Igbokiller:
is this missraine69 MAN OR WOMAN.

Female ....

MissRaine69:

What about emotional trauma? Meeting someone and then finding out that what you thought was is not the case. It was an illusion of sorts . There are women who are professionals at this sort of thing and it has diddly squat to do with the man being dominant. When someone hurts your feelings or betrays you in a way you did not see coming how do you vent? Show your dominance??When society is more sympathetic towards the woes of females men who do express emotional distress are viewed as weak! Your attitude is wrong. Men do suffer but he is supposed to be dominant right? it’s not always possible, hence why for some men suicide starts to be appealing. Men get depressed, men struggle to find their paths in life and men do experience emotional turmoil. But most internalise and end up exploding in a way that is counterproductive.

We forget women do awful things to men too why do we vilify men more for exactly the same crime?

Emotional trauma..... as you described ...is about being played...not abused. Moving on.... when a woman begins to abuse a guy.... he either puts his foot down from jump...or dumps the woman...and moves on....no time to jump on social media with lamentations...thus...less reports.Doesn't mean he doesn't get upset...and disappointed. Guys do get played...they suck it up..and move on. Women are different.... they report to anyone who would listen...thus more reports.... and remain in the abusive relationship.

MissRaine69:

Vagina

MissRaine69:

We condition men to suffer in silence and raise women to be manipulative

In fact, you have won my love for 5 seconds today. Lol!

MissRaine69:

Female ....

it's well

MissRaine69:
Vagina

lol

GrammarNazi1:

...she...

Thank you.

Originalsly:


Emotional trauma..... as you described ...is about being played...not abused. Moving on.... when a woman begins to abuse a guy.... he either puts his foot down from jump...or dumps the woman...and moves on....no time to jump on social media with lamentations...thus...less reports.Doesn't mean he doesn't get upset...and disappointed. Guys do get played...they suck it up..and move on. Women are different.... they report to anyone who would listen...thus more reports.... and remain in the abusive relationship.

You don’t get it.
But it’s cool

babyfaceafrica:
hmm..there are two ways to.look at this issue;

1.men rarely talk about been abused in a relationship..even when they are purbished physically and emotionally,they just man-up...how are we to know what is going on...unlike the women that you will just blow breeze to her face.. but when she cries the whole works will think a truck hit her. ladies get more emotional sympathy from people.. it is easier for a lady to get sympathy from others than men.People expect that as a man,you should be able to handle your problems..don't cry,don't complain.. accept it with dignity.men who need help should start speaking up..if you don't blow your trumpet...no one will blow it for you.men should also stop been ass-lickers......




2.social media also plays a role in this...women crying sells more than men crying...who even cares if a man cry?.. No one wants to take your case..no one believes you.. they believe no woman can hurt a man.in certain countries,they won't even believe a woman can rape a man..imagine!!.. so who will believe you?..but these things are happening. Men need to start using there brain and not their third leg. there is more yo life than women,relationships and aex..if your woman is a devil ..leaves her and seek help. Men should also create organisations and NGOs to help men in pain.....it can be done

Check out #MGTOW

For a woman to abuse a man in a relationship, hmmmm the man self fall him own hand

Site examples pls

frozen70:
For a woman to abuse a man in a relationship, hmmmm the man self fall him own hand

Site examples pls

So we men should beat you women right?!

RavenClaw:


So we men should beat you women right?!

Would that solve the problem?

Real men don't beat women

frozen70:


Would that solve the problem?

Real men don't beat women

So what do they do when the women annoy them?

Buhahahahahaha.. This is so funny, i just don't know why. How do a man get abused in a relationship? I'm not getting it.

MissRaine69:
Some instances in every relationship! How come we do not talk about how some men suffer thanks to the actions of some women? That matters too does it not?

frozen70:


Would that solve the problem?

Real men don't beat women

who exactly are this real men you people talk about all the time self? Small this, real men, small that, real men.

IntrovertedK:
who exactly are this real men you people talk about all the time self? Small this, real men, small that, real men.

Lol, when we say real men

We mean a man that will see a woman as a weaker sex, love and appreciate her just like the way a mother loves her child

RavenClaw:



So what do they do when the women annoy them?

