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A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by kennybabs1980: 8:33pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
Nike is my niece, she's very close to me. She is 27 year old. A very pretty lady, she works as an admin officer in one of the federal universities in the soutnwest. Her former fiancee relocated to Canada in 2016 and wrote to apologize to her that he cannot continue with the relationship since he wanted to go back to the university to be trained as a medical doctor. She didn't date any other person until recently. She met a Civil Engineer with FERMA during a conference in Abuja in March, 2018 and they started chatting. The guy had married once but his wife died in a car crash in 2014, they had no issue. She found the guy so interesting but she is not comfortable with the age difference between them. I didn't see any issue with their age difference if she can cope with the guy and they'll understand each other. Friends in the house, is anything wrong with an 18 year age difference between a husband and wife? |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by sisisioge: 8:43pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
No...is he cute? I am liking the older guy, younger girl relationships these days...so long as they are legit ![]() 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by donstan18: 8:45pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
Your niece should be bothered, not you. 4 Likes |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Alaadin(m): 8:46pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
So she's 27 the guy is 45 they are both single , let their ship sail na ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by NoToPile: 8:53pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
I find it a bit amusing that you keep calling him a guy ![]() Not all ladies can cope with the age difference but then he might be a good husband for your niece who knows. Maybe she's scared of him him 'daddying ' her. 1 Like |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by perfectcrown(f): 8:53pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
Honestly,i dont see anything bad in it... My hubby is 18years older than me... & we're happy together. 3 Likes |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Seahawk: 9:09pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
They may not have any issues. Or they may. But she’s 27 and he’s almost 50. She should factor in sexual satisfaction because he will be going downhill while she’s reaching her sexual peak (women peak sexually around 40-45 years). He will be in his 60s then. People tend to overlook this important part of marriage until they are experiencing it. I do like a guy who’s older than the wife but 10 years is my max. 18yrs is almost 20yrs older. Otherwise any other issues they could have may be personality based and those aren’t age specific. 6 Likes |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by thorpido(m): 9:10pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
The most important thing to consider should be how they both flow together.If they can relate well,then age is just a number. Some people do have reservations and will not date their uncle's age mate though. Let your niece search inwards and decide. If she still feels not comfortable,let her date someone in her age group. |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by dollytino4real(f): 9:10pm On Sep 25, 2018 |
which one is pleasant! inside again |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 1:10am On Sep 26, 2018 |
donstan18: Obviously we know the niece == OP. |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 1:18am On Sep 26, 2018 |
sisisioge: perfectcrown: How do you women even sleep at Night? 18 years. If these was in the days of Methuselah where people live 1000 years, then Ok not now. I'm still trying to factor how [18 years + happiness] altogether in one word to be honest, anyway Its not my happiness. Lara & Oshomole things. |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by KanwuliaExtra: 1:41am On Sep 26, 2018 |
Ask Precious Chikwendu-Fani-Kayode! ![]() After 3 wives and FIVE DAUGHTERS! ![]() Meet KHAL DROGO and KHALEESI of ASOKORO! ![]() 4 Likes
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Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by UjuJoan2: 2:33am On Sep 26, 2018 |
Is he rich? Money makes up for a lot of deficiencies. No need marrying an old man and then spend your golden years catering for him and his responsibilities. 6 Likes |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 11:07am On Sep 26, 2018 |
she should know that his age or the age difference of 18-years between them cannot be changed. she either accepts it, or it's whatever. the decision is hers to make. |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Taal17: 3:17pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
Also consider that he may have chosen someone as young as her because he thinks she would be more fertile due to her age She may want to find out 1. What was the reason for the lack of kids 2. If she is unable to have kids for a number of years will he stay? I'm pretty sure if he had kids already he may no have chosen a gf that much younger than him. If he lives to 60 she would be 42years...she may want to check out the lifestyles of 60 year olds |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 4:22pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:I read this like 5times! On point! 1 Like |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 4:58pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
sisisioge: #smiles |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 5:06pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
It's a life decision she has to make herself. She's the one who will live with him if she decides to marry him. The cogent questions are: Does he love and respect her opinions? Does she love him and is he someone she can respect If they are simpatico then I'll say God bless their union. There are age mates who get married and are ill suited for each other. Let them date awhile before taking the plunge. All the best to them. |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by sisisioge: 5:49pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 6:34pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
sisisioge: Sup dear. Hope you're good. |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by sisisioge: 6:39pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 6:42pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
sisisioge: Awwww...dont be like that. Always here for you. ![]() |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by sisisioge: 7:00pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
Ioannes: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Get out of town...got my arms around another bobo already ![]() ![]() |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 7:46pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
sisisioge: I trust you bebe. You too much. Omo to fine ju. Tell that bobo if he doesn't treat you right I'm coming for his head o. At least he won't mind if I send you kisses now ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by sisisioge: 7:49pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
Ioannes: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Nobody: 8:22pm On Sep 26, 2018 |
donstan18: As in i tire for nairalanders. Cant she say she is the one ? |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by duduade: 6:07am On Sep 27, 2018 |
cruchenutii: Thank God you know it's not your business... Scratch that.. For how long has Lara and Baba Osho been together... Badtbelle |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Katier00(f): 9:57am On Sep 27, 2018 |
The older the better. Older men are more tolerant, caring and understanding and when it comes to bedmatics give it to them. The only problem is that their level of insecurity, no be here. 3 Likes |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by thorpido(m): 5:38pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
Katier00:You sure@bolded? With erectile dysfunction and declining strength? 1 Like |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by djon78(m): 6:12pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
thorpido: Story. When 70 year old men are still bearing children. |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by Katier00(f): 6:39pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
thorpido:I don't think so, indomie generation suffer more from dysfunction 3 Likes |
Re: A Pleasant 45 Year Old Man Proposed To Her by thorpido(m): 8:35pm On Sep 27, 2018 |
djon78:It takes just 5mins of sex to make a fertile woman pregnant.Bearing children isn't enough a yardstick. 3 Likes |
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