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Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
I'm pregnant and don't want to keep him/her. And I'm not able to abortion him/her. we are not up to one month, I can only wait for another week... No I'm not promiscuous, I'm 24 and was virgin when I met my supposed boyfriend that has now abandoned me and we together for 4 months only and that is barely 5 months ago. I work, I run two jobs actually and are saving up to start my business before this happened. If you want me to stop work you'd provide a place for me to stay till I deliver and if you don't want to stop work I can claim to be a surrogate to questioning people. All you have to do is take care of me for the period till I deliver and three months after and I'll have absolutely no claim to the baby. I can handle that better than abortion the baby. Yes I'm beautiful and the boyfriend responsible is handsome (looks a lot like 2baba). PM me if you're interested |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by StrongWoman333(f): 8:34pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Mumu thread Abortioning kor , kpekusing ni 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
StrongWoman333: I don't think you read through to understand the content of the thread... Please read again Ma'am |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Eketem: 9:02pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Baby factory scam. I pity any desperate trying to conceive mom who will fall for this |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Eketem: It's okay to have doubts but do not conclude until you have evidence backing your claims up. It would cost you nothing to contact me 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Please I'm just an inexperienced girl trying to right my wrongs. It would cost nothing materially to do an abortion but it would take a lot from me spiritually and emotionally... I'm just looking for a way to make it bearable to me and also help someone because I believe every disappointment is a blessing... I'm no scam, it simple! Contact me |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Please I need someone to want this baby, please. I don't want to kill the baby, please I need help.... Please |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Caaz: 9:46pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Dinalove: So how many months gone z the pregnancy |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
[quote author=Caaz post=70907639] So how many months gone z the pregnancy [/quopte] Not up to a month |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by greatgod2012(f): 9:54pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
What is your boyfriends stand on this or is the decision jointly taken by both of you? I need answer ASAP! Thanks! |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
greatgod2012: He's not picking my calls or replying my messages He has a child already with an older woman that I was always disturbing him to send money to |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Caaz: 10:01pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
[quote author=Dinalove post=70907697][/quote] I 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by greatgod2012(f): 10:02pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Dinalove: You mean the decision to give out the baby is solely yours What if he comes later to ask for his child, what will you say? 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by greatgod2012(f): 10:06pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
"If you want me to stop work you'd provide a place for me to stay till I deliver and if you don't want to stop work I can claim to be a surrogate to questioning people. All you have to do is take care of me for the period till I deliver and three months after and I'll have absolutely no claim to the baby. I can handle that better than abortion the baby.' You need to shed more light to this! |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Caaz: I understand Ma'am, I have taken time to think through it. I would have no possible way to reach the collector afterwards... The reason they have to take care of me for an additional three months is just for me to be able to get back on my feet as I had nothing doing the while I was pregnant |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
greatgod2012: Ma,am I'm on my own on this, a woman knows when a man is running from his responsibilities He wants me to get rid of it obviously but is too broke to give me the money and I don't have the heart to carry on with it even though I have the money |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by ifyalways(f): 10:14pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
greatgod2012:You dey fall my hand ma. Pray tell how the OP knows that she's pregnant and 2 weeks gone? Which pregnancy test detects a 2bweeks old pregnancy in 9ja. No be every rubbish deserve replies. Some you read, smile or shake head then jump and pass 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
greatgod2012: I have a job and I can work there pregnant but not many people would want the person carrying their child working, I can stop work only if they'll be accommodation and feeding me because I'll no longer be working |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
ifyalways: Aunty I have only missed my period for a month before I did the urine test and I remember the last time I had sex... Calculating everything shows that it isn't more than a month... I'm real human being that can be taken to clinic to confirm all these |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Ishilove: 10:40pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
3 months is more than enough time to bond with your child 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Ishilove: I'm not going to be with the child, I just need their care for that period Maybe I don't understand how this fully works but all I want is somebody to want the baby so I would not have to get an abortion Thinking about it now, I think it's a lot more complicated than I envisioned I'd rather just get rid of it... |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
If this was something I wanted I'd be strong for it but it's not and I can't be strong for it... It's best to get rid of it. I'm a child borne out of wedlock and I know what I went through I not going to repeat my mother's mistake. A lot of times I've wished I was never borne and had hated my parents with passion. I don't want such conflicting emotions for my child. I don't want to transfer my frustrations on my child... I don't want a child now 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:11pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
this sounds so strange to me. though, there is nothing new under the sun (they say), but this sounds to me as new ish, mehn.. op, you still a young girl and I guess you have parents. why don't you confide in them rather than taking the decision on your own. though, I'm a guy, but I know that you can't give birth to a baby and gift it out to someone without the bond btw you and YOUR BABY come back haunting you. to me, it is like you are selling your baby out which has its own future repercussions. why don't you birth your baby and take it? what if you give it out and the person who collects it uses it for something, do u think u won't have your own share, as reward of ur wrong deed? pls, think, think, and rethink. inform your parents if you've not. and dont sell ur baby out like a chicken. as young as u are, I wonder how u get this kind of thoughts. nawa ooh. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
MrNipplesLover: I'm not a kid sir and are independent and on my own I have been taking care of myself since I was seventeen and I have resolved to rid of it anyways.... No need for long talk |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:42pm On Sep 04, 2018 |
Dinalove: I know u not a kid, and am not saying u are. I only said u still young. that aside. what about the point I made that u should confide in ur parents? don't do this to urself dear. meet with ur parents. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by Eketem: 2:12am On Sep 05, 2018 |
Hmmmm, there is no legal way to do this. No matter what documents one signs if you decide you want to walk away with your baby there is nothing the adopted parent can do. If this is true I really understand your current state of mind and before I would refer you to social welfare but social welfare is dead since this Government took over so I know people are mostly on their own in these matters. Sigh |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by crackhaus: 2:50am On Sep 05, 2018 |
Bullsheeet... |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by greatgod2012(f): 6:27am On Sep 05, 2018 |
ifyalways: my sister, I was just wondering and thinking aloud ni o! |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by greatgod2012(f): 6:30am On Sep 05, 2018 |
Dinalove, i will advise that you think about your decision very thoroughly. if you believe in prayers, pray for wisdom and guidance. I wish you well! |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by viettastitches(f): 8:02am On Sep 05, 2018 |
mtcheeeew |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by MrNipplesLover(m): 8:57am On Sep 05, 2018 |
Tonielee, what's your say on this? |
Re: Do You Need A Baby? by mcdokwe(m): 8:36am On Sep 08, 2018 |
Please don't ham that child. Contact me if you still can |
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