folexultra:

I've got 2 serious boy friends who are both cute enough for me but-

, one is rich and well connected (from a rich background) who overwhelms me with everything money can buy but spends so little time with me.

, while the other is an hussling job-seeker with enough time on his hands to lavish on me.

I'm 28 and think of settling down but dont know which to choose.

MRbrownJAY:

why is everyone using that poor gal picture as their own. she must be fuming knowing that there are maybe 20 people pretending to be her. . . . . . . . . . . beware poster, that pic has been used to scam/defraud others and they might think you were the one since you are using that same gal photo.

Acidosis:

@MRbrownJAY, are you serious?

Missy B:

Fake picture!
I'm not even sure the poster is the person in the pic.

iice:

Hmmmm i would have thought someone hustling will have little time, since he/she is. . .you know. . .hustling
And the one from a rich background would have more time

190:

^^
Then who~
U mean Opelovely's even using someone's pic

whats happening to nairaland these days!

folexultra:

Gud enuf tht I'm relating to pple who av both sharp IQs as well as eyes.
The pix ain't mine! But since the scammer who is broadcasting the pix ddnt care bout its publicity, y shld I?
The significance of the pix is just to depict an innocent gurl who needs a sincere guide, thats all.
And thanks to all of u for the posts so far:

I really wasn't double dating and FYI, I aint evn sleeping wt either of them,

I 1st got steady wt my rich bf and believed tht he was all I needed but after a while, he consistently left me alone for long spells of time. He was caring enuf to always make sure I neva lacked the material things though but for me, tht was nt the koko. Did I tell him so? Yes I did. But he always had "valid" reasons to be off again. Well, like I said, I needed company and was also lucky to get 1.

He came ova to our aus with a coz's frnd and later showed interest. To be candid, I told him all bout my bf bt tht wasn't enuf to dissuade him. Wt no promises of anytin whatsoeva, he stl satyed close and was always there for me. I'd say he's just bn nice bt i'm getting to like him kind of.

And before u start passing judgemnet, I'm sure lots of u cld do worse. So I'd appreciate comments, advice, and +ve critisisms NOT -ve blahs.

folexultra:

He was caring enuf to always make sure I neva lacked the material things though but for me, tht was nt the koko. Did I tell him so? Yes I did.

folexultra:

cos I need the money and the time to be candid

folexultra:

(even though money aint my problem cos my family is aight).