A great relationship is the dream of everybody but the truth is that it’s not hereditary, it’s not by accident, rather, it is a product of character. A broken relationship is no longer news among Brethren as it takes its toll in the church. But a careful examination of oneself and the ability to know how to handle it will guarantee a quality relationship.
Please read this 4 silent destroyers of relationship with an open mind and prepared to change.

1.WRONG MOTIVE:
If you go into a relationship for the wrong reason, you will get the wrong results which emanate from the wrong foundation. Some brothers go into a relationship because they need someone that will be cooking for them or washing their clothes while some sisters go into it because they want to escape from their parental control. All these are capable of destroying a relationship if their expectations are not met.

2. SELFISHNESS:
A relationship involves two people and if the relationship must succeed; ”I” must be ejected i.e selfishness. Nothing kills relationship more than a selfish attitude. Please stop being a parasite, stop looking for what to get in a relationship rather relax for what to give. Love is all about sacrifice, it gives and gives even when it hurts, true love looks for what is beneficial to the other party and not what is beneficial to him/her alone, but cares for the other party.

3. MISINFORMATION:
Information can either build or pull a relationship down because many people enter into courtship and marriage with wrong information like “men are not trustworthy”, “women are generally bad”, “mothers-in-law are bad”, “men are cheaters” etc. Until you purge yourself of all these marriage destroying information, you are not likely to have a good home.

4. UNFORGIVENESS:
Forgiveness is a quality of a good believer, it is also a healing balm to hurtful hearts. A good relationship is not an absence of misunderstanding but the ability to forgive and forget easily without nursing its wound. This strengthens union, promotes love and better understanding. Unforgiveness kills love, your partner will definitely offend you, no man is perfect. Develop a heart that forgives and have the mind of Christ!


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