Kaycee7:
The guy is, if nothing else, a coward. Couldn't he have stood his ground and stopped the girl from ordering? Or sternly tell her that he'll not be paying for her excesses? What sort of lily-livered man-child goes out with a girl and then abandons her? And fellow touts on Nairaland are applauding him? Some dudes are just a disgrace to manhood.

SeanPablo:



i couldn't even understand the shiit you wrote up there....*"what a nonsense"* na wa oh

Ihatelove:

Poverty alleviation scheme? How much can you spend on a date that you want to alleviate someone's poverty? If you can't offer her anything, simply don't invite her out.

Martinez19:
Ask what? You are plain silly. Asking a girl out is not synonymous to a free food bonanza. Besides, she agreed to come after being asked out. The girl should have considered how much the guy can afford. No authority says the guy is obliged to give the girl a free food bonanza and pay the bills because he asked her out. Please be reasonable and don't be silly.

Zizza:

That's not very manly. Just own up to not having the money or just tell her next time.. I find this very cowardly sha.

raphchima:


Some things are learnt better, when experienced... sharp guy!!! She wants eat wetin her papa no fit buy am smh

kingcornel:
so u bliv d guy wil c dis babe again if he tells her next tym.?she will brand d guy BROKE Nd wil neva pik his calls again.it serve her right...

Ihatelove:

Poverty alleviation scheme? How much can you spend on a date that you want to alleviate someone's poverty? If you can't offer her anything, simply don't invite her out.

resurgent2019:


Offer her anything like how? Is friendship or relationship a transaction?

I don’t like what politicians have done to our dear country! The poverty is too much . See how our ladies are thinking?

I am not happy at all.

pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

okwabayi:
Thunder will fire me if she doesn't open leg later for that guy to run his thing. It's how girls are: treat them nice and they walk over you. Treat them anyhow and they'll take care of you like a king. The problem is nobody will broadcast it here when the inevitable happens.
The man is only laying ground rules. I'm sure he was either a struggling working man, a stingy yahoo boy or a sugar daddy with sense. She over-ordered and instead of vocally warning her he decided to walk out silently.

Ximenez:
Seems you missed the part that the girl called to complain about boredom and suggested hanging out. It was the leech that initiated the date. The most honorable thing to do is just to pay and and talk to her about it later, that's if you like her. Otherwise pay and send her off. The economy is bad and we don't know the kind of homes these ladies are from, to an average Nigerian girl, dates means going out to eat for them, that's why they sometimes come with their extended family.


And please guys, be mindful of where you pick chicks from. Don't let konji determine your fate. There are lots of ladies with class out there you can roll with. If you see any hungry looking girl asking for a 'date' just give her what you can afford and tell her to go and eat on her own, you don't have to follow her. You people just pick random girls from corners to slum.

Funkybabee:




Now you didn't say any tangible talk from that ur sensible head yet why ur cry though I can't accuse u since that word I star is from jenifar and I didn't comment here in order to get u folks cry from each point!! Na my sentiment biko nitori oloun

resurgent2019:


Captain save-a-hoe is here to sound pliable to NL women.

I have got news for you, you ain’t getting any pus*y for this treachery you have committed against your fellow men.

You have broken the guy code and deserve to ostracized from the gathering of men. I banish you!

bluefilm:


I thot it was only me who couldn't understand the nonsense she was trying to write.

But I don't feel sorry for her.

I only feel sorry for her parents or guardians who must have wasted so much of their resources in 'training' her in school.

Beehshorp:









It's like them never request for something wey worth your two years salary..



Well.. After buying Suya for one girl for this buhari regime we were walking home jejely and she demanded for Sharwama.. So I told her to join the queue and order.. Na for that line she stand I leave am escape

SeanPablo:



your grammar needs work....i still could not understand a word you said up there.....(truth be told you f**king dumb)...swerve pls don't quote me again.

The week has been productive so far, don't come and spoil it with your ill-luck and bad grammar....

Indeed it is girls like you that have nothing to offer, apart from your cheap wig on your empty big head.


starrring jenifa kor jessica ni....you b olodo simple....mtcheeeeeewwww

Ihatelove:

I guess I missed that part. Even if she initiated it, he could have simply told her that he can't afford such rather than humiliate her like that. And the stupid girl didn't even go with cash, what a shame!!

Funkybabee:




You are just saying silly silly silly maybe u should go and bring pankere here to beat me am in my house , pls biko u guys should leave me nah my view pls

Ihatelove:

Won't you find this insultive if your date ask you such?

pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

chukxie:
That's just not fair. Hmmm! Not fair! The guy that ran off without paying his bills is a spineless, ball-less scoundrel !

Lakside1955:
Honestly, am beginning not to understand what always goes through ladies mind when they go out on a date.

Thats how I met a girl on Saturday noon at a bustop in my area, on normal level, I asked her; can I drop u to your destination cos am with my ride, she said yes and we exchanged numbers after dropping her, like 2hrs later she beep me up that she's bored at home that can we just hang out? On a weekend level now nothing to do but catch fun, I told her yes and asked where can I picked her up, she told me the bus top.
By getting there I met her with other two friends making three, OMG, I asked her why three? She said baby they are my friend and all of us where bored at home that's why they came along with her, ( I don turn baby sharp sharp) I said fine no problem, on our way going she asked where are we heading to, I replied dinners hotel, a popular hotel bar around d area, she said no they want to go KJ as in Kingstonjo haaaaaa, alakoba leleyi o.
Well on getting there, all of them ordered for plate of rice with chicken and big chivita juice each , i don die , i called the waiter and asked for each, she said 4500 so all of them now is 13500, I jejely asked her, sandra are u paying for this? She said no now baby, I said if you are not paying for this then return the food cos am not paying.
Me dat want to carry them go dinners bar jeje then buy one big magic moment make all of us they alright go home
I just left them there and go without paying a dime, luckily for them no one don taste the food sef if not dem for hear am

flyca:
I cannot, have never and will never go on a date without having my own money in my pocket. Even when I was younger, my mum will not even allow me leave the house empty handed. For first dates, I love to be the one to pay.

Besides the only thing I eat out is yogurt, few other times moi-moi Every other thing I can invite you and cook it in my house. I even cook better than all those curry-one-side rice they serve at most Nigerian eateries. So we cannot be spending more than 1k on first date, for what nah

Anyway, it's all these guys abandoning their dates in restaurants are broke cowards! And I can smell from them 50km radius.

Beehshorp:









It's like them never request for something wey worth your two years salary..



Well.. After buying Suya for one girl for this buhari regime we were walking home jejely and she demanded for Sharwama.. So I told her to join the queue and order.. Na for that line she stand I leave am escape

Ximenez:
We don't know the guy's recent experience with girls, hence that kind of behaviour. Maybe next time, you'll be the one he will go out with, so you can change his mindset.

Martinez19:
No I won't. In fact I would be pleased that I brought a sensible lady to date me.

Jaqenhghar:

At thos rate chics will start handcuffing themselves to their dates just in case