Don't let your friend deceive you, it's very possible, he's not a virgin that's why.

I don't debate issues like this anymore because when someone says something like "the colour is not black"... the instant reaction for anyone emotionally involved in the issue is: "so you are saying it is white"... forgetting there are different shades of grey.

FatAmy:
I did and apparently you're team virginity is lack of opportunity.

AbramKentwood:
I don't debate issues like this anymore because when someone says something like "the colour is not black"... the instant reaction for anyone emotional involved in the issue is: "so you are saying it is white"... forgetting there are different shades of grey.

Oh very true. I understand

“emotionally involved”...lol

Its possible, if you are not carried away by lust.

Orla234:
My dear, trust me, it's very possible.

Mind your company.
Train your mind to focus on your goal.
If you a Christian, get busy for God.
Empower yourself.
Try not to ask 'them' for your salient needs.




It pays to be chaste my dear.

simply put the truth nothing but the whole truth... I nd my wife to be re currently on that path. Hopefully by december this year or january next year we will eat d fruits of our physical labour nd d oda one too:-D;-)

I have a cousin who is a lawyer, still single and virgin.. so it's possible

funmisticqueen:
like you can afford me. I'm high maintenance.

u never can tell, u don't know me, do you? Hi me on whatsapp 08064357013

Do you masturbate?

Alexaonfleek:
lol.I'm a Catholic too

U r in legion?

MVLOX:


simply put the truth nothing but the whole truth... I nd my wife to be re currently on that part. Hopely by december this year or january next year we will eat d fruits of our physical labour nd d oda one too

simply put the truth nothing but the whole truth... I nd my wife to be re currently on that part. Hopely by december this year or january next year we will eat d fruits of our physical labour nd d oda one too

Well done oniovo. God bless and keep you both. Ain't easy, but very well worth it.

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bacilus:
the guy you are keeping it for, will he also keep his?
Madam, don't waste your time keeping it coz u might regret it somehow

I'm not just doing it for d sake of my guy.other important reasons count too.

Rapsino:

U r in legion?

yeah I'm a legionary

milemimi93:


Virginity wont make u a better wife.

Send me pm. I want to deflower u.

lukadiswan

OlaAshawo:
i want to fork you

I don't want to spoon u

Ursulaa:
Awww.... me too, also planning to keep mine till that special night by his grace.....I think its possible

can I know u better

Alexaonfleek:
lukadiswan

I have a dope d!ck.. Send me pm let's talk on how to get u deflowered.

Just a tip. Masturbation doesnt make you a virgin.

Alexaonfleek:
yeah I'm a legionary

OK I see. U can if you are determined. Cos lyk I said I can bet on my friend that she is a virgin. No one knows cos of the way she does. Good luck

As long as you focus on your academics and career, keep good and ambitious friends and have good moral values, it's very possible.

Stop telling 'friends' you want to keep yours till your wedding night. In fact, don't discuss your sexual life or lack of it with anyone. Else, your virginity will be forcefully taken from you so fast that it will do you like film trick, that is, if they don't impregnate you on top.

Wisdom is profitable to direct in these wicked times.

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Let me encourage You poster, I got married at age 28 and as a virgin to my hubby that we courted for 10 years, many temptaions by the devil but, God kept me through.
He cherished me so much. Just pray for Grace and don't tempt any man so that u will not be defiled.
I made up my mind to marry as a virgin at Age 13. I don't tell anybody that I'm a virgin, and as a Christian, u pray for Grace and don't say someone is holy oh. Flee from temptations and secret or lonely situation with any man. How will help you. I have 2 children nao and I'm enjoying my intimate relationship with my husband very well . He longs so well for the moment of being together.
So, conclusively, don't let any man deceive you that if you marry as a virgin, u won't enjoy sex . It's a lie from the devil.
May God bless us and keep us rapturable till Jesus comes Amen.

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Public Service Announcement: Nobody cares about your virginity, do with it what you wish.

It is only possible if you have a good reason asides keeping it for your wedding night.

One reason could be the fact that sex before marriage is a sinful act called Fornication. If you are kind of person that fears God and always willing to do the will of God it will be easy for you to stay chaste. However, keeping your Virginity till marriage shouldn't be the main focus but building up yourself as a good woman your partner will be forever grateful to be with after the wedding night.

like someone responded; you don't have to carry it on your head.

