Please I just need advise on how to handle romantic feelings toward a female colleague.

I'm married, I love my wife, however lately I started having romantic feelings towards a colleague. She knows it, she has even ask what I really wants from her. she also knows I'm married but she seems to be playing along.

Please I need tips on how to deal with it... I don't want to break my home... I don't want to have extra marital affair

Fûck her and go your way
If she comes again, you continue fücking her till she's tired
make sure your wife is aware of the game plan

Minimize your interactions with her and discourage further apparent interest or whatever feelings you have for her.

You need discipline yourself not to derail from your marriage commitment........
BTW try rekindle the love you have with your wife, your love for her seems to have drifted away that's why you are noticing this colleague of yours.

Cut off your preek

donbachi:
Minimize your interactions with her and discourage further apparent interest or whatever feelings you have for her.

I really wish to but is difficult for me... How can I really do it?

AIexistaiwo:
I really wish to but is difficult for me... How can I really do it?

do what you'd expect your wife to do if she was to fall into a situation like this. How would you have wanted her to treat the coleague she is having romantic feelings for?

Olalan:
You need discipline yourself not to derail from your marriage commitment........
BTW try rekindle the love you have with your wife, your love for her seems to have drifted away that's why you are noticing this colleague of yours.

I think you are right, but not absolutely.. I will try my best

generationz:
Cut off your preek

E be like say u don see another job. The kind hunger weh go finish u and ur family when u leave dat job due to shame and ridiculous disrespect from her.. Shebi she dey sweet you now. After sleeping with her, watch her reaction when she sees u talking to another female in d office, especially if na her grudge enemy.

So as u old reach u never wise to know say dem no dey do affection for place of work where u dey see money provide for ur home. Your mumu na German-made.

Oluromantic:
E be like say u don see another job. The kind hunger weh go finish u and ur family when u leave dat job due to shame and ridiculous disrespect from her.. Shebi she dey sweet you now. After sleeping with her, watch her reaction when she sees u talking to another female in d office, especially if na her grudge enemy.

So as u old reach u never wise to know say dem no dey do affection for place of work where u dey see money provide for ur home. Your mumu na German-made.

I agree more with this submission than anyone else

Focus more on your wife.

You need to understand how hurt and disappointed your wife's gonna feel when she finds out and its only a matter of time before she does. You may need to call this lady and apologize to her for leading her on and for whatever that happened between you too and also explain to her as in make her to understand how much you love, care and cherish your family after that pls avoid her like she has some kind of disease. Advice, control and discipline yourself too.

chiommy123:
You need to understand how hurt and disappointed your wife's gonna feel when she finds out and its only a matter of time before she does. You may need to call this lady and apologize to her for leading her on and for whatever that happened between you too and also explain to her as in make her to understand how much you love, care and cherish your family after that pls avoid her like she has some kind of disease. Advice, control and discipline yourself too.

thanks

Oluromantic:
E be like say u don see another job. The kind hunger weh go finish u and ur family when u leave dat job due to shame and ridiculous disrespect from her.. Shebi she dey sweet you now. After sleeping with her, watch her reaction when she sees u talking to another female in d office, especially if na her grudge enemy.

So as u old reach u never wise to know say dem no dey do affection for place of work where u dey see money provide for ur home. Your mumu na German-made.

bro thanks for the words appreciate

AIexistaiwo:
Please I just need advise on how to handle romantic feelings toward a female colleague.

I'm married, I love my wife, however lately I started having romantic feelings towards a colleague. She knows it, she has even ask what I really wants from her. she also knows I'm married but she seems to be playing along.

Please I need tips on how to deal with it... I don't want to break my home... I don't want to have extra marital affair

Don't S H I T where you eat. That's the best advice I can give you.

Office romance never turn out good, most especially for an already married person. It's too risky and just not worth it.

AIexistaiwo:
I really wish to but is difficult for me... How can I really do it?

avoid hangouts,dont give or collect gift,avoid unlawful and ungodly corners with her and stop stiring deep into her eyes.