adetes:
He went to school but school didn't went true him

martyns303:
I was just talking about comments like the ones above in another thread.

I have heard people say things like "na because of woman him commit suicide? very weak man, him deserve to die"
"because of ordinary N50k na em kill himself"

The way our physical strength differs, so is our mental strength. so what Mr A can withstand, Mr B may not be able to.

Why then do they commit suicide? Imagine u r on the 10th floor of a burning building, no way to come down. if you stay in the building u will burn and die, but then have u noticed in most cases people tend to jump out of the window? even tho jumping out the window still means certain death. staying back in the building will be a more painful death, so they JUMP!!!

For suicidal people staying alive is more painful, so they take the easier pain, which is to JUMP. so they jump off 3rd mainland bridge or take sniper and other easy way out.
it is our responsibility to look out for people like this, encourage them, and give them reasons to stay alive.
I have taken out time to write all of this, cos I have been there, I know how it feels. it is not always about money.

martyns303:


Have u seen a well dressed person fighting with a conductor over N50 balance? Do u think the person can't afford to loose the N50? Its the emotions that accompany it that is the root of the problem.

in the case of the conductor, the emotions involved is the feeling of being cheated that causes the person to fight.

in this guy's case, it is the feeling of betrayal, anger, lost and uncertainty. it can be overwhelming.

adetes:
He went to school but school didn't went true him

sonofoluku:


What a dumb explanation??This guy killed himself all because of a stinky hole that smells like fish.Can you pls put urself in the shoes of his parents ,close relatives and close friends??How will they feel knowing their person killed himself over a lady who may not even have a good personal hygiene ??This guy died just because of p******y.He too is a p***y and the world is certainly better without him.The explanation u gave is totally out of context with the issue on ground.

benben1000:
I'm sure he invested so much on her and only for her to betray him in her final yr. Men stop sponsoring or supporting women who are not your wife, daughters and mother except you are doing it for pure gesture or mutuality benefits. You won't listen!

HaileSelassie:


You're spot on my friend.. But then you realize that we were all born with different level of mental strengths, just the same way our physical strengths varies.. What you could handle easily might be very problematic for the next man....

Thanks for this kind words, its just that life sometimes structures itself in a way that make you burn your fingers before learning.
Have a pleasant day my friend

benben1000:


Useless things

Benekruku:
May be babe don carry belle for am and she no gree to dislodge.

HaileSelassie:
I used to antagonise people who get suicidal over seemingly easy issues.. Until I experienced shiiits myself....

Esp when it comes to relationship, no one will ever understand what went down except you both and you will look stupid trying to explain to anyone.

I realized I wasn't as mentally tough as I thought!

Never talk down on people who are suicidal or bold enough to end it all...

Its a cold world..

martyns303:


Have u seen a well dressed person fighting with a conductor over N50 balance? Do u think the person can't afford to loose the N50? Its the emotions that accompany it that is the root of the problem.

in the case of the conductor, the emotions involved is the feeling of being cheated that causes the person to fight.

in this guy's case, it is the feeling of betrayal, anger, lost and uncertainty. it can be overwhelming.

donbachi:
imbe...common pussy

resurgent2019:


Pu*sy wey boys don Bleep tire? I am sure the girl left because of money issues.

The guy just wasted his own life.

DuBLINGreenb:
Does final year mean anything?

benben1000:
I'm sure he invested so much on her and only for her to betray him in her final yr. Men stop sponsoring or supporting women who are not your wife, daughters and mother except you are doing it for pure gesture or mutual benefits. You won't listen!