I'wd be brief.
So..
We met during the last month in sch..
Fell in love.. Graduated, we stay in same town so we always saw each other weekly.

2months later I had a job and travelled out of town... Became a distance love thing..

Its been a year now, am losing it, shes still home doing a low income job.. I work in a far town away from home...

The problem is: there love is dying on my own side, its really hard doing a distance love, shes still very into it but I want out.... Though we neva had sex, but we having plans to.

So pls how do I let loose without hurting her,
She has all a man needs in a woman but believe me the from my end has died... Shes seeing a future for us but I dont want,

How do I let go... Peacefully

Fvck her then dump her stylishly just like Miracle did to Nina.

When I said dump her stylishly, I meant don't tell her you are over with.

Just fvck her, leave. Blacklist her number, block her on your social networks and leave her to her feelings.

When she can't have access to you, her feelings for you will die then she will go look for someone else.


Bro don't waste your precious life on women..

milemimi93:
When I said dump her stylishly, I meant don't tell her you are over with.

Just fvck her, leave. Blacklist her number, block her on your social networks and leave her to her feelings.

When she can't have access to you, her feelings for you will die then she will go look for someone else.



Bro don't waste your precious life on women..

Well.. Honestly she dont deserve the "Bleep and dump" thing, shes good at loving and spending for her man(me). But I dont just wana hurt her,

I feel like just calling her and be like: [b]bae, I dont think this is working out for us any more[b/]…… but I just can't stant the pain she'll get

Op, That shit someone above u typed is the most ridiculous rubbish I've read in a long while.
Why don't you tell her how you feel and end it, might take awhile for her to get over it but she will. Whatever the case, don't manipulate her feelings, end it and go your way peacefully

nanauju:
Op, That shit someone above u typed is the most ridiculous rubbish I've read in a long while.
Why don't you tell her how you feel and end it, might take for her to get over it but she will. Whatever the case, don't manipulate her feelings, end it and go your way peacefully

Op
Make sure you fuck_ that pussy and dump her silly ass.

AntiIncognito:


Well.. Honestly she dont deserve the "Bleep and dump" thing, shes good at loving and spending for her man(me). But I dont just wana hurt her,

I feel like just calling her and be like: [b]bae, I dont think this is working out for us any more[b/]…… but I just can't stant the pain she'll get

If she's good, why wanna brk up?
You seeing someone else?

What's with you and long distance rela?

Our parents stayed in long distance rela in a time when there was only letter writing.

And most letters take months to get to the receiver.


Technology has made things easier for you.
What happens to video calls?
Call her up often.


Go meet an elder to tell you what they did in their days to keep a long distance rela.


I won't be glad if I discovered that you broke up with her.

I love than part you said she spends on you.

I need such girls in my life not leeches.

nanauju:
Op, That shit someone above u typed is the most ridiculous rubbish I've read in a long while.
Why don't you tell her how you feel and end it, might take for her to get over it but she will. Whatever the case, don't manipulate her feelings, end it and go your way peacefully

So you called my write up "poo"?

Didn't you read that part he said the girl is cheating on him with her ex?

Women are all the same.. SMH

milemimi93:


So you called my write up "poo"?

Didn't you read that part he said the girl is cheating on him with her ex?

Women are all the same.. SMH

Cheating on him? No mention of any ex on this thread. I think you should read again

nanauju:


Cheating on him? No mention of any ex on this thread. I think you should read again

I guess he edited his post..

Now read my previous post I quoted him and tell me how you feel about that.

And if that post rhymes with the first post

milemimi93:



I guess he edited his post..

Now read my previous post I quoted him and tell me how you feel about that.

And if that post rhymes with the first post

In ur first post, u told the op to fùck and dump the girl. In ur post whr u mentioned the op, u told him u won't be happy if he breaks up with her.
I think this is the op's decision to make though. because the love has to be mutual for both of them, and if one person isn't feeling that way it's better to go separate ways in order to avoid hurting the one who is doing the loving alone

Just be bold and tell her. You will be surprised she too has been contemplating it

milemimi93:
Fvck her then dump her stylishly just like Miracle did to Nina.

it's not worth it since the girl in question has not exhibited any sign of disloyalty. If he does what you advised, he will be making a monster out of the girl. These are actions that makes girls wild

nanauju:


In ur first post, u told the op to fùck and dump the girl. In ur post whr u mentioned the op, u told him u won't be happy if he breaks up with her.

My second post should show you that my first post was based on the op first post.

His first post talked about his girl cheating.

I don't support cheating.


So now, I want you to edit that your post where you told the op sh!t about my post.

Mr7gWIRELESS:
it's not worth it since the girl in question has not exhibited any sign of disloyalty. If he does what you advised, he will be making a monster out of the girl. These are actions that makes girls wild

Do I care if a girl is WILD or not?

All I care about is how to add cents together and make a dollar.

milemimi93:


My second post should show you that my first post was based on the op first post.

His first post talked about his girl cheating.

I don't support cheating.


So now, I want you to edit that your post where you told the op sh!t about my post.

Take your grievances to the op for editing his post or you can as well force me to edit mine.
I'm not a superhuman that should know what op first posted and how it relates to your comments.
I commented based on what I came and met.
If you don't mind please, I don't engage in NL fights and rants, hence my signature. Do excuse me!

milemimi93:


If she's good, why wanna brk up?
You seeing someone else?

What's with you and long distance rela?

Our parents stayed in long distance rela in a time when there was only letter writing.

And most letters take months to get to the receiver.


Technology has made things easier for you.
What happens to video calls?
Call her up often.


Go meet an elder to tell you what they did in their days to keep a long distance rela.


I won't be glad if I discovered that you broke up with her.

I love than part you said she spends on you.

I need such girls in my life not leeches.

Stop all this preaching. Allow him to experience life and mark the result. That's what is done to a stubborn kid.Op leave that girl alone.You will be a mistake she will regret in future. Or better still,delete her on every social media let her get it. Your type will run in circles all your life because of immaturity. And no woman needs such men because emotional road is far.You will keep wanting more till you give her diseases. Emotionally unstable people are the worst to marry.When things are not going well,they tend to loose control,accuse somebody, dip their third leg into any hole just to feel good and by then,get diseases and spread it on to their wife and others.
Let her be.Mbok

Mr7gWIRELESS:
it's not worth it since the girl in question has not exhibited any sign of disloyalty. If he does what you advised, he will be making a monster out of the girl. These are actions that makes girls wild

Its irrelevant for people to turn wide.

Stop Playing GOD and leave. daht y i love trump

you don't have to break it off, give it some time. just because the love grew cold dosent mean it's no longer there. you could make out time to spend some time together and talk about your feelings , it would do the magic. long distance relationships has it's advantages.
and I would never give up a distance relationship for a closer one.

best of luck.

nanauju:


Take your grievances to the op for editing his post or you can as well force me to edit mine.
I'm not a superhuman that should know what op first posted and how it relates to your comments.
I commented based on what I came and met.
If you don't mind please, I don't engage in NL fights and rants, hence my signature. Do excuse me!

Next time learn not to judge people by the page you walked into their lives..


Scurvy B!

milemimi93:


If she's good, why wanna brk up?
You seeing someone else?

What's with you and long distance rela?

Our parents stayed in long distance rela in a time when there was only letter writing.

And most letters take months to get to the receiver.


Technology has made things easier for you.
What happens to video calls?
Call her up often.


Go meet an elder to tell you what they did in their days to keep a long distance rela.


I won't be glad if I discovered that you broke up with her.

I love than part you said she spends on you.

I need such girls in my life not leeches.

Thanks a lot for being concerned..
But u see my friend, shes nursing this belief and having fantacies of we being together in the future, but truth be told I dont wana marry her..

I never did fell that much in love with her, we were just friends that stepped it a bit further..

So instead of wasting her time with the love thing why not end it in time.. But am afraid she might do somthing stupid, cos this girls love is a 101%

nanauju:


Take your grievances to the op for editing his post or you can as well force me to edit mine.
I'm not a superhuman that should know what op first posted and how it relates to your comments.
I commented based on what I came and met.
If you don't mind please, I don't engage in NL fights and rants, hence my signature. Do excuse me!

I never did edited my post.. His advise is to Bleep and dump her which I can't do

Thanks for ur words anyway

AntiIncognito:


I never did edited my post.. His advise is to Bleep and dump her which I can't do

Thanks for ur words anyway

Alright.. Just follow what your heart says, its actually the right thing,so that u don't turn her to a bítch and then the next guy suffers for it

elyna:
you don't have to break it off, give it some time. just because the love grew cold dosent mean it's no longer there. you could make out time to spend some time together and talk about your feelings , it would do the magic. long distance relationships has it's advantages.
and I would never give up a distance relationship for a closer one.

best of luck.

There's no need. He said he never fell much in love with her

Op, Believe me when I type this, you will miss her, you may end up regretting your decision.

You are distracted. that's the deal. However, be kind enough to break up with her face to face. Don't have sex with her, just do it maturely and leave.


But trust me a woman like her is hard to come by these days.

MariaLavina:
Op, Believe me when I type this, you will miss her, you may end up regretting your decision.

You are right bro.. I actually have missed her to the brim such that I no longer feel it no more..
And yes,, its hard to find one like her, but what's the point of staying in the relationship wen I know I dont want a future for us...

It hurts so much to loose her!

MariaLavina:
Op, Believe me when I type this, you will miss her, you may end up regretting your decision.

You are distracted. that's the deal. However, be kind enough to break up with her face to face. Don't have sex with her, just do it maturely and leave.


But trust me a woman like her is hard to come by these days.

You are right bro.. I actually have missed her to the brim such that I no longer feel it no more..
And yes,, its hard to find one like her, but what's the point of staying in the relationship wen I know I dont want a future for us...

It hurts so much to loose her!

AntiIncognito:


You are right bro.. I actually have missed her to the brim such that I no longer feel it no more..
And yes,, its hard to find one like her, but what's the point of staying in the relationship wen I know I dont want a future for us...

It hurts so much to loose her!

You don't want a future with her? Why? If I may ask.

Is another lady pregnant for you?

I'm a lady BTW, not brother.

MariaLavina:
You don't want a future with her? Why? If I may ask.

Is another lady pregnant for you?

I'm a lady BTW, not brother.

Well..

One major reason is:... Shes older than I am