think she will be when she is wifed up? Come on man!
Shame on you for cleaning up a grown ass women’s sick it’s not like she is unwell she drank too much she needs to know her limits when it comes to drinking finally you are also at fault
You have “allowed” things to get to this stage by enabling this juvenile behaviour.
So she has you by the balls what do you want to do about it?
Complain?
Grow a pair!

cassidyjosh:
Hi am Cassidy and i have been dating this girl for quite a while now, she seems good and really loves me but there are things about her that i really don't like, she finds it hard to say sorry when she is at fault, she can argue with me and just hurl words at me without fear. when ever we have a fight she can look at me straight in the eyes and say mean and hurtful things to me and when i make her see how hurt i am and i initiate apologies that's when she responds and maybe say sorry. she likes to check my phone all the time and gets angry when i receive calls from female even when i have noting to do with them. she on the other hand receives tons of call from guys and she expects me to be cool with it. she says no one can tell her what to do and that is true because to an extent she only does what she feel like doing, she drinks and i don't drink sometimes she comes home drunk and throws up on the bed and i always end up cleaning it. please i need candid opinion on this and the way forward. thanks

and you are still with this girl, may I ask why? Sometimes I wonder if some people really have sawdust in their skull

Drama queen spotted.....these ones like quarrel pass fight....


Wait, she gets drunk and throws up.....eeeewwwww...... What's wrong with her?, Y did she drink so much?. sure it's not cause of emotional stress or something.....Biko if that's the case handle her with care as she is trying to seek solace in achohol..... people like that get easily depressed buh if that ain't the case, you know what to do

I wonder why some people like being in an unhealthy relationship. it is clear that you both are not suitable for each other. you trying to keep the relationship going to your own detriment.

best you let her go

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tayo85:
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Hey!!


Come and carry your period.
Later you'll complain it's missing.

tayo85:
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Hey!!


Come and carry your period.

Later you'll complain it's missing.

It is well.

She has you on a leash, she's manipulating you emotionally, those kinds are the worst to be with. That's not love, she doesn't love you, free yourself

you're on a long thing

you are mad

Bluezy13:


Hey!!


Come and carry your period.
Later you'll complain it's missing.