-you don't need to argue or engage in unfruitful discussion (about how a lady can or cannot keep herself) with anybody; just get your priorities right; That guy discussing with you may have some interest
-know what you want in your future partner
-Be determined
-Give our ear-time to discussion that will benefit you positively

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Dnt get into any relationship nd stay away from dat guy dat sed you cann't be a virgin for long. He was to harvest you nd if you re not careful, he wld do dat soon. Watch your thoughts nd sleep very well. Be far from social media. I mean dnt be an addict to it. Be courageous esp bc of non virgins cos dey wld taunt you including married women cos dey knw you ain't lyk dem or their children. You wld be bullied, blackmailed, backstabbed, face xter assassination till you hv no other option than thinking o giving it up. I pray at dat tym, you hv wisdom enof to knw dat dat dat is the reason for all dos. So dear be courageous. Dnt take anyfn from any guy no matter hw genuine he myt be nd no matter hw broke you are except if you re borrowing nd even at dat be very careful. If you dnt hv money, start now to look for hw to survive legitimately of course. You can start liquid soap making or stuffs like dat. Gain of 500 a day is sth. Dnt tell pple you re a virgin nd insult anybdy dat asks you dat questn very well. And why is your pix here? Dnt you knw pple can trace you nd dat most Nigerian men dnt tek eye to sees virgin? Dey either psyche you to get it or rape you or use you for ritual bt sex especially? Tek yourself out nd mek sure tis abt yourself dnt accept any table talk wif any guy except if tis necessary. Dnt be naive. If there is any reason to accept a gift from the opposite sex,keep dat gift or it equivalent in cash or another gift in case if he comes for it or send a gift too. ThankGod you re young. Dis is the time for you to read and develop yrslr as mch as possible nd wen you reach d age you feel like you want to settle den, dnt accept sex b4 marriage xcept if your intuition says otherwise. And avoid church and church pple for there is no people that commit immorality more dan dem nw including their pastors (esp all dos daddy nd daughters) Hence, d persecution you wld face outside for being chaste nd possibly serving God, wld be baby compared to the one in the church bt d if you insist, mek sure you get strong heart the more. Meanwhile, I dnt mean you shldn't go to church or serve God except wen dat's d last option. And lest I forget, older millenials bully younger millenials alot for being better dan dem esp in the area of virginity nd marriage shld anyfn brng dem 2geda so get reasy. But you re not a younger millennial so I dnt knw.

milemimi93:
I have a dope d!ck.. Send me pm let's talk on how to get u deflowered.na

na by force

icogb:
Dnt get into any relationship nd stay away from dat guy dat sed you cann't be a virgin for long. He was to harvest you nd if you re not careful, he wld do dat soon. Watch your thoughts nd sleep very well. Be far from social media. I mean dnt be an addict to it. Be courageous esp bc of non virgins cos dey wld taunt you including married women cos dey knw you ain't lyk dem or their children. You wld be bullied, blackmailed, backstabbed, face xter assassination till you hv no other option than thinking o giving it up. I pray at dat tym, you hv wisdom enof to knw dat dat dat is the reason for all dos. So dear be courageous. Dnt take anyfn from any guy no matter hw genuine he myt be nd no matter hw broke you are except if you re borrowing nd even at dat be very careful. If you dnt hv money, start now to look for hw to survive legitimately of course. You can start liquid soap making or stuffs like dat. Gain of 500 a day is sth. Dnt tell pple you re a virgin nd insult anybdy dat asks you dat questn very well. And why is your pix here? Dnt you knw pple can trace you nd dat most Nigerian men dnt tek eye to sees virgin? Dey either psyche you to get it or rape you or use you for ritual bt sex especially? Tek yourself out nd mek sure tis abt yourself dnt accept any table talk wif any guy except if tis necessary. Dnt be naive. If there is any reason to accept a gift from the opposite sex,keep dat gift or it equivalent in cash or another gift in case if he comes for it or send a gift too. ThankGod you re young. Dis is the time for you to read and develop yrslr as mch as possible nd wen you reach d age you feel like you want to settle den, dnt accept sex b4 marriage xcept if your intuition says otherwise. And avoid church and church pple for there is no people that commit immorality more dan dem nw including their pastors (esp all dos daddy nd daughters) Hence, d persecution you wld face outside for being chaste nd possibly serving God, wld be baby compared to the one in the church bt d if you insist, mek sure you get strong heart the more. Meanwhile, I dnt mean you shldn't go to church or serve God except wen dat's d last option. And lest I forget, older millenials bully younger millenials alot for being better dan dem esp in the area of virginity nd marriage shld anyfn brng dem 2geda so get reasy. But you re not a younger millennial so I dnt knw.

thanks a lot.your advice really got me thinking. This is actually one of d sensiby posts I've seen so far on this thread.thanks again and I'll keep your advice for my younger ones

isererefunmi:
Let me encourage You poster, I got married at age 28 and as a virgin to my hubby that we courted for 10 years, many temptaions by the devil but, God kept me through.
He cherished me so much. Just pray for Grace and don't tempt any man so that u will not be defiled.
I made up my mind to marry as a virgin at Age 13. I don't tell anybody that I'm a virgin, and as a Christian, u pray for Grace and don't say someone is holy oh. Flee from temptations and secret or lonely situation with any man. How will help you. I have 2 children nao and I'm enjoying my intimate relationship with my husband very well . He longs so well for the moment of being together.
So, conclusively, don't let any man deceive you that if you marry as a virgin, u won't enjoy sex . It's a lie from the devil.
May God bless us and keep us rapturable till Jesus comes Amen.

thanks sis

neowelsh:
Sorry OP, you just lost a potential husband. I can never marry a virgin.

lot but I didn't ask u to marry me