Zirah:


How does being in an abusive relationship relate to unintelligence? Could you give your theory?

An intelligent lady will not be in a relationship with an abusive guy.

Someone says he lost interest in a lady cos she was in a toxic relationship. Hmm..well that was God helping her dodge another bullet which would have eventually killed her.

Met her on my way to NYSC camp, we exchanged numbers and she even was the first to call. Because I'm not that type that is easily attracted to ladies, I kept my cool but she kept on calling-insisting we see every social night. Gradually I fell for her and we became really close in camp. To my greatest surprise, after camp she no longer calls nor chat me up, hardly answer's my calls nor replies my chat.

Long story short I just taya for the girl. Now I'm back to being me that gives no Sh!t abt girls.

centboy123456:



I swear to God me and u na d same thing oh in fact I can like a girl today tomorrow I lose interest me I talk am I no go marry just baby mama because marriage na sacm

Well, that's the way to go bro... Baby mama or even adoption.

Divay22:

You will get married. But to the one you just can't seems to give up on or want to lose..i understand that feeling.

Seriously, what's there not to lose? Most of them don't even know what they want. You know that's the truth

Donwyz:
she agreed to be mine o but the next day she told me that she was joking about it and never had feelings for me,saying I should try someone else!.....I cried that day but I have since moved on and still yet to ever be in a relationship.... tragic!

Chai so painful

I loose interest easily but if I like you,I like you for real.no comma :PP

But some guys though can be very manipulative.

tgmservice:
The babe was so boring, imagine replying my whatsapp chat every 30 minutes.

Oboi i find my level.

I like that kind of girl. It shows she is busy with other valuable projects or she has a full-time job, that is taking up her attention. You should go and find something useful to do, instead of assuming that the girl must always be at your beck and call, to respond to your messages every 5 seconds.

ceeroh:


Seriously, what's there not to lose? Most of them don't even know what they want. You know that's the truth

Ahswear ;DD
Marriage is a waste of time. Work hard ,make good money ,be positive,never love way too much. Help others. That's my goal

zinnyzee:
Heh.

LaudableXX:

I like that kind of girl. It shows she is busy with other valuable projects or she has a full-time job, that is taking up her attention. You should go and find something useful to do, instead of assuming that the girl must always be at your beck and call, to respond to your messages every 5 seconds.

common, people chat at leisure time.

NiggasInParis:
There was this girl i met in Ilorin late 2015, A law student as at then second year in Unilorin.

When we first met it was really interesting and fun. Infact the day we first met we had a swell time, good conversation remarks which led to me even accompanying her all the way to her house in Basin.

Got to even meet her dad and enjoyed a little bit of reception all on the first day we met.

Deep in my heart i was already down for her and was already making plans for the future with her. I had taken it that serious.

In physical features she was my dream type, slim, tall, straight, front and back well served in admirable proportions(a real turn on for slim girls)

As for her intellect and communication skills she was moderate enough though as a law student i expect more.

Now as a grown ass man who knows the hierachy in which i place girls i meet and usefullness of all the ladies on my radar... I already knew this was someone i will want to have a long term relationship with and possibly cross the bridge with in the future so i wasted no time in going straight to the point.

After a few chit chats, follow ups and calls and one informal meeting we went on a date were i asked her out with all my heart, 2nd time we were meeting after the first day we met.


Having replied with the famous "i will think about it response" i had thought she just wanted to be conservative and stretch me a bit you know..Normal forming things

But no. it took another turn!

She started becoming too reserved unlike the lively and jovial person i had met that got me attracted to her. Delayed giving me a reply and when She later did went on to tell me that she don't think she's ready for relationship but we can just be friends.


Really!!!

This was a girl i am sure was into me in every variables and means by which i cant explain here.
Did not say much and let it slide in the few days ahead by sublty killing communication with her..Little effort she made by starting any chat convo wouldn't yield as i woukdnt lead her on and i stopped calling her as well. The spirit was already weak!


Now You wont believe 4 months later in 2016 she called and was complainng i had forgotten her, that i claimed i loved her when I did not, asking that i never called her or talked to her after she said no. That i was suppose to continue persuading her, that really was into me too but just wanted to delay me a bit....

I was SPEECHLESS!

"Firstly i'm longer in Ilorin, secondly the love i had for you had died after the way things turned out and what you're just telling me now has buried it. If we must have something between us again, there will need to be some sort of rekindling- which will go on to reflect the lovely, receptive and good attitude of yours that attracted me to you in the first place"

That was what i told her

Since then i never heard from her again!

Guy, I don't usually comment on this section but I felt a compelling need to do so.

You goofed big time. The girl was into you but wanted a little effort on your part, wanted the thrill of being chased and the value it implies. What were you thinking? A girl was friendly with you and even got you to meet her father. Could there ever be any stronger indication you were had won her favor ? That early familiarity led her to be wary. She wanted you to affirm her value.
I think you acted too hastily.
However, there's always room for rematch .

Daminovic:
Chai so painful

I tell ya

sochey:

Ahswear ;DD
Marriage is a waste of time. Work hard ,make good money ,be positive,never love way too much. Help others. That's my goal

Lol.. Are you sure you're a lady?
Personally, I don't believe in chasing girls upandan, if you're not interested, I move on right away with my senses still intact. Fact is.. you cannot like everybody and not everyone will like you.

ceeroh:


Lol.. the stress isn't worth it most times. I cherish my peace of mind

Seriously oo, I can't give myself heartache over any girl. If they want anything more 'just friends' na OYO dem dey

93Miles:


B! t ch

Uka adi bitch

93Miles:


B! t ch

You inconsequential nincompoop

ceeroh:


Lol.. Are you sure you're a lady?
Personally, I don't believe in chasing girls upandan, if you're not interested, I move on right away with my senses still intact. Fact is.. you cannot like everybody and not everyone will like you.

I'm 100% lady. Just that love is bleeped up.

sochey:

I'm 100% lady. Just that love is bleeped up.

It's overrated!

felzylix:
Time, I realized there wouldn't be time for her. The little time i have i use it on my video game.


Game lovers like us, we noh dey too dey follow woman like that nah PES dey rus
h us

WE THEM BOIZ. BROS I FEEL YOU. PES ALL THE WAY. THOSE GURLS AIN'T LOYAL. #ADUFF

Left my workplace, went to see her after driving for an 1hr and 70% of the time she pressed her phone.
Feelings dropped from 45% to 2%

IamaNigerianGuy:



Guy, I don't usually comment on this section but I felt a compelling need to do so.

You goofed big time. The girl was into you but wanted a little effort on your part, wanted the thrill of being chased and the value it implies. What were you thinking? A girl was friendly with you and even got you to meet her father. Could there ever be any stronger indication you were had won her favor ? That early familiarity led her to be wary. She wanted you to affirm her value.
I think you acted too hastily.
However, there's always room for rematch .

serious minded people are straight and direct. They have no time for hide and seek shit... You are on point tho.

AkpaMgbor:

Very logical submission..however, some people can be snubbish online(and this goes to both sex), they seem to forget that even the friends they have were once totally unknown strangers..

Hehehe.. I won't lie that I don't snob some people. There are always reasons to snob which could be good or bad though but I think it all still boils down to the flow between us. I'd definitely stop chatting with someone whom I only have conersations like, "Hello, Hi, How was your day?, How was your night?"

Hope you get?

Glink2018:


That's his choice. Marriage material lady are very few.

So if you see one, pursue it will all that it takes.

Good luck in your future searching...

Bro, don't tell me you are like that guy he talked about. Don't spend your whole time chasing a 21sr century girl, if she is not into you chasing her for years will only irritate her the more. Girls no longer play hard to get!

insperyadyou:
Mine was, it was very clear that I was forcing myself into her probably because little interest from her wasn't' there at all. She will never return multiple missed calls. There was no Chemistry in our chats and discussion. She was never straight-forward. She was Cunningly rude, and her actions were like "get the hint and move on". I read the signs early. To me, hers wasn't playing hard to get. She was never interested. I moved on. Sometimes we think holding on is what makes us stronger not knowing is letting go.

true talk

Bryan12:
Left the my workplace, went to see her after driving for an 1hr and 70% of the time she pressed her phone.
Feelings dropped from 45% to 2%

Boboswae:
She said she sees me as her younger brother

Jesu

ceeroh:


It's overrated!

I dey tell you. Nigerian guys should just take a break. You text me on WhatsApp,text me on messenger, text me on Instagram,text me on twitter. And still call me and you expect me to reply all that. How many am II? Tomorrow they will say that girl is a snub...... Mtcheeeewww

Xisnin:

Inferiority complex!
If you ask random white men, they will give similar answer of their girls being boring but won't
compare them with others because they know there are boring and interesting people everywher..

It's not whether or not they are boring. It's their politeness n willingness to chat even tho they don't have shit to say that sets them apart of our Nigerian Queens. Our girls r not only boring but are arrogant about it. Two very different worlds.

Cc. MariaLavina, Xisnin, sodiqapril

Glink2018:


That's his choice. Marriage material lady are very few.

So if you see one, pursue it will all that it takes.

Good luck in your future searching...

Correct guy!

sochey:

I dey tell you. Nigerian guys should just take a break. You text me on WhatsApp,text me on messenger, text me on Instagram,text me on twitter. And still call me and you expect me to reply all that. How many am II? Tomorrow they will say that girl is a snub...... Mtcheeeewww

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