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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Oct 08, 2018
themanderon:
It is very possible. Don't allow these minions from hell to fool you with their lies. They are many on these forum. Listen to that lone voice in the wilderness telling you its possible.
GOD BLESS You man.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Oct 08, 2018
milemimi93:
My body count is 63.. My target is to get to 100 before then end of this year..




Good luck.


Better be careful.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by adekunle6224(m): 11:19pm On Oct 08, 2018
yeah it's possible for girls. Vote Atiku 2019, Nigeria really need to go digital from analogue, Atiku Atiku Atiku
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by ibrahimdoc: 11:21pm On Oct 08, 2018
Orla234:
My dear, trust me, it's very possible.
Mind your company. Train your mind to focus on your goal. If you a Christian, get busy for God. Empower yourself. Try not to ask 'them' for your salient needs.



It pays to be chaste my dear.
it is as easy as abc. i dnt understand this big deal about sex.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by neowelsh(m): 11:21pm On Oct 08, 2018
Sorry OP, you just lost a potential husband. I can never marry a virgin.

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by AbramKentwood: 11:22pm On Oct 08, 2018
It depends on the level of a lady's physical attractiveness.... I said this a while ago and it resulted in a debate.

The summary of what I mean is: the less attractive a girl, the lower the number of "active" and "aggressive" toasters that would be willing to do anything to sleep with her.

You can dance around the issue but that aspect is a very big issue.

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by candygist: 11:23pm On Oct 08, 2018
Orla234:
My dear, trust me, it's very possible.

Mind your company.
Train your mind to focus on your goal.
If you a Christian, get busy for God.
Empower yourself.
Try not to ask 'them' for your salient needs.




It pays to be chaste my dear.

Keep fooling yourself . When we say virgin, we mean like the virgin Mary . Not the virgins that masturbath with Love Machine or the once that finger themself once in a while o.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Oct 08, 2018
Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend .

In my opinion this is a stupid topic for any woman to be talking about, why doesn't anybody have this discussion about males. Females like you and your friend are the kind that place unnecessary pressure and value on something very irrelevant. Being a virgin shouldn't be a Woman thing, it would be an everybody thing if it's that great.

Darling have more progressive discussions and not the ones that knowingly or unknowingly judge women by their hymen.
Keeping her virginity till her wedding night my ahse. people should stay chaste for themselves, cause it benefits them, not as a gift to someone or for someone.

The best reply from y'all would be that I'm pained cause I'm not a Virgin, if it is do better.

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 11:23pm On Oct 08, 2018
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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by jaxxy(m): 11:24pm On Oct 08, 2018
Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Quite possible and it’s not a big deal, watch ur friends circle, who u date and have a strong will to keep it. However these days being a virgin doesn’t guarantee ur decent. Lol
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Oct 08, 2018
AbramKentwood:
It depends the level of a lady's physical attractiveness.... I said this a while ago and it resulted in a debate.

The summary of what I mean is: the less attractive a girl, the lower the number of "active" and "aggressive" toasters that would be willing to do anything to sleep with her.

You can dance around the issue but that aspect is a very big issue.

Why is it hard to believe that someone women have discipline enough to stay chaste.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by frozen70(f): 11:27pm On Oct 08, 2018
You can't feel the taste of what you don't know

What you haven't eaten before will not hungry you

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by milemimi93(m): 11:28pm On Oct 08, 2018
JamaicanLove:




Good luck.

Better be careful.
hope u will help me meet my target..
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 08, 2018
Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Ignore all the male & female oloshos here, ITS VERY POSSIBLE, I know atleast 3 people who kept their virginity till marriage, 2 ladies passed the mid twenties & the last guy was a friend though significantly older than me, he was 30 when he got married, though he said his wife is also virgin( can't really confirm cause I don't know much about her) but she seems cool & hardly interact with other men apart from her husband.

So my sister, maintaining ur virginity is easy IF YOU WANT TO.

Personally as a virgin, I will only marry a virgin, am not really Interested in other guys "used & dumped" leftovers. Having our first time on the same day will be super cool & awesome. looking forward to it in like 4-5 years time, but first make I gather enough millions for marriage before the chosen one débuts

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 08, 2018
milemimi93:
hope u will help me meet my target..



