Dear Bunmi

I have been married for close to 30years. Eighteeen years ago, my husband and I went through a rough patch when his philandering took an alarming turn. Out of frustration, I did something I regretted by starting an affair with a man in my office. He was single then, but in a relationship with a lady he later married.

I found out later my lover had told a friend of his who is a member of my husband’s club about our affair. I’ve met my husband’s club member a couple of times and I’m scared he could inform my husband about our illicit affair. I don’t want to carry on with a marriage in jeopardy due something that happened several years ago.

Boma, by e-mail.

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Would my lover’s friend spill the beans? https://gistupafrica.com/2018/10/11/would-my-lovers-friend-spill-the-beans/