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Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Jude49(m): 11:57am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Marry her if she has potentials. You could help build her up too |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by DawnG1(m): 11:59am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Bros don vex o |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by spiritedtete: 12:00pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
mrphysics: |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Newboss(m): 12:02pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
donstan18:Are you now a feminist? Or is this misogyny at its peak? I'm asking because you're a certified women shamer on Nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by DAntivirus: 12:03pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
pocohantas: Are you an evening newspaper 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by abirescholar567: 12:08pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
A lady should worth 5k |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by spiceadole: 12:08pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
A woman's financial worth is not important. Most men don't care if a woman earns anything or not. As long as a man is comfortable and can provide, foot bills, a woman doesn't think twice to accept his proposal. On social media, men say they like independent ladies but in reality, they prefer to marry dependent women. The reason is obvious. A woman's worth is not based on finance. It's based on her marital status and child bearing status. If you have money and you are not married, you be olosho, ashewo, evening /night newspaper. Who cares about a woman's money?? NOBODY |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by pansophist(m): 12:09pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
I'm a traditional man when it comes to conjugal union. A lady that I intend to settle down with must meet the following. Young and fertile. I'm in my mid twenties, and won't settle for a girl that is at least five years younger than me, preferably 10. She must be beautiful and in good shape. Compatibility is a must. Need I say more? Must be willing to have my kids before her 30, in her most fertile period of her life. She must be a literate, not necessarily formal education, albeit, autodidactism will do. She can be poor as hell, I don't care. But if that makes her a leach, then I'm not compatible with her. She has the choice to work or not, although the livelihood of the family is my responsibility. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Kennydoc(m): 12:09pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
donstan18: A lady's character traits and virtues are more important than any amount she has in her account, especially in Africa. Even if she has a lot of money, our culture makes it such that the man still bears most of the financial burden. As far as I'm concerned, any lady that either has a decent job or skill which can yield money and matches these up with sound character in the home front (including submission) is good to go. |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by DAntivirus: 12:10pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
Mira200:how about for a guy? |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
spiceadole:Men does so to avoid infedelity from the side of his wife. |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by mhizcassidy001(f): 12:12pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
I used to think that after my HND i want to do my degree and have my master then a good paying job before i settle down,but guess what i will be 37 before i am able to settle for all this degree i so much love to acquired before i got married. a lady should get married when she ithe opportunity to,even if she is not financially bouyant,if she has a skill, educated,she is good to go cause definitely she will bring some thing to the table as time goes on. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by 1x2x3: 12:13pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
Women should understand that being a woman doesn't automatically mean you are ready for marriage. If you are Jobless and can't contribute anything in a marriage then you are not ready. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by anonymous1759(m): 12:13pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
[quote author=donstan18 post=71519445]Generally, marriage is the legal or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship[Specifically a union between a man and a woman]. As we all know, most men[Not all] wait till they are financially buoyant enough to start up a family, because it's mainly a man's responsibility to pay the bills in his home, and he should be prepared. But does that mean a lady who has only 2k in her account is finacially good to go or fit for marriage? I mean, like how much should a lady worth before accepting a marriage proposal from a man? OPINIONS from either men/women will be welcomed. Most Nigerian girls think it's a crime for them to have bouyant account... Especially the ones I've on what'sapp definition of lazy youths. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by oluakin08: 12:14pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
5m |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by mhizcassidy001(f): 12:14pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
good list pansophist: |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
Katier00:well said. |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by oneclickng: 12:16pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
pocohantas:are u one of them? Because i'm searching... |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
pansophist:simple yet detailed! Good to know we still have men that understands RESPONSIBILITY!. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Cupie22(f): 12:21pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
mrphysics: Kilode?? 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by kushme: 12:26pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
pocohantas: Kai.. This Poco' get common sense wella. Let me ask you a question... Don't take it personal, shey you be evening newspaper? Cos, most times, old news na better reference and reasonable key to the future. |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Reminder: 12:52pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
She should worth a SKILL that people would require her service. |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
First life experience matters, 1: Experience what goes in ones head, when rent payment is due. That means you must have lived on your own. 2: Learn what it means to economize your provisions till the end of the month. 3: Learn to say no even if you have something to give to someone who requested it knowing it will hurt you, if you gave it out. 4: Learn to go left, if all things do not turn right. 5: Learn not to interrupt your spouse, even if his opinions are wrong, later tell him you have a suggestion on what he said, but it is up to him to do it or not, even if he fails in that regard you will support him, 6: Learn not to support your spouse, if he plan to do evil.Psalms 1;1-3 7: God said Happy are those hearing the word of God and keep it, Luke 11 vs 28 Your financial worth does not matter. Money matter pertaining to women, an ibo adage said Nwata kpata Oru ji, osi na ya apkata oru ubochi, ma omaghi na oru ji puru igwu na otu ubochi. In english, when a child harvest 20 yams, he allocates it to 20 days, not knowing that 20 yams can last for a day |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
NAIRALAND IS NOTHING BUT SH!T.. IMAGINE TOPIC YOUNG MEN GATHER TO DISCUSS DAILY ON A FACELESS FORUM?? OP, HOW WILL THIS VERY USELESS TOPIC HELP THE EPILEPTIC POWER SITUATION IN YOUR AREA ?? POOR, EMPTY HEAD MOTHERFVCKERS.. SPITS.
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Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
pocohantas: Hey do you have a younger sister though? 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by AlhajaChinyere: 1:18pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
Raalsalghul: Dont do it! It is HELL especially for the man. The sex and love would wear off completely in 24 months. The rest na humongous suffering. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by bluefilm: 1:22pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
pocohantas: A confirmed evening newspaper representing her senatorial district wella. Keep doing the good job. With the direction the economy of the country is heading to, all hope is not yet lost for the department of evening newspapers. |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by AlhajaChinyere: 1:24pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
Katier00: Nigerian parents should drum this into the brains of their daughters!!!! Marrying a family richer than your own also have its many abusive and humiliating implications. They will thoroughly rubbish you and your family. The hole is not enough in this day and age except the man wants to suffer. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by adebayo236(m): 1:25pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
mrphysics:there u ve it Ladies |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by OmoManU: 1:28pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
For me I think when a lady is done with proper schooling, uni first degree or poly HND in the minimum and she's of okay character and everyother things plus the guy asking for her hand is equally ready i.e he can fend for her |
Re: How Much Should A Lady Worth Before Accepting A Marriage Proposal? by AlhajaChinyere: 1:31pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
Kennydoc: Foolish African men always begging and asking for submission, na your slave? 4 Likes |
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