I'm not available.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Oct 08, 2018
Do you think it's possible Saff?.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by LordIsaac(m): 11:32pm On Oct 08, 2018
Tamarapetty:
I pray the guy u're keeping it for is totally worth it.
No condition was attached to it in scriptures. Where manƴ fail is in their ɗesire to have the gooɗ they do or show mirrored ɓack to them. Besides, it is for one's own gooɗ and sanity!
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by milemimi93(m): 11:32pm On Oct 08, 2018
HEFAIROHLUWA:

its your choice! What do you really want? Do you want to explore/experience it because a lot of people feel/tell you its cool or you feel the urgue? We all get Hot so if you see it as something worth keeping, stay true to it and do not let people that cannot control their bodies tell you otherwise here saying its not possible.. over 90% of folks here feel annoyed when virginity issues are raised and will want you to be like them.. you DONT have to be a christian to do what is 100% safe, physciologically wise and right. Aids and other sexually transmitted diseases were really aided by people that couldnt control themselves and their bodies.. Whatever decision you take stay safe,be careful and avoid taking dangerous risks. The world is getting crazier wink

Haven't u seen a virgin with Aids?

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by AbramKentwood: 11:34pm On Oct 08, 2018
FatAmy:


Why is it hard to believe that someone women have discipline enough to stay chaste.

Read what I wrote again.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by milemimi93(m): 11:36pm On Oct 08, 2018
JamaicanLove:




I'm not available.
My d!ck is selective.. I don't think it will enter u. Last I checkd, ur kitty was tiny..
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by berrystunn(m): 11:36pm On Oct 08, 2018
Orla234:
My dear, trust me, it's very possible.

Mind your company.
Train your mind to focus on your goal.
If you a Christian, get busy for God.
Empower yourself.
Try not to ask 'them' for your salient needs.




It pays to be chaste my dear.

You don't use blood ABI??
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by ebey0003: 11:40pm On Oct 08, 2018
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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by amakabel: 11:41pm On Oct 08, 2018
what about guys? is it only girls that are suppose to keep themselves?
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by gargoyle: 11:41pm On Oct 08, 2018
Alexaonfleek:
I swear.its only God that will help me in this Nigeria

It's the same everywhere.

Kid-girl

grin grin
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Respect55(m): 11:43pm On Oct 08, 2018
Very possible dude. The last two girls I dated were virgins and I left them as such.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by gargoyle: 11:44pm On Oct 08, 2018
Elder0001:
Keep your virginity because you want to not because of a man that might have probably fuçked dozens of women in his life.

Societal and Christian primitive expectations shouldn't define you.

Your life,Your choice.

Funny assumption. But true
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 11:47pm On Oct 08, 2018
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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 11:47pm On Oct 08, 2018
This is a personal decision and not for public consumption.... When u later do it now you won't remember running down here to tell how it happened....
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Next person pls

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by gargoyle: 11:48pm On Oct 08, 2018
How intact your hymen is.

Character isn't defined by virginity.

Some ladies may be virgins because their evil character has driven many away. grin grin cheesy

And yes. To me, virginity is overrated.

I know many non-virgins that got married and made good wives.

To each his own anyways.

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Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Opatoranking(m): 11:49pm On Oct 08, 2018
My dear.... Don't mind Al those against it,iy shows they lack self control.... Yoruba Adage says"AJEGBODO OUN WA ENI KURA" that means someone that knows truly that his or her life is worthless will definitely look around for others .
Virginity is a thing of joy, don't let them deceive you.
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by gargoyle: 11:49pm On Oct 08, 2018
How intact your hymen is.

Character isn't defined by virginity.

Some ladies may be virgins because their evil character has driven many away. grin grin cheesy

And yes. To me, virginity is overrated.

I know many non-virgins that got married and made good wives.

To each his own anyways.

Annoying thing is, na for this naija some ladies dey take this virginity too seriously. That's why many become bland on the bed during marriage
Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by 1759King: 11:50pm On Oct 08, 2018
Well I don't know about keeping it till wedding night but I met my wife a virgin. She was about 25 and a virgin when we started dating. She simple told me that sex was off the table and if I can't accept that I should walk.

When I asked and asked, she opened up and told me she was still a virgin although she wasn't trying to keep it until wedding night but that she plan on sleeping with only one man all her life.

When we finally did, she was indeed still a virgin and that was after we got engaged and preparing to settle down.

PS: we dated 2 years+ with no sex!

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