Good question, if and when her behaviour provokes you

Leave the house for a while, go and refresh yourself then come back home

Pretend as if nothing happened, if you are not hungry go to bed and sleep in the same bed with her

Leave her to herself and watch her conscience handle her

IntrovertedK:
who exactly are this real men you people talk about all the time self? Small this, real men, small that, real men.

What we mean by real men is

The ability to love and appreciate your woman and tolerate her the way mother's love and tolerate children

frozen70:



Good question, if and when her behaviour provokes you

Leave the house for a while, go and refresh yourself then come back home

Pretend as if nothing happened, if you are not hungry go to bed and sleep in the same bed with her

Leave her to herself and watch her conscience handle her

You think this is the Western world where a man will leave the house for the woman and go and chill out?!

So that she will annoy me anytime she wants to bring in her bf so that I will go out?!

And what if she is the type that doesn't have a conscience?!

RavenClaw:



You think this is the Western world where a man will leave the house for the woman and go and chill out?!

So that she will annoy me anytime she wants to bring in her bf so that I will go out?!

And what if she is the type that doesn't have a conscience?!

Be positive and drop this negative taughts about women

You came out of a woman

You would have to pass through a woman

But the choice to end with a woman is yours

frozen70:



Be positive and drop this negative taughts about women

You came out of a woman

You would have to pass through a woman

But the choice to end with a woman is yours

Lol. Yes I came out through a woman but was formed by a man.

Pass through which woman?

End with a woman?

RavenClaw:



Lol. Yes I came out through a woman but was formed by a man.

Pass through which woman?

End with a woman?

First woman your mum

Second woman your girl friend

The third woman your wife

So tell me how happy can you be with out these three people?

lawlhee:
The female gender has been hurt, molested, and witnessed all sort of inhumane behaviours from the male. Most of the actions that follow from the female is as a result of retaliation or being proactive. I am not in support of any form of violence but the males need to understand that when they treat a lady right, care, submission, tolerance and love follows naturally. They should stop the intentional hurt they cause to females.

4Q, you are just an empty drum.

@ missraine69
the average man is mentally conditioned by the society, parents, family n friends to suck it up. Right from childhood he is told that crying is a sign of weakness, he is told to "be a man" even when his beliefs, needs and desires are denied. He has to March on.. The average man was never prepared for a relationship, unlike girls who are trained to be care givers from day one even with the toys she plays with. Boys are rather trained to be more like soldiers, trained to fight, to contest, to be stronger, to score points in games then money then women and they grow up with that mindset that cages him and deep communication becomes a problem. The average male has a communication problem. Ask any man right now what are you thinking? And his answer is either "nothing or I was thinking about you". Self expression is a big issue cos he wasn't trained that way. so when he gets abused at home he does what he knows best, bottles it inside. until it degenerates into something that almost destroys him.

nuggarito:

4Q, you are just an empty drum.

Ewu

lawlhee:
The female gender has been hurt, molested, and witnessed all sort of inhumane behaviours from the male. Most of the actions that follow from the female is as a result of retaliation or being proactive. I am not in support of any form of violence but the males need to understand that when they treat a lady right, care, submission, tolerance and love follows naturally. They should stop the intentional hurt they cause to females.

from what u just said it seems ur a so bias,i av come to realise that most of you girls support each other even when you know the other person is wrong, only few girls are plain and truthful

Originalsly:


Emotional trauma..... as you described ...is about being played...not abused. Moving on.... when a woman begins to abuse a guy.... he either puts his foot down from jump...or dumps the woman...and moves on....no time to jump on social media with lamentations...thus...less reports.Doesn't mean he doesn't get upset...and disappointed. Guys do get played...they suck it up..and move on. Women are different.... they report to anyone who would listen...thus more reports.... and remain in the abusive relationship.

you deserve a bottle of cold orijin

pich4real:
from what u just said it seems ur a so bias,i av come to realise that most of you girls support each other even when you know the other person is wrong, only few girls are plain and truthful

Whatsoever I wrote isn't a lie and you know it.

lawlhee:

Ewu

Akpa amu

frozen70:


First woman your mum

Second woman your girl friend

The third woman your wife

So tell me how happy can you be with out this three people?

I guess you are right.

RavenClaw:



I guess you are right.

Lol