Relationships are great when there is room for proper understanding and management of words by both parties involved.

There are different phases attached to a relationship, most especially if it's a long-term course, challenges, fights, emotions, anger, happiness and a whole lot of feelings and actions comes along.

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While these attachments are meant to be handled properly, partners need to have a proper understanding as to why they need to pass through the phases.
Your man overly complains, makes you feel weak and being tolerated? Oh well, Your imperfection should be in his perfection, if he complains all the time, which wasn't an attitude from the onset, then why not give do a clear and calm check up on every ongoing events.

For a man to vent his anger, and talk over unpleasant things, that means he has been bottling up issues of which you were not aware of.

Now the question is:

Why is your man complaining?

It can he helpful to understand that most and if not all of your man's act of complaining has little to do with you. you may not believe this as you are always on the receiving end, swallowing his complaints and act like you are fine.

But the truth is that anyone who finds fault with others is first unhappy with themselves and their lives. You are two different individuals who communicate differently, perhaps your partner grew up with experiences that made them to be unspoken and never willing to let go of regrets.

If your man is mature enough to admit the true reasons why he's angry and complains always, your relationship will change for the better, and if not, you still need to understand the dissatisfaction is likely not about what you do or don't do.

Here's a bucket list of what you should do, read between the lines and be sure you understand these really well before you make your decisions.

Be willing to add to your knowledge

One of the great ways to indirectly stop your man from complaining is to add more to your knowledge. You can't just be there, empty without awesome ideas as to how some problems can be solved. Learn everyday and be bold to learn things in a hard way.

If your man needs answers to questions, will he be sure of asking you for answers? or will he have doubts about you not being filled with ideas?

read and learn from all spheres of life. It matters, it enlarges you ability to address life issues.


Be careful of your reactions.

Most responses can trigger more anger, resulting to more fights and causing him to pull away physically and emotionally. Avoid reactions that will prolong tension between you and your man, let calmness reflect in your reaction and make him understand you are listening to him before addressing the issue.

Be objective about each of the complains he gives

This is challenging, but you always have to think objectively, evaluate the situation and check if your actions irritate him or make him feel disrespected.

Be objective about how you handle criticism, and take a step back from your negative emotions. Speak to him out of a place of hurt, as this will keep you both in a painful conversation, though it will help you to resolve issues.
Set Your Boundaries and learn to communicate well

When issues are resolved, no excuse for bad behavior. Your man has the responsibility to treat you will care, while you also need to do the same for him. Setting personal boundaries is synonymous to building a strong fence around your house, it keeps you safe and doesn't give room for unnecessary fights. Work on yourself, i means elf-development and set boundaries that will grow your self-esteem.

Doing this doesn't mean you are.....

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