OneCorner:
You, the girl, d virginity and d virginity breaker are all mad

Tonnexy:
Who else dislike all these boyfriend and girlfriend sex stories?
Op apart from this your story getting me annoyed, another thing that annoys me is that, am not the guy who bleeped your babe and am probably not going to be the next guy to bleep her

AreYoudone:
I loved her mainly cause I thought I found a girl different from every other girl out there...

AreYoudone:
Hello to everyone and thanks for your advice in advance....

I met this young girl over a year ago, she’s 19 and I’m 23 and I really loved her because I see her to be responsible and know what she wants, she was a virgin when we met and I saw her as someone I was willing to spend the rest of my life with if possible but this was all because of the way I see her and how responsible she was and she loves me so much as well, that I knew of for sure.

So after 7 months of being together we had sex because she said she was ready then, prior to that, I’ve been trying to have sex with her but being finding it had to penetrate cause she was a virgin unknowing to me that she doesn’t wanna do it yet. It was someday when I tried having sex with her that I asked her why she’s always like that and she said to me it’s because she ain’t ready yet.

We spoke for about 3 hours about why, she said she doesn’t see herself having sex with more than one man and I understood her and promised not to worry her about it again which I did although it was hard. After some weeks, she said she was ready and we eventually had sex and I promise never to disappoint or leave her.

I broke up with her few months after having sex with her but that’s cause she was disturbing me too much and always wanna be around me... After one month of the breakup, I went back to her and apologised for what I had done and I said I wanted her back that I was just mad and didn’t know why I broke up with her in the first place.

We got back together and I visited her which lead to us having sex. She later told me over the phone that she had sex with someone else 3 weeks after our breakup and I was really disappointed at her because that would be the last thing I would’ve thought she would do cause of the way she carries herself... Like saying stuff like I don’t have time for boys, I don’t see myself having sex with no one else etc... and after 3 weeks, she went ahead and do that cause we broke up. And to be honest, we only had sex a few times before we broke up as we don’t see each other often like that. Definitely less than 10 times.

She said she needed to get over me and that why she did what she did and that it didn’t mean anything to her.

I’ve sacrificed a lot for this girl, I mean a lot, cause I help her out with all her academics work, give her advice whenever she’s going through any tough time especially at home... I basically treats her like a princess when I was with her which is obviously why she likes me that much...

I would like to know what you people think about this and what I should do, should I just forget about her and move on or should I stay and try to work things out with her, tbh, I loved her mainly cause I thought I found a girl different from every other girl out there...

Thanks in advance

pacino26:
23-19 Perfect combo for disaster.

Let me take this one at a time;
1- You opened her Pandora's box
That's a big moral responsibility. At your age I could dictate the pace of things in my relationship. I don't know about you though but girls tend to be wild fires after their first experience. That explains her being all over you, and if you're not principled enough then you be ready to be a father. You lost it thinking she's loose and letting her go. Bluntly it is YOUR FAULT she slept with another guy. That is if you're honest saying you do love her.

The way forward;

You forgive her and take her back.
You start listening to her and show her love without making love all the time. Be her brother if need be. Cuz you just taught a child how to eat candy. Be there to control the appetite.
There's need for some sex education too. Understanding her push-to-start buttons and the need for some other mental training.
Keep checking on her at home, class and all over.
You may need to break some Bro codes by telling her lines and antics that could land her in someone's bed.
List out compromising places and situations she ought not to be with other guys (if you truly want to keep her)
Lastly, you pray for forgiveness and focus on being a better young man. Having a good girl is OK, your age gap gives you a head start to build a life for both of you.

Best of luck.

Tonnexy:
Who else dislike all these boyfriend and girlfriend sex stories?
Op apart from this your story getting me annoyed, another thing that annoys me is that, am not the guy who bleeped your babe and am probably not going to be the next guy to bleep her

Hanseel1:
You're must be very daft and immature for posting this trash here.

Men are scum indeed. The only thing on your mind is sex.

QueenSekxy:

Why can't you make a comment without insulting people?was that how you were trained?

FrostyButter:
Just look at these irresponsible individuals...

At 19, look at how a girl is spending are youth

And they want to be like Dora Akuyili, they want to change the world you lie.

And you too OP, a full grown man spending his youth, begging a girl for her virginity... Then coming here to look for advice...



You are on the right path to success...

Virgin Master!!!