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My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 2:43pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Please help me move this to front page, i need help. Here goes my story. I and my girl friend have been dating for 15months now. Everything has been good between us filled with lots of love and promises. i love her so much and so does she. we have decided to let our families know about our relationship because i want to make her my life partner. She told her parents about me but her parents are disapproving our relationship on the bases of Cultural differences. We're both of the same religion... Same state of Origin but different cultural background. Her parents said they cannot allow any of their children to marry anyone outside their tribe. I'm hurt badly by this because they're not trying to consider my personality but they're judging based on their cultural belief. My girlfriend on the other hand is confused as i am. I can't fight it if she can't fight along with me. I love her so much and i can't imagine myself with anyone else. What should i do? How do i solve this emotional puzzle? I'm hurt and i don't know who to blame.? I need your advice because i really want to be with her so does she, and i don't want lack of ideas to kill this bond off.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by HonAdeli(m): 2:45pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Just pray and talk to her so she could change their minds 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by LuciferKristi: 2:46pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Kill your in-laws. Problem solved. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 2:48pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
HonAdeli: I've tried to convince her to talk. but she's scared to confront them... she she's scared of being rude to them... I can't do anything because i don't want to be rude either |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 2:49pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
LuciferKristi:Haba, you know its not possible nor proper to do |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by ritylove(f): 3:00pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
We're both of the same religion... Same state of Origin but different cultural background. Her parents said they cannot allow any of their children to marry anyone outside their tribe In this 21st century so parents still take such primitive decisions please what tribe is that And how sure are you that she loves you the way you think cux any girl who loves you the way you explained will surely stand firmly by yourside at this point no matter what If she loves you that much believe me disobeying her parents wont be and issue when they realize how desperate she is getting married to you they will eventually give in 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by marshalldgreat(m): 3:02pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Na wa |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by amaniro: 3:05pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Try to Familaries with her parents they'll change their perspective later ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by samdavjustin(m): 3:06pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
dihhowner: Get her pregnant and watch them beg you to marry her ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by medexico(m): 3:09pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
dihhowner: I was once in your shoes bro, she was not even from Nigeria. I told her my plans and she decided to ask her parent if it is possible but they said it is not possible, if you see how this girl un-love me ehn! I was shocked. She told me she cannot fight her parent because of me. I was devastated, I thought I couldn't libe without her, but here I am, in love with another wonderful girl, this one even love me pass the other one. so stop saying you cannot imagine yourself with another person (na so you go talk until you see that person) I no go lie e take long before I fit no love the girl again, so just take your time and stop thinking about her so much. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by menix(m): 3:09pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
OP, from ur narrative, there is certainly cultural difference nd urs seems bad.. So what is that culture ur people ve that scares Her family.. Just the way I can't allow my daughter marry a man whose culture scraps her hair, drinks the water used in Bathing the dead.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 4:00pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
medexico: thanks for the advice, i think I'll try to forget her 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by Fiisty(f): 4:06pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Giv her Belle. Problm solved |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by folake4u(f): 4:18pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
![]() There's beauty in cultural diversity. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 4:18pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
ritylove: I'm Bassa-nge from kogi. she's Igala from kogi too. we're both inlove... The way she's confused now, shes weak to say or do anything... i thought she could fight for it, but I'm betrayed by her effortless actions. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 4:23pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
menix: till now i just can't grab the problem. the only thing they said was our two tribes don't marry..... which is absolute lie cause i have friends and relations who married from their side |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 4:25pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
samdavjustin:i would rather not try that. I'm scared of the consequences... |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by amaniro: 4:33pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
dihhowner: Funny thing about culture is that they were man made. from the story the girl is reluctant to continue the relationship. I know kogi state very well All tribes in Kogi share something similar so what's their problem. Igalas are in the east while Bassa and Ebira are in western side. Abi? my advice just be jejely packing your bags from her heart 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by ecstasy357(m): 5:00pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
LuciferKristi: Or...or...run away with her like they do in the movies and we'll call it runaway love part 2 |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by ecstasy357(m): 5:05pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by Zeeche(f): 5:07pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Very funny culture indeed. I am not from kogi state but involved myself in a relationship with a Kogi guy, Igala to be precise...he gave same story. How their family do not get married outside their tribe. According to him, anyone who marries outside their tribe will face some consequences. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by samdavjustin(m): 5:30pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
dihhowner: Stay there nah then you’re not ready to do all it takes to be with her. So find another girl nah |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by nelsonebby(m): 5:35pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Get her pregnant fast |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by Chubhie: 5:43pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
dihhowner:That fast? Is she not even worth fighting for? |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by popweezy(m): 5:43pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
nelsonebby:LOL! Nigga, u know wat dey call dat action? GRAND THEFT |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by YoungDaNaval(m): 5:47pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
If you truly love her. then plant your seed asap! hope say una never abort before sha |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by Chubhie: 5:56pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
dihhowner:You could approach the father in a neutral ground and layout your best arguments on how you are willing to catch a grenade just to marry his daughter. His next moves would determine if its in your best interest to stake your very life for your woman. His predicted moves after you approach him. He orders his daughter to cut all links to you or send her far faraway from you or gets you arrested so you sign an undertaking never to be seen one mile radius near his daughter. At this stage, self preservation and self interest should override what ever your third leg and testosterone are conspiring against you with. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by Nobody: 5:56pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
dihhowner: Whatever happens,Don't marry any woman without her fathers consent 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by Nobody: 5:57pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
samdavjustin:Not always true. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Breakup With Me After This Happened... by dihhowner(m): 6:39pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Chubhie: Thanks so much